I was looking forward to Valentine's Day with excitement ... But it didn't take place for me ... We woke up in the morning (we've been living together for about a year and a half), congratulated each other on Valentine's Day, only with a kiss, I left the presents for the evening. and expectations had to be romantic. Alas ... it just didn't take place. At 13:00 my girlfriend called me to go out and buy presents for the "men" (consider our friends, because we are both not married), and N. (this is my friend) told me that he was going out for a little. Naturally, as a witty lady, I decided that he had prepared a surprise for me and was going out to make it happen. My girlfriend and I hung out, we found terribly romantic gifts for the halves. We went to my friend's to pack them, and my phone rang - it was N. - he said, that colleagues called him and invited him to Tryphon Zarezan to sit down, have a drink, a bite ... you know how masculine he is. Ok, I told myself, but the evening will be with me. N. came home at about 19:30 - slightly drunk (I say drunk because I've never seen him drunk), and after 10-15 minutes he called a friend of his who had bought some new acquisition and they agreed. to see each other in about 30 minutes in a restaurant to treat his friend. Tt-tt-tt ... and I boiled. I didn't make a scandal, but I cried, and he started to justify that he couldn't refuse his colleagues the guest for Trifon Zarezan (he hadn't even felt that I was angry about the night he was going out with his friend si). He also justified that I went out with my girlfriend first, and I asked him, "What did I have to tell you I was going out, I wanted to create a little romance in the evening, which never took place. I told him that from today on Valentine's Day does not exist for me ...
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And something similar happened to me, it's not just you ... the conclusion is that most men are pigs :)
The biggest simplicity is that on a certain day you have to show someone that you love him and precisely because of this fact these confusing situations occur where expectations and heartaches diverge, which in turn causes even the breakdown of relationships! It cannot be said by any directive that today you will be more in love and more devoted than all the other days of the year because it is a holiday of lovers - these things one must feel internally and show and prove them in everyday life and that is where one should be. seeks the key to the success of a relationship,
This is my opinion but this is hardly the man of your life without romance there is simply no love and if he doesn't understand you then somewhere there is someone you will meet and when you meet him and feel the thrill in your stomach you will understand that he is the man for you. only one can try and the other is naughty :))))))))))
Your friend is right, and I don't like these "holidays" out of obligation. I completely understand it ...
Maybe it's a day or two of holidays? This is nonsense! We have a holiday and this is Trifon Zarezan. What else? Catholic holiday. Let us not forget that Orthodoxy is before Catholicism after all. Let's stop Americanizing! Who does not have any individuality and is forced from everywhere (TV and magazines), not to intrude. I just can't believe that you bought him a present, that you tremble at how he will react, as long as Christmas is long gone. A bottle of wine and good company, so it is celebrated 14/02.
Dear God, I had a similar problem. My wife got angry when I told her I didn't celebrate Catholic holidays. I love her and I would go to a restaurant with her every night. But why should I do it on various fictional holidays. What if tomorrow is Valentine's Day on the Indian calendar, and for me it's Christian Family Day? I'm tired of foreign values that the government and the paid media impose on us. A Catholic church that has burned half of Europe at the stake, but has managed to merge firmly with secular power, imposes a vicegerent of God on earth, and the news begins and ends with the pope. In short: He may love you, but he should not celebrate holidays invented by Sulio and Pulio. A holiday with him is every evening spent together, not the one that various hypocrites impose on you as a holiday. I'm sure 90% of those who took their halves to a restaurant on the 14th are HYPOCRITES who think of their wives only when the radio or television reminds them of it. Think!
Number 5, who are you to determine how 14.02 is celebrated? Author, there was a misunderstanding between you and ... He did not understand at all that you want to celebrate St. Valentine. Your holiday has been ruined, so has his. So do not experience it dramatically, and plan the next holiday together - or at least find out what you will celebrate. And don't make scenes for him, but give him the gift and tell him that he owes you for the next holiday, laugh and that's it. St. Valentine and Trifon Zarezan have it every year, so it's not scary. Keep your head up! P.S. Men aren't that romantic, but that doesn't mean yours doesn't love you!
Number 7 .... lol Number 6 says it very well, evalarka. Be real people! of 5
That men are pigs is not in dispute. You are talking about 14.02, so you behave like that on other holidays as well, for example. on birthdays, you only perform well on New Year's Eve because you can drink and get together with friends without anyone making you feel bad and misunderstood. The problem is not so much for 14.02, as in the fact that men do not think to give a flower for no reason or to make the woman next to you feel special. If you did it from time to time no woman will wait 14.02 to feel special and will he knows she is.
"That men are pigs ..." Apparently they are in your life, think if it's not because of you.
I'm 6 thanks to 5 for the support. Dude, I'm glad there are people like you. We will somehow get along with our wives / even if we are pigs /, but our children do not think about how to wash their brains. However, I have faith. The bad thing is that we spend little time with them
leleeeeeeee why do you deny this holiday? The holidays are to entertain and cheer people up, I don't see anything wrong with celebrating that even though it's Catholic who wants to celebrate it, and about showing love, in my opinion, show your love every day, love yourself, say on 14.02 just do something different, give yourself gifts (they are more special like plush toys) and drink and have even more fun than in the rest of everyday life. Author, and the next year is 14.02. I wish you a lot of love and don't be angry with your friend, they are like that by nature, they are just not like us, the women :))))
Valentine's Day is a Catholic holiday, I do not recognize it. My friend and I celebrated Trifon Zarezan with friends, eating and homemade red wine. Don't suffer so much, because men are just like that. They don't do it on purpose, they don't even understand why women are angry. That's why on holidays it's good to organize things in such a way that you can't get away with colleagues unexpectedly. I had organized the gathering in advance so that there would be no movement with colleagues and especially female colleagues. He, of course, never feels that he is on purpose, hee hee hee!
What do you justify that St. Valentine's Day was a Catholic holiday? !!! Why should we expect tenderness and attention on a specific date ??? Well, because you don't remember the other 364 days of the year anyway, and maybe we hope that when everyone around is in a festive mood, you gentlemen will remember that you have (still) someone by your side !!!
Hey 14 I'm 6. Don't expose yourself. I hope you're not one of those men who only use them for cooking, laundry and sex when they get drunk. If yours is like that, I'm sorry - you chose it yourself. For me, however, the question is really fundamental. Don't take offense, but really the relationship between men and women is difficult. However, I will not celebrate the holidays of those who think that with violence and money they can impose everything. I will quote Sandor Petyofi with a syllable from me, which I will write in capital letters - make sense of it and I hope you understand it! "I want love and freedom on earth. For love - I would give my life, For my freedom I would give my love !!!!!"
I am 5 and I follow the development of the topic, 14 is 7 and 9. I don't think it makes sense to convince this woman of anything.
6 I'm 14 :)) I'm definitely not one of those people who use them for laundry, cooking, etc .. I will agree with you, however, that the relationship between men and women is really difficult because their thinking is built in different directions, in different ways. Things that for some are completely normal, for others are absolutely unnecessary and unknown. I will allow myself to recommend you a very nice series of useful books on this topic. The author is Alan Pease. I recommend them to others. You will find out where many of the daily problems between the sexes come from.
I'm 14 again and again at 6 I didn't want to offend you if I did, I'm sorry once again to read books but in my opinion the differences come from the tendency to compromise We are always either in one extreme or in the other If we fall in love with someone we compromise with ourselves If someone loves us and does everything for us we don't care That's why life is colorful I think I have reached a reasonable compromise, but in the context of the really nasty world we live in, I am glad that my wife understands that there really are things of principle. which books are you talking about Specify because I'm interested to know where you get Respect or not for the otherfloor
I was very bored.