Hello! I am writing this post because I have no one to share my thoughts with ... but I am tormented. I am 18 years old. My high school years were spent in a very strong attraction to one person. There were people who were interested in me, but I rejected them in stupid ways. And there was always a boy in my mind. I couldn't take my eyes off the first moment I saw him. He was not handsome, but he radiated calm and poise. He wasn't one of the "popular" ropes who treated me badly, but he was still friends with them. Somehow, without knowing him, I started thinking only about him. Now he has a girlfriend, much much more beautiful than me. And it still hurts, and I know it's not normal anymore. I want all this to stop ... But how? !? I know it's not love when only one is attracted. But I care about him, despite, that we do not know each other. Please advise me something, or just leave your opinion ...
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Apps, you're only 18 .. Don't immerse yourself in this boy or you'll miss something else that could turn out to be your man! Heads up, I wish you to meet someone else!
True love is when you want the other to be well and happy, even without you. Try to focus on yourself. As much as some people don't want to admit it, if you look good, a lot of men will be attracted to you. This is something you need to emphasize. This boy has a girlfriend, and you don't know each other - your chances with him are close to 0. What the hell does the word "rope" mean? You meant "lice" maybe?
Yes, I'm in the same situation, but I'm a boy. Even when I was enrolling in high school, I liked her. At the moment, her friend is much more popular than me. I can't stop thinking about her, how if I was braver 2-3 years ago now I would be with her, etc. It's my last year in high school and I hope to forget her after that. They say that time heals ...