Hello. I am a boy of 17 almost 18. I study in a class where the female presence is 90 percent. I liked one of the girls from the ninth grade, but then something stopped me from telling her. We became very good friends, but I had more than just a friendship in my heart. But alas, she has a boyfriend for the second year. I see her every day and my heart breaks with grief. I tried to forget her but the fact that I see her every day and we are friends bothers me. I've always wanted to tell her how I feel, but now it's best to fight for my words, that's not the problem. I'm afraid of losing her as a friend and admitting how I feel, because it will ruin me completely. I do not know at all how to act in this hopeless situation. I guess he won't give me any advice, but I'm relieved that I shared it with someone.
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I will give you advice! ... If you feel something more towards her, just say it or show it. Ok. However, you are afraid of losing her even as a friend, in my opinion if the girl in question is aware, she will understand you. Besides, I can't believe he gets angry because of your words, because it's in your heart and no one can control your feelings except yourself. Therefore ... proudly stick your head in and just take these risks forward, even if you take a paint, at least you will know what you will do in the future !!! Come on success :)))
Hello, a girl of 13 writes to you. I hope you will take my advice, as from a friend and a very serious person. Not like a paw just wondering where to write. So, I suggest you tell the chick everything you feel because you don't know what she's really feeling, and don't be fooled into thinking she has a boyfriend. We women are nasty creatures, hey, he may not like it. Life is never as simple as in the lyrics of a song, but you have to take risks, accept losses, and not be proud of victories. And no matter what happens, your gaze should be only forward, because dear LIFE IS ONE! And if you don't share your feelings with her now, when will it be ?! Take the risk, because you really don't know what is in her heart !!!
Don't miss the chances that life offers you NOW, because you will regret it later!
And I'm for you to share how you feel even if she doesn't want anything to do with you because of her boyfriend, I can't believe she's offended because a girl is always happy when a boy explains himself in love or shows her that he likes her, it doesn't matter that you have a friend, you won't lose anything. Tell her and write what happened: P Good luck!
I think it would be good to admit to her how you feel .. It is not known if she really only accepts you as a friend ... :) So try and do not be afraid. :)
Well, admit it, even though I myself am in the same situation as I advise you to do as you see fit. Success!