I am in love with a man of 44, and I am 51. We have known each other for a long time, for 4 years, he is in Sofia, and I am in Varna, I could not tell him, I will most likely not have this ability. This torments me constantly and I don't know what to do. I feel that this is the man of my life.
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There are two points of view: The first is ... You are 44 and he is 51, you will not feel good in this relationship, you will always have obstacles and misunderstandings. You are in Varna and he is in Sofia ... a long-distance relationship cannot exist, or if it does, it will be very painful. This is the bad point of view. The good thing is: If you really love each other, the years will not affect you so much. And if you can't do without each other, you will live either in Varna or in Sofia, and so you will be together. But these things can only happen if you both love each other, and you do not share anywhere that he has feelings for you, if there is, everything will be fine, but if not, you will just have to forget it.
I completely agree with number 1, but I will add something if you think that this is the man of your life, fight for him, forget restraints and prejudices, and hopefully in time he will become attached to you and love you, I will be in your place. tell him about the years, if he cares about you, he will accept you, take a risk, otherwise you will live forever with resentment and doubts, life is short, live it as you choose. Success !
Tell him.
Yes, tell him indifferently, in passing. Leave room for retreat.