On Friday I had sex with my boyfriend, which happened as soon as we entered the apartment ... Everything happened so fast that we had not washed our hands, and he penetrated my vagina with his fingers ... Tomorrow I am a gynecologist, because I have slight itching and secretion! I hope everything passes, but I have a question. How do I show him that hygiene is important to me After all, if we wash our hands thoroughly, at some point it will touch something again (say the clothes) and it can infect me again? Is my immune system weak? And are there really substances in most lubricants that protect against infections, etc.?
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Abe people, are you normal !? Before sex, it is MANDATORY to wash not only the hands, but also the genitals and the buttocks. Wait 2 minutes - wash yourself, sex will not escape! 2 minutes, and you can save yourself so much trouble, even tragedy, that your imagination is poor! Let this be your lesson! I don't know if the comparison is appropriate, but what you did is as stupid as starving yourself at the hot food that has just been taken out of the stove and burning your mouth, tongue, hands ... Gynecologist, 38
Well, since hygiene is so important to you (as it should be, why), why did you let him? As the commentator under №1 says, in 5 minutes sex will not escape! I can't tell you about the lubricants, I'm not familiar, I don't use them. Holly
First of all, congratulations on going to the gynecologist right away! Tell your friend that unwashed hands can cause infections, so it's not good to get dirty fingers into your vagina. You can also tell him how you felt on Friday after he did so and that genital infections (not just female genitals) are quite persistent.
“How can I show him that hygiene is important to me?” You can explain to him without worries (and accusations) that poor hygiene creates problems. You already have a precedent and it won't sound like a whim.
This is hardly the reason. It's probably just a coincidence. Poor sexual hygiene is the more likely cause (he doesn't like his penis, someone hasn't changed his underwear, etc.). Something is unlikely to happen from the hands, but it is also likely. Still, the decision for the gynecologist is good.
Today I went to the gynecologist. But it's hardly a coincidence, number 5 ... My hygiene is perfect, and the boy was bathed before the act (we also used a condom!). I hope everything is OK and thanks for the advice! It will be a lesson for me! :)
Now you don't have to mess with your immune system. It will be stimulated with unwashed hands rather than the other way around. Don't worry that your partner wants to touch you. This is part of your pleasure. Rather, swallow some of your dislikes and indulge in emotion! So the experience will be beneficial for both of you! Success! P.P. You don't need a gynecologist for the secretion in question! But for your reassurance you can seek specialized advice.