In short, I have a friend of 4 years and we are both children together (8th grade I guess 15 years old). We had a little drama last year, we had parted briefly. We love, respect and support each other, now after the separation for a short time our relationship has become more stable, personally I used to be very jealous of him and I am obsessed, forbid him many things, it is no longer so! My thought is I want to talk to him in the future, we finish and then what will we do? I wonder if he looks at our relationship for something bigger .. And advise me how to talk to him, because he is more closed and a little difficult to communicate
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You buy a pack of Melilax from the pharmacy, make tea from dried pears and add milk to it, drink them 45 minutes before you meet him live and you are READY. Not only will it alleviate your autistic hysteria, it may even teach you manners like avoiding an imperative tone. You don't have to thank me, God's help is for everyone.
And what's the urgency of that? !! You abuse the desire of people to help others with real problems, and you ask "how can I talk to my boyfriend?" ...
In my opinion, too much jealousy is a sign of distrust of the other person. If it doesn't give you a reason, why do you? Trust him. This way you will never make good contact and connection in the long run with this jealousy. It's not okay.
You have been with him for four years and you ask me, I don't even know his name, how to talk to him ??
It is good that you think about the development and future of your relationship. It is also good that you have seen your mistakes and try to avoid them. This means that as you grow, you develop as a person. There is nothing awkward about talking about all sorts of topics once you love each other and have been together for so long. Initiate your conversation, in many cases women are leading, naturally delicate and unobtrusive. Men are always focused in the moment, and women are looking for a sequel, as Blaga Dimitrova says. There is nothing more important than having a clear vision of your future. You need to know exactly what you want and prioritize. Be strong and ready for any probability. Success!
if in 4 years you haven't figured out how to talk to the person next to you, I don't know how you expect bystanders who haven't even seen him help you. That urgent! What can we do, write a script for you?