Hello! I am about 23 years old and I have a girlfriend of almost a year and a half. I like sex with her a lot, but I'm thinking about how we can diversify. I was browsing a sex toy site and I was wondering if I should get a vibrator to use while she fellatio me. The only thing that worries me is not to unlock any desires for threesomes with another man, because I don't want that to happen in any way. What do you think about it? Can you give some ideas too :) Thanks!
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Honestly, you haven't been together for a long time looking for variety in sex. Not that I'm against it. But if you want so much, act. However, first consult with your girlfriend what things to take. It's important that you both like it. He doesn't have to want a threesome after the vibrator. Try vaginal and anal balls. Maybe your girl can buy some costume costumes. Maybe handcuffs ... go to a sex shop and take a look. They will even consult you.
Can you ask her? As if only she can tell you exactly what she wants to try. Otherwise, yes, take your toys, explore new poses, try new places, let her take sexy lingerie, you can use spray cream, chocolate or feel under the jackets in a movie theater ... there are options. You just have to know what she is willing to do and what she wants to try.
Talk to her before you pick up a vibrator, because not every woman would curl up. Try new poses in new places or take sex dice, buy sexy lingerie or an eye patch and for example put some food (preferably chocolate or cream) somewhere on your body, and she should only find it with her tongue while she is with her. If you like it, you can play different roles like nurse and patient or whatever you like, BUT before you do something, make sure your girlfriend likes it, it's best to talk first. Success - sirens
Diversify it without toys. For example, enter the role. Or go to a different and / or exciting place. Tie her hands (maybe without handcuffs - with a belt). Abe options a lot, just let your imagination run wild.
Author, the people said it most accurately: Do not put a key in a lock that you want to remain locked! ;)
And did you ask her what she wanted?
Young boy, your own bodies are a source of endless variety. I assume that you have not yet practically learned your physics. Did you know, for example, that the spine is a powerful erogenous zone in women? Try running your tongue down your girlfriend's spine sometime and watch miracles! Kiss her on the crease behind the knee and watch the reaction. And did you know that the area on the inside of your arm just before the armpit is an extremely sensitive area for most men? The woman's nape also deserves attention (see Japanese culture - the nape is considered the most erotic part and not by chance). Pay attention to the palms of your hands - there are many nerve endings (I had an orgasm from kissing the palms, I'm not kidding). I can go on, but you understand my idea. Reading will not do, you have to experiment. You are too young and do not yet know the deep nature of the sexual experience, and the full potential for it is in yourself. Toys are a funny thing, not that there's anything wrong with them, but ... I'm bored. But at your age, they may be interesting to you. Try it. And the fears that you will unlock fantasies for a threesome ... What do you think she doesn't have? Could I have told my first boyfriend at the time that my fantasy was to lie naked with a mask over my eyes and to see the entire Sofia Central Prison lined up - sweaty, nasty recidivists, but without seeing their faces. How would you react if your girlfriend shared something like that? You won't sleep for a week, or you may drop it. While my husband is now dying of laughter when I tell him about my childhood phantasmagorias, but we are 40 years old. So my advice at this point is: examine your bodies, have fun with toys and don't think too much about him. I assure you that with the acquisition of experience, the threesome will begin to appear to you as a game of hide and seek in kindergarten.
But I think she will be much more fascinated if you perform one of her fetishes. If he doesn't tell you anything, then they are very interesting.