I've been dating a woman for a while. She and her husband and I were family friends, but unfortunately I got divorced and her husband died in a rather ridiculous accident. By going out, I mean that we go to bars from time to time and have sex, again from time to time. We spoke on the phone a few days ago, and she told me she was home. I was on the move, but without specific commitments, and I went through them for a coffee. She had not gone to work because there was maintenance in their office and there would be no electricity. We drank our coffee, talked, and ended up in bed. So while we were warming up with the love game, at one point she was on her back with her legs spread, and I was squatting on the floor next to the bed with my head between her legs. And at one point I saw the bedroom door open. Believe me, at first my hair was bristling. I knew that her husband had been dead for several years, but I don't know why I thought at first: wow, her husband has come home. now we have risen it. Anyway. Her daughter is standing in the doorway. She ran away from school. I don't know how she entered without being heard or felt. Then it got scary. You can imagine what exactly the girl saw. I guess it was like live porn, starring her mother. I don't even want to think. Now I keep my distance, as if I'm gone. The girl naturally wants to see me or hear me. I can't blame her. It was hysteria. I don't know if we will be able to continue the relationship with my acquaintance in this situation. And it seems to me that we like each other and to be honest, I was not alien to the idea of a more lasting relationship. But what to do. I do not think that this can be overcome. Unfortunately. So,
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There are other ways - reamers, independent terrain, hotel. And for the little one it is a good lesson what can happen to him when a person ESCAPES from school.
It's ugly, but nothing tragic has happened. Stay a little aside, as things settle down, she will look for you.
Well, it's her fault .... She calls a stranger at home and doesn't take measures - she doesn't lock and doesn't leave the key inside so that it doesn't unlock from the outside .... And the neighbor could have come for an egg or a pinch salt and find you like that, then how would it be. It would have been uncomfortable with her husband, let alone with someone else ... but what happened. You can't go back in time. This will be a lesson for her, if she was careful ...
What's so normal? Does she want a mother and be happy? !! If you like your mother, you should just sit down and talk to the girl ...
And I think I need to talk to my daughter. the mother must do this, but do not delay that it will be a great imprint in the mind of this child. He will remember it even in his old age - it should not be left like that. what will happen between you .... I think it is not on the agenda, if the relationship deepens it is even better
According to the description ... Disgust
I didn't understand how old the daughter was ...
From the author: the girl is 14 or 15 years old. I'm not sure. Today I learned that she wanted to leave her house, she didn't even want to look after her mother because she was a whore, she was vomiting from me, etc. She also told or, more correctly, complained to her grandmother / mother. her father / who hasn't particularly liked me for years. As far as I understand the story was quite "detailed". In general - it became a complete marmalade.
They need to talk to her mother, that's clear. And what she told her grandmother was the tip of the ice cream. Keep in mind that things will probably get worse. Children her age are quite alert and frivolous, it is normal to still be in shock and shock at the sight ... Let her go to her grandmother for a while, let some time pass to clear her mind from what she saw. You don't measure yourself there ... let her mother talk to her. And it won't be bad if she opens the topic of sex, because she's not small at all, and she's probably had sex, or at least she masturbates regularly. Such an open conversation would help, in my opinion.
After 2, 3 years the "little one" will do even more terrible things with various geeks! You have no commitments to other people and you like yourself. So get together and tell her that you live with or without her consent and in the bedroom you will do whatever you like. Bakhti life! always comply. When you are little, mom and dad don't understand, you grow up so that he doesn't understand, then the children don't see! Bassi ... I got nervous about what it took for a man to work to support his children and for the egoists not to let you live. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN!
Thanks to everyone who paid attention to my story. Unfortunately, my relationship with my acquaintance obviously will not be. Simplicity came to me more. Yesterday in the early afternoon the girl called me / I didn't understand where my number came from / and in a very threatening tone informed me that if I didn't let her mother find her, she would tell everyone how I "put on", how I offered her money for to her ... etc. She would even file a complaint with the police against me because she was a minor and would not be released from prison. And epithets that, if I were within arm's reach of her, would require urgent dental care. That's right. Of course I'm to blame for what happened, but it all turned into a cheap soap opera. And going back in time, my daughter's behavior does not surprise me. I remembered one night around 10. 15 while we were playing cards at their place, how the little one came and literally kicked me out with my wife because we were bothering people at night. In fact, this was our last family reunion, although they apologized and invited us several times afterwards. But what to do? Children!