Hello :) I am 24 years old and I have not had sex. When I was 18 I tried with a friend, but I wasn't ready and it didn't work. I've been dating boys ever since, but I didn't like them, somehow I wasn't ready. I'm not ugly, I'm weak, round in the right places;) And I'm not stupid, in the sense that I'm studying, I'm a student and it's hard to find intelligent guys who are the active part, not waiting for me to take them down . My question is, if I tell my current friend that I didn't do it, how will he react when he gets there ... I don't know ...
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Tell him you are already naked in bed and nothing who knows what will not happen will just open you;) Good luck!
I'm 22 and I haven't done either. Just like you, I'm studying, going out, and I have friends and everything a young man needs ... But I don't let people near me, for fear that I will drive them away when they find out I'm a virgin ... I'm completely desperate, but I can't tell the truth. What to do, give me advice ...... With each passing day I get more and more depressed ...
I think he will be glad that he will be your first
What can I tell you girls, I am a "19-year-old virgin" and I am also depressed, but we must have our heads proudly raised with self-confidence and be told that we will be liked as we are.
Very familiar ... And that's how I felt - at 21 years old. I did it for the first time. It was as if I was stubborn that I had to do it, I didn't tell the urinal I was with - I thought I would be with him for a while. I'm not bleeding. He didn't understand right away. But, as always, I've been with this boy for 7 years. I told him after a long time that he was my first, but he didn't believe me - he didn't see any blood. But that doesn't matter. Sex is really a great pleasure, but it should be with a person who does not think only of himself. From the first time you will not understand anything. Don't worry - being a virgin is not a shame. You can get to know your body by masturbating - if you haven't done it before - try it. As men masturbate, so do women. There is nothing shameful .... Keep your head up and don't care !!!
I'm 19 years old, I'm a virgin, which I can't determine for sure if it's a problem or not ... the problem is that all my girlfriends are already very advanced and perceive me as a "poor girl". I wouldn't say I'm ugly, it's true that I'm a little bigger than usual, but what can I do: physics :) I'm studying a lot now I'm going to apply for a specialty: medicine! I go out with men, but I seem to be afraid to get to the end so as not to perform badly ........... ?!
I can't understand why you are ashamed of this? are you okay at all ??? God, look at the times we live in ... you people should be proud of that !!! there is nothing shameful about that if you trust the person you intend to do it with, don't think about what he will think! :))
On the contrary, he will even be happy :) However, it is possible to be scared if he is not experienced. But don't worry about that. I think it's better to know. And the fact that you are 24 does not matter.
I think that if your friend is "literate" and you hold on to him, you should tell him at the right time before "you are already naked in bed." It's more correct ... to have time to absorb the information. When and with whom a person has sex, for the first or next time, is a matter of conscious personal choice. So you just haven't met a suitable and decent man so far. True, there are men who would run away if they found out, but that only means that they do not want to take responsibility and therefore do not deserve attention. You are OK. I wish you happiness.
Look now, there's nothing shameful about being a virgin. This means that you have been waiting for the right person and you have obviously already found him if you can trust him for it. In my opinion, it is better to talk to this person before you get to bed, no matter how difficult it is for you so that he can prepare if he has not been with virgin girls and it will be better for you to know what he is doing. If he is understood and holds on to you, he will accept you, so if he is a coward, he will grab his hammer and leave.
I think he will be happy to be your first :)
Do not worry. He probably loves you very much and will accept it normally.
So what kind of world do we live in already? ARE you ashamed of your virginity? Where have we got to! This is not a shame, it's even normal, you just haven't met the one who is your first! I don't know, I don't think there's anything shameful about that.
Don't be ashamed of it, AND BE PROUD THAT YOU ARE NOT SOMEONE ..... AND LIKE MOST WOMEN (INCLUDING MY WIFE), but at the discos what to meet - there is no choice. Now I have a lot of friends.
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Many people have said that it is better to have sex for the first time when you reach adulthood. But alas, today most of the 15-16 years old think they are very big :)
Your friend will be happy, one hundred percent. But if he is not experienced, he may be scared. Do not worry.
Do not worry. Your friend will surely be pleasantly surprised even though you are 24. you just have to be yourself and indulge in this wonderful moment. believe in yourself and in him and take this step.
I can't understand what is so important to him in the first act. very much roar this women. let's tighten up a little. what are you waiting for to be 20-25 years old. I don't know what you keep so much. pillars of stupidity. just start living normally
Ignore the above. He's obviously dry. I guarantee you that when you tell him, your friend will be in seventh heaven from happiness, that you are only his and that he does not share you with another in the past. If I could be with someone like you ... but you're already on the Red Book of the Disappeared. It is not normal to lose your virginity before the age of 18, and being 24 is not a problem. Just tell him in advance to let him know that you will be more or less embarrassed and he will be more careful as you overcome the worries as if for the first time. So it is with every girl. 2, the same goes for you, and you have nothing to worry about, and your girlfriends.
You can play with a vibrator or a cucumber in advance, but without him knowing so that you can open up a little or at least be calmer and not have much pain.
:) Dear girl, why are you worried? That's nice. What do you think your friend won't like? Enough with the used rags! You took care of the right one. If you feel ready with the boy you love, do it! When he learns, if he is a conscious boy - he will be happy!
If he loves you, OF COURSE, he will be happy to be your first !! It may be a little embarrassing at first, but most men are proud. Don't tell him at the last minute though ... And by no means listen 22 !!!
Well, if you keep hiding, you won't soon. Personally for me, if my girlfriend says she didn't have sex, I would be glad that I have the opportunity to be the first
It's weird why he thinks that way and I have the same problem, I've come to bed several times with people I love. If I tell them that I haven't been with a man, they make a lot of jokes ... they try to be a unique situation, etc. not important things and I do not reach the final stage, because they invest a lot of emotions and feelings and this is the difference between me, I do not attach much importance. I am currently with a longtime good friend from whom I only want sex and I do not want to tell him that I have not been with a man so as not to fall into wild details. I don't know what to do ....
Hello :) Since when is being a virgin a shameful thing !? Who when you feel it then do it and do not be ashamed. Better later but with the right person. Good luck!!!
There is nothing shameful darlings !!! But I will give you an idea. At a convenient time, tell your boyfriend that you have a virgin girlfriend and she is embarrassed to tell her boyfriend. Then watch how your friend reacts. You will see that he will tell you that there is nothing wrong, and when he finds out that this "girlfriend" is you, he will be happy.
And I did it soon, I'm almost 25. Don't blame yourself, men appreciate that! Don't worry! This shouldn't bother you, but rather, have you chosen the right person? Is this your boy or are you just another doormat for him? Think! The wait is worth it! Don't hurry, what about the fact that you are 25, my girlfriend is 27, another is 29 and they are not yet, and this 27 year old is like a top model, the other is shy and not very cool, but what of this, she had a lot of suggestions for sex. they men do not refuse! Don't worry about not being there, just tell him!
This should not be a problem for you at all. I was 23 when I first did it. And my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 1 year. I'm not sorry I waited so long. So don't you either. All in good time.
Abe, where are you all virgins here you have gathered ... Bassi ... I have been with 2 virgins in my life ... There are no more of them, where exactly did you come from here ...?! :) Someone call to see one more time .... :) 3 times fortunately. :)
I won't explain myself much, I'll just quote my friend: "You only have one flaw - I'm not your first." For a man, this is a big deal. So - rejoice and give yourself to him without worrying!
Hey people who haven't been parvi don't know. It is not among the most pleasant experiences! And my girlfriend was a virgin, and I didn't know. When he told me, I didn't believe it, I had to. I'm 22, she's 20, and I can do it myself. It wasn't cool, but girls, it's not scary. It hurts a little (maybe more) but then it's great, so act. It happens sooner or later, but it's better early. :)
I am ugly and fat and I was very ashamed. But a boy appeared and took me down for a long time. I thought he just wanted to make fun of me. However, I decided to do it with him because I wouldn't care much for his taunts. I did it when I was 22 and it was quite painful, but he was very nice after that. We became boyfriends and have been together for a year now. I trust him, I like to experiment and now sex is divine. I feel happy when I am in his arms. So as soon as the right one appears, enough ambiguity.
This is a very good test for men :). You follow the reaction. If he is happy, then he loves you! If he gets naughty, he either doesn't love you or he's immature. And you don't need one, I guess.
It shouldn't be a problem for him if he sticks to you.
Calm down darling .. from personal experience I tell you that it's not so scary .. and I was super scared of the thought for 1 time .. nop everything happened .. and it turned out that it was not what I imagined;)
Calm down at 22 alone and not alone rules !!!!
I am 18 years old. I turn 19 on September and I am a virgin precisely because of this I sometimes have to endure the murders of some of my classmates or acquaintances! This makes me cry and irritate a lot !!!!! But I'm not sorry, I think love is the holiest thing in the world! And love is not to have many. boyfriends .. iii .....! I know that one day I will meet the love of my life and everything will fall into place!
Hey dear girls, I never thought that I would ever meet so many virgins in one place !! Don't be ashamed - nothing. The fact that your peers are making fun of you does not bother you at all. They are funny. Remember that we live in a world where being good is a weakness, not a virtue. (At least that's what the poor souls thinking about the big deal think). You may not expect from a man what I will say but ...: - Know your price! (I mean, you don't give in to anyone) There are people who deserve you, and you just know them when they show up.
What could be better than for your friend to know that he is your first. A 15-year-old girl. :)
To the author and number 2: I'm also true, I'm younger but more and more often I think about opening myself ....... Will it happen and can I do something to myself? : с