I am a 23 year old girl still a virgin. I have a serious friend from 4 years old, he is 26 NOOO, we haven't had sex yet ... If you ask why I don't know either ... I was scared from the beginning and I refused. When I was 16 they tried to have sex with me forcibly and that's why I didn't relax. I love him and he would hardly sit without sex for so long ... but this lack of sex is already killing me. We have talked about this topic many times, why we do not have sex and there is still no answer. I don't know what to do anymore, maybe that's the only downside. A very smart, polite and caring man against all other simpletons. I'm not an overweight person to say that this is a 155/40 kg problem, but obviously I'm not attracted to it anymore. Give me advice on how to proceed to leave it ... whether the problem is already in me or in him
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One hundred percent does it with another, sorry.
If you think he doesn't have sex, you're wrong .. he may not be with you but he does. Sit down and talk about what you both want and understand each other.
Well get used to it! In 20 years, there will be no more men - people will be asexual genders en masse. What you are pulling from now, and giving yourself all sorts of styles, then you will look for it with a candle, but you will not find it. And if you "don't" do something, it will be some hidden pervert, where you will EPM.
You go to his apartment, you undress naked, go to bed and tell him to come and show that you are a real man.
Look, honey, I think the boy is probably afraid of hurting you. Given that you told him, even a long time ago, that you were afraid, and then you didn't hint at anything. I think that's the problem. Meaning you know it best but I think you should take your first step when you're ready. Stalk him when he's lying down and doing nothing. She snuggled into it and took up the subject. Just talk, and from there he already knows how. Good luck!
So how come you don't have sex when you have a 4-year relationship? I'm really upset !? !? Something is wrong - the boy is either gay or has another with whom he has sex. A 26-year-old man doesn't want sex ??? There is something! M. 32g.
The problem is in you. 4 years is not a short time. Do you think that if you leave it, you will find someone better? !! You say good things about him. Such boys are very rare now. If you find one, some uruspia has already wrapped it around its tentacles. I am just like him, but unfortunately a peasant woman made my life miserable. Try everything to relax and give your loved one both body and soul. Try even a little alcohol. This person also needs this. He will not force you or treat you badly. On the contrary. Relax and love it. It is not worth giving money to psychologists and sexologists. They will tell you the same thing you heard from me. For 4 years the boy has known you and if sex was an obstacle he would not be with you. If you let him go, you go to a monastery. He loves you as much as you love him. It won't hurt you. Relax and enjoy his caresses.
She has sex with another. You don't expect a 26-year-old man to sit dry for 4 years, do you? Don't make an excuse, but either act on it or let it run wild, because I can't believe it's waiting for you to come.
Let the boy find a normal girlfriend and wife. It is not normal not to have sex for such a long time and at such an age! Go to a psychologist and start some therapy. If you do not have the attraction and need for sex, then I think you should tell your boyfriend and if he agrees to stay together ok, but otherwise it is best to separate. Honestly, I don't believe he's been without sex for so long.
Maybe your boyfriend is asexual or has too low a libido.