Hello. I turn to you with a slightly unusual question. Many of my peers (I am 20 years old) constantly go to bed with sleeping, huts, tents and everywhere else. I have always been more closed and I have distanced myself in this regard. Of course I was invited, but I was uncomfortable and refused the invitations, and now when I plan to go I don't know what to expect. Not long ago, I met my current girlfriend and things got a lot deeper. A lot has changed since then, even my shame is almost gone. We don't live with my girlfriend, we haven't even slept yet. Her parents invited me to come with her when my daughter came home and spend a weekend with them. In any case, I will accept the invitation, but I just don't know what to do. Needless to say, I won't sleep on the same bed, even in the same room with his girlfriend. I will just be a guest. Questionnaires revolve mainly around what I should wear. For toothpaste and toothbrush is clear, but slippers for bath, towel, shower gel, soap and more. similar? There is no problem to take them, but I do not know if it is appropriate to wear such attributes, as if I will settle for a whole month? I will have to carry bags for used underwear and clothes, and when I draw the line, it turns out that I have to carry a whole bag. My other question is again of a similar nature. At home, who uses the bathroom cleans it and dries the taps and floor, but what should I do? Of course for me it is not a problem, but what is the practice and what is accepted to do in a foreign place? I don't want to expose myself and do something out of the ordinary and catch their eye or think I'm trying too hard, taking away their functions? I sleep in my underwear at home, but I don't think it would be appropriate in someone else's house, moreover, I'm quite hairy and I will certainly fill the sheets with hair. Maybe I should wear pajamas, but I don't want to in this warm weather. If I sleep in a T-shirt and fleece shorts, would it be appropriate? In practice, this is just a visit, but I consider it very important and I do not stop thinking. I found out that on the first floor, on their block, there was a bakery. Would it be appropriate to be the first to have breakfast for everyone? I'm absolutely sure it looks like the questions were asked by someone coming from another planet, but believe me people, I'm very confused. but I do not want in this warm weather. If I sleep in a T-shirt and fleece shorts, would it be appropriate? In practice, this is just a visit, but I consider it very important and I do not stop thinking. I found out that on the first floor, on their block, there was a bakery. Would it be appropriate to be the first to have breakfast for everyone? I'm absolutely sure it looks like the questions were asked by someone coming from another planet, but believe me people, I'm very confused. but I do not want in this warm weather. If I sleep in a T-shirt and fleece shorts, would it be appropriate? In practice, this is just a visit, but I consider it very important and I do not stop thinking. I found out that on the first floor, on their block, there was a bakery. Would it be appropriate to be the first to have breakfast for everyone? I'm absolutely sure it looks like the questions were asked by someone coming from another planet, but believe me people, I'm very confused.
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You think too much. Live!
Man ... about what you need to bring for personal hygiene: toothbrush, deodorant, razor (if you're going to shave) and that's it. It has never been a problem to use the shampoo or shower gel / soap of the hosts, do not take all your furniture. It's okay to wipe after you take a bath, yes. As for sleeping - a T-shirt and boxers is enough. Otherwise you can give a bouquet of flowers to the mother and a box of candy or good alcohol. You don't have to buy breakfast for everyone, you can help prepare it or make pancakes with your girlfriend, something like that. The job of the hosts is for the guest to feel good, to be kind of "cared for", and not to run like crazy about everything. When they come to visit you, then your task will be to make them pleasant and cozy.
Boy, cheer me up. Cute. Here is my opinion: Bring only a toothbrush and toothpaste. And underwear. You can't help but change your underwear for two days. Shampoos, soaps, etc. are not needed. They certainly have. Otherwise you will carry luggage as if you were going somewhere for weeks. Do not rush to dry the bathroom, you are a guest after all. For sleeping - it will not be appropriate to sleep in underwear. The pajamas or T-shirt in question and the pants he mentioned fit. For breakfast, the gesture is nice, but before that ask your girlfriend if they eat such things. Don't get embarrassed if you eat healthy. Don't think so and don't worry. I wish you good luck and tell me how it went.
Are you serious at 20 and asking questions of this nature? I have the feeling that it is written by a 15-year-old ... And what are you so good at when you are there for 1-2 days? A toothbrush, 1-2 pairs of socks, 1-2 T-shirts and the same number of pants will be enough for you, as you calmly collect them in a slightly larger bag ... Tighten it and keep it level, because this is not behavior of a 20-year-old man. I expected the topic to be related to how to make a good impression on her parents or something, and not what to sleep in someone else's house ....
You first think about what to bring to the hosts, as is customary. He gave a bouquet to her mother, made a gesture. It will be very strange to stumble there with a backpack and without even a candy. It's not a bad idea for a bakery, but think about what to bring anyway.
Take bath slippers - there is no guarantee that they will have your number, and you do not want to bother them. Personal cosmetics incl. shower gel and accessories and shaving foam - also take it, because it's not very ok to use other people's. Towel - they will give you. Drying the floor in the bathroom is generally not a practice unless you are told explicitly to do so. T-shirt and shorts are suitable for the occasion. This with breakfast is not a good idea - you will put them in a naughty position if the guest woke up first and went shopping. And most likely, without wanting to, you will wake everyone else by the time you go out and come back. Relax, act like a guest and don't overdo it, let them do everything as they planned.
I just laughed as I read. I don't know if you should go at all. Postpone the guest. And what age do you live in, are you waiting for your first wedding night? You go and guests, she's 20, not 15. She's a mature person who has to have sex. So wait a minute and then go. How you sleep is your job, you will not walk around naked. And in the morning you can beat the sheet and there will be no hair. With this girl, go just the two of you, if you don't have sex at the age of 20 and wait until you're 50, will you be active. From various stupid unnecessary outdated stereotypes you spoil your youth.
Haha, really this with the planets ... Look at me now - a bag, especially if it's smaller, is really not a problem to take as luggage. You brush and paste your face: The brush is a strictly individual thing, and the paste (although they certainly have) shows that you have some preferences in life, and you are not an "avant-garde" and a scoundrel (supposedly trying to save every possible penny). You put the brush and the paste a little away from theirs. There is no need to take soap and shampoo - it is in every house. You don't need to wear a whole towel (bathrobe). One towel is enough - bigger or smaller according to your preferences. This is the case in hotels. Don't overplay the bathroom! In a normal bathroom it is ventilated and everything is allowed to dry on its own. Sleeping pajamas are a good idea, especially if they are cool and stylish. There are also sets with short sleeves and legs, of thin fabric, for summer. It is important that your cross is not naked (say, this shows that you think about yourself and your health). T-shirt and shorts are also acceptable, but by no means fleece! It steams, rustles, sweats and generally speaks of bad taste. Underwear, pajamas, nightgowns are necessarily cotton. "Envelopes for used underwear" - except for a plastic bag in which you will put some briefs and some socks, I don't see what else ... You don't need a bag! For breakfast ... don't overplay. You are a guest after all, not a host to feed everyone ... If you decide to express yourself, however, at least ask who wants what and if he wants at all ... People invite you to get to know you and get an impression of you. Be polite but not servile. Act like a man. Radiate calm, self-confidence. Tell a nice joke or anecdote. Show (without saying it) that you respect and love their daughter, and in general that you are a person you can count on. You can also pick up an interesting book that you are currently reading. Something from the classics or from the modern more intelligent and widely known authors like Paulo Coelho, Dan Brown, etc. Come on, by chance! I hope the girl deserves the "sacrifices" :)
Number 8, if you let your bathroom dry on its own, normal people hit a washcloth. Especially at home, as we are more people and constantly going in there, if it is wet, it is very unpleasant. If I'm wearing socks, I can't step on them, and if I'm wearing slippers, I can slip and beat myself up :) And yet, he can just ask his girlfriend about these things. She will tell him best.
Haha how can you not sleep together. I'm a girl of 20 and if I bring my boyfriend home I won't let him sleep in another room at all. And for sex, wait for the parents to fall asleep. I don't think you need pajamas, but you know. :)
How many different opinions only! :)