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Was He Bullied As A Child?

By amanda_up August 21, 2020 10 answers Last updated August 21, 2020

Hi, I'm a 24 year old girl. A year ago I met a handsome firefighter who was 5 years older than me. Everything was wonderful, I was happy and finally the 2nd month of our relationship turned into a sex marathon. Every time he finishes and after 10 minutes he tells me that he is aroused again and wants again. And I tell him I can't and I don't want to. Imagine when I refuse him and it gets scary. I was very happy when I found out that he was going to study for 50 days. The wonderful 50 days passed and I had made a plan how to have a great time on my birthday and the next day to go to another city without telling him. And my plan worked out. After she found out, she started mentally harassing my parents on the phone because I asked my mother that she didn't want me. And my parents were already scared and told me, that this person is not well and no longer want to talk to him. A third week passed, he kept asking me to come back, and finally he came to me in the city where I live. I went back to him and he finally offered to make us a baby. I told my mother and she told me to leave him. And so I did. I have a question for you. His parents divorced when he was 7 because his father was an alcoholic and harassed his mother mentally and physically. Recently, his mother was in a mental institution and became addicted to alcohol.

According to my friends, they say he didn't have other women before me and they thought he was gay. Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child? Was he abused as a child? A third week passed, he kept begging me to come back, and finally he came to me in the city where I live. I went back to him and he finally offered to make us a baby. I told my mother and she told me to leave him. And so I did. I have a question for you. His parents divorced when he was 7 because his father was an alcoholic and harassed his mother mentally and physically. Recently, his mother was in a mental institution and became addicted to alcohol. According to my friends, they say he didn't have other women before me and they thought he was gay. Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child?

Was he abused as a child? A third week passed, he kept asking me to come back, and finally he came to me in the city where I live. I went back to him and he finally offered to make us a baby. I told my mother and she told me to leave him. And so I did. I have a question for you. His parents divorced when he was 7 because his father was an alcoholic and harassed his mother mentally and physically. Recently, his mother was in a mental institution and became addicted to alcohol. According to my friends, they say he didn't have other women before me and they thought he was gay. Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child?

Was he abused as a child? I have a question for you. His parents divorced when he was 7 because his father was an alcoholic and harassed his mother mentally and physically. Recently, his mother was in a mental institution and became addicted to alcohol. According to my friends, they say he didn't have other women before me and they thought he was gay. Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child? Was he abused as a child? I have a question for you. His parents divorced when he was 7 because his father was an alcoholic and harassed his mother mentally and physically. Recently, his mother was in a mental institution and became addicted to alcohol. According to my friends, they say he didn't have other women before me and they thought he was gay. Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child? Was he abused as a child? Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child? Was he abused as a child? Why didn't he have wives? Is it normal to be eternally aroused? What did his parents do to him when he was a child? Was he abused as a child?

Answers 10

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ariapdx answered · August 21, 2020

   He's just mentally unbalanced. He can be treated, but he didn't tell you. You may be too naive and that's why you came across a psychopath.

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gymnastchamp answered · August 21, 2020

   He fell in love to the point of addiction. This is a disease state. In such a state, people encroach either on themselves or on someone close, in extreme cases.

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cnibr answered · August 21, 2020

   No, my girl, he didn't harass your parents. He was just mad that you went somewhere without even telling him. The man obviously cared about you and had serious intentions when he wanted a baby, but you were obviously with him for something else. Look at her .. she was even happy that she was left alone without him for 50 days .. Then they roar that there were no decent men. I hope the story is made up.

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_sexycoupl3 answered · August 21, 2020

   Why are you with a person you obviously don't like and you've been waiting for these 50 days with joy and impatience? !? There are only masochists, psychics and depressors on this site ... what's wrong with you people? !?

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lana_bunnii answered · August 21, 2020

   Hello. I am 19 years old. And I recently got rid of such a toxic relationship. As for your question whether his attitude towards him is because of what happened to him as a child, it is absolutely so in my opinion. A person's upbringing and manners are built from an early age. Personally, I was with a man. Who was harassing me for no good reason, and while I was wondering where the problem was, I realized that he was an absolute copy of my father. Many times I have seen his father behave and talk to his mother and how he treats himself, as well as he himself told me how much he harassed him as a child. Then I realized that I had come across a person with a tendency to harassment and mental problems. My advice is to leave as soon as possible. A person does not change his character (personally I have suffered because I left too late).

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ritz_rueangritz answered · August 22, 2020

   Probably everyone who has been harassed has turned into a villain to harass you. And did you become a villain after the harassment? :)

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blossssom answered · August 22, 2020

   4, what serious intentions? The one described is completely crazy. And one of them offered me children in the second month together, but this is pure madness. You can't get to know someone so well in that time, or anything. These are crazy plans. First people get to know each other and then such serious things. Making it easy, but a lifetime with such a copy that the child's father?

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hotpavitra answered · August 22, 2020

   This is an absolute psycho - a big mistake to go back to it! Get out of there and cut off all contact. You do not have to investigate what the deviations are due to and whether he has been harassed - in these years there is no way to change what he is - such. Cut off the contact and leave before he goes completely insane and does something to you.

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tonyjaaofficial answered · August 23, 2020

   And without that, women don't know what they want ... Here - if it's psycho, what is psycho? !! If he is aware - what he is aware of is not interesting, there is no drama and adventure, it is boring ... Proof - even if everything is true, women will say: "-Wait a minute, why is everything true, I suspect it ! "

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heartbeat26 answered · August 23, 2020

   Author: Love and sex are never enough for him and he will always want more. He has a very high opinion of himself. She even wished me how I could find a man to beat me. I was wondering if I should take a risk, but according to your advice, I decided that I would not deal with this person at all. Thank you!