Hello I want to share something I have not shared with anyone, I have been married for 18 years, until a few years ago I thought my husband was the greatest love, but in recent years something has happened between us, we do not have sex so often and I do not get those caresses that I received before, it bothered me to some extent and I thought that this would continue my life until I met a man younger than me, also married on the Internet. Everything developed so quickly, as if we had both waited and known each other for years, we fell in love so much and I think we can't do without each other, we see each other secretly, we don't want to ruin our families, because he and I have two wonderful children and this can ruin their lives. I don't think I've ever felt as much love for him as I do, I love him very much and he reciprocates, he makes me very happy, I don't know how long all this will last, but I think things have become very serious, what can I do, I'm confused, there must be some solution to all this, but I can't do without it anymore and we love each other very much, advise me. Please, how to proceed !!!!
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I had such a secret relationship for 4.5 years. He was married and I was divorced. It was the love of my life and I have never loved so much. But as time passed, in a moment the feelings faded, they were not so strong, and one day I gathered my strength and said goodbye to him. I experienced it relatively easily and so did he. It happens like in families - you get used to it and the feelings are not the same. And sex is not like in the beginning. My advice is - live your great love, do not make so many people around you unhappy - your children and your husband and his too. Because the children of divorced parents are incredibly unhappy, no matter what psychologists say.
Hello! ... and I am in your position and I fully understand you. Indulge in love and be happy, there is nothing better than that you both love each other and are happy when you are together. And I am happy when I am with my thrill and look forward to our next meeting, and I pray that this magical dream never, but never ends.
And does your happiness built on someone else's unhappiness have a future? Are you asking these questions, dear ladies, you who push yourself into the lives of others and think only of yourself? For your own instinct and your own desires. Are you able to think of those around you to whom you have previously sworn allegiance and love? And who are you lying to those you love now, or those you will fall in love with before? Or you are not able to love and just try until you are convinced that you are not people who give love, but only those who steal the happiness of other people, because you are unable to create your own. There is something to think about, if you even want to look deep inside, you may find something you will not like.
Well done darling. You're doing what I didn't dare. Good luck. And don't think about the consequences. And I didn't laugh because I've been obsessed with my husband for 18 years. And this is something that not everyone would like to experience. Good luck .
Yep, unfortunately, this Latin script is happening in May all over the world and in our country. It comes to an end with a crash and a different outcome for each individual case. There is a divorce in others, there is forgiveness in the third sobering up and so now we will see how it is with you :)
There is nothing better to wake up in the morning and feel that you are in love. That you know someone loves you. I envy you. But I, as a man who cannot do without a mistress, advise you to be more careful. I feel like you've sunk. This is how your life will last. This is only the beginning. If you send someone and break up, you will feel the need for a new relationship. Drive your life and find a way to control your heart. Good luck. And I'm fucking a married woman. She lies to me that she loves me. I lie to her that I believe her.
IF YOU LOVE YOU SO MUCH, GATHER YOURSELF.
This is my dear dream, waking up from it the pain is huge. Dream while you can.
I am a child of divorced parents..I grew up with my mother..I saw my father often..the thrill that my mother fell in love with at the time disappeared..out of her marital love he was not married.. shortly after our family collapsed .. and my mother's dreams collapsed .. that boy's parents chased my mother and the boy out of grief, I don't know why he got married in a hell of a hurry .. that's how sometimes the series ends .. I'm not angry with anyone and I blame no one not from my mind, but from my mother's heart..I forgave her a long time ago, because this woman lives in the name of my happiness..but being a child of divorced parents is something very painful..I am 20 years old .. but in the future I would not cause it to my own children .. Whichever way you continue I keep my fingers crossed
Experience the thrill, it will pass in time and try to be more discreet. Don't ruin your family life and keep it to yourself. We are very much in this situation, it is wonderful, but it is time, and building a good family is hellishly difficult! Good luck!
Be yourself but I will dedicate you only with one thing do not destroy the family you have built for so many years be realistic thoughts about the others around you and your children what will happen to them everything will pass and you will understand that your husband and children are all for you SUCCESS!
Hello and I am in love with a married man, that is, I have sunk like a fool, I have you and a husband who loves me, but people can't control their feelings, I don't know what will happen. But in the end, only lovers live, others just exist, said a scientist. Life is one and must be lived as it is written for you, yet there is nothing accidental in this world for everything there is a reason.
Since you are so in love, sensitive, happy, brave, dreaming, dreaming, unjustly by your husbands women thinking only about the thrill (or thrill) ... why not go, do not make him a few children, then the next, with who have a thrill and so on ... Once you surrender to something so animalic then you must be such beings. Why do you think, but how will I feed them, how will I raise them, to look for excuses for everything, you are pure egotists ... NO? "Be fruitful and multiply" And give more that there are no Bulgarians left!
13. - what fertility is chasing you, the author is probably well over 40, as much as 12 - quite stupid, madam, quite stupid!
14 - I am referring to women, not the author. Everyone who followed their heart, yes, but this is not a fairy-tale dream, but a primary desire to reproduce ... only that you do not produce anything, but take on the social role of a depressed and misunderstood woman in the shackles of marriage.
I'm in your position too. And when we decided to get together and when the problems started, and maybe over time we started to see our shortcomings. So my advice is to live your love, but spoil your family. Over time, the feelings pass and then it is clear that the other is no different
How to proceed? If you love each other, love each other. As an acquaintance of mine says: it will pass. How long will it last? Until they feel you. Then waking up will be sobering. So don't make any preliminary plans, it just doesn't make sense.
Don't spoil people's families, and don't sit on your buttocks !!!
Hello!! And I'm another happily in love with a great married man - and I'm married. I thought I had paid my "infidelity insurance," but I found myself in a position like yours. I enjoy it. Maybe it's a high price for which one is worth saving even from breakfast. I feel so good. So author, live it, snatch from life, because no one knows what is good and what is not ....
So No. 19, but there is always a BUT and that is until your husband finds out. I also loved my husband very much, but here love came to me .... and my lover married and I married. Everything was clear to us, we wanted to experience our love and more and more, there is no time for that, until at one point you get so scared that you lose touch with the world around you and finally comes the bill you have to pay. Injured people, disappointed in you and suddenly you realize that from now on life will not be the same. If you ask me if, if I go back, I would repeat - my answer is "no". Because of some thrills and "unearthly" experiences it is not worth it. There is no price that can compensate for the breakup of a family. After my divorce, everything exploded, everything achieved disappeared "strong smoke". My children went abroad to different countries, they hardly come to Bulgaria. My ex-husband moved to the capital and is not looking for me. The old friends are gone. The parents died. Ah, I was left completely alone, even at Christmas there is no one to see. My lover was worried about his marriage, and I saw in him such timidity and indecision that I lost my relationship with him. Again, it's hard to build a family, but it's easy to break up - just think well when you cross the line.
Oh my goodness!! Great loves, the only one in life (from which dozen?), Magical dreams, tales, thrills and thrills, miracles, fires and flames ... Turkish turnips to eat! And all this bullshit in order to cover up the somehow simple truth that someone is itching between her legs and she wants to be scratched by a stranger. Because in the end it comes to knocking. Then the story is clear - previous commentators have described it. Usually the truth blooms, the masks fall off and the finale is quite unpleasant and sobering. Pathetic. Then the lovers (everything applies to men as well) feel how much they miss their family, how much they love their children and how much they care about their husbands. Well, why didn't you think of them, you were disrespectful before you went to other people's beds? As you can't control your urge, don't make families and children. If you get fucked so hard, just leave the person next to you, release him from your presence, let him seek happiness with someone else and experience his thrills. Save the lies and humiliations of yourself and him.
What you are all talking about here is pure love (energy), which connects the souls of all people. Souls have no sex, but entering the body they merge with it in order to obtain the whole personality. What you feel when you meet a soulmate who currently has similar vibrations to yours is the happiness of merging into a common energy channel. When this connection is very strong, you can communicate with the other person telepathically, feeling what he feels at some point, it is not even necessary to be close to each other or even in one country. If you are of the same sex with heterosexual tendencies, you just become friends, but if you are of a different sex and something like this happens to you for the first time, it is normal for a strong physical attraction to appear at the beginning. If you have a stable family environment and a high value system, that is, you are spiritually mature people, you will not allow this to turn into a love passion. You will simply feel pure love for the other person and you will soon realize that you feel this love not only for him, but also for everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards. but also to everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards. but also to everything around you. This way you will understand that the right way to communicate with the people you like when they are of the opposite sex is to feel like brothers or sisters. If your partners with whom you currently love and understand you will not stop you from this kind of communication, that is why in more developed societies, many people already have an open marriage so that they do not even have to neglect their physical needs, feeling guilty afterwards.
I think that numbers 20 and 21 have exhausted the topic on both sides. The other positions are .. temporary until the "but" appears :)
And that woman with the two children from the next topic, where she had the courage to divorce, and later her lover abandoned her, spat on her and called her a whore, and this one here you advise her to experience the thrill, maybe because she is a saint. Your mother is hypocritical. One category of women insults, and for others you close your eyes and encourage them to do stupid things. What about attitude? I think my comment is appropriate. Please be published.
Don't spoil your family, live your moment and in time you will understand that the movies are the same.
Well, that's hypocrisy - experience the thrill, but don't ruin your family. Yes, but if you don't know when to stop and they catch you, then melodramas begin in five acts. And suddenly or God the children. What stupid people and unhappy children!