Hello, my story is as follows. I have been in a relationship with a married man for 3 years, and I am married myself. We don't see each other very often, but we constantly hear each other on the phone (this is the situation at the moment). We were colleagues, that's how we met. It all happened spontaneously. I finally had the love of my life, and he was happy to have a little daughter. Nobody expected this to happen to us, and that it would continue. But here it happened. In the beginning, our relationship was stormy, passionate, incinerating. We were constantly looking for each other, we wanted to touch. He seemed to think for a while and tried to walk away, but failed. And everything went on in full force. We found ways to be together and we had a good time. Until the day I got pregnant (by my husband). I had to quit my job and I thought that was the end of it. After all, most men are looking for a purely physical relationship. But he hasn't left me all this time. We talk all the time and he tells me how much he misses me. Do you think this relationship has a future? Over the years, we fell in love and our relationship of "wild passion" became much more. I love him, and I think I will only suffer from the whole story.
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And what does your husband think of this wonderful, innocent love? Maybe he'll ask for the child's DNA? In short, you're crazy, woman.
Because of this type of people, I don't believe in love. : D
It's ugly what you both do - to have a relationship while you're married. And do you remember when you got married how you signed and swore before God that you would be together in good and evil? And now what - you cheat your halves behind their backs. Every relationship in the beginning is turbulent and incinerating, as you describe this one with your lover, the important thing is to survive the transition, while you, like him, have decided to move to another partner and experience the turbulent period again and again and again and again, how long !? People, think, you make people unhappy who you hurt so much that they stay confused, it reflects on their attitude towards society, for example you can hurt them so much that tomorrow out of anger to write malicious comments here, as often happens - people get angry and write under the topics, obviously have heartache. Protect people's feelings. This is not a game. Stop thinking only of yourself. You'll have a hard time figuring out how fucked up you are.
And by what right will you separate your child from his father? Just because you're a mother? Or because you're a hollow watering can !? I think the latter is more correct, because if you had more brains, you wouldn't get pregnant by your husband, but you would reunite with your incredible lover. There is a saying that goes, "If you want to separate two lovers, get them together to live together"! If you do not reunite with your lover, one thing is for sure you will fuck him until your husband or his wife finds out. And then ... then you know! An angry 29-year-old ex writes to you with a 3-year-old child. Mine left me for one like you, who left her husband. They lived together for 7 months in a dormitory, until mine realized that he also had a child, and her child, a 5-year-old boy, was always looking for his father and did not accept his stepfather. Abe was a miracle. Yes, however, there is no going back, each in his own way. Why do people like you, my ex-husband, his mistress create families and children? Ah, I forgot you accidentally fell in love, it was stronger than you!
No, you have no future. Relationships are romantic only because they are within that framework. Accept reality. Nowadays, an awful lot of kids are from broken families or relationships. This is a trauma for them. Life is long and both you and your husband will have moments of love and adventure, as our parents and grandparents have had. With the difference that they knew how important the family as a unit and wholeness was. And today we are selfish and want everything at the moment. Raise your children, in your old age you will find yourself when love is real. Don't cause this catastrophe in the lives of so many more people.
For now, sit on your ass in the name of the child. And try to create peace and tranquility in your home - without dilemmas. If you're sure it's the father, of course. Because if the father is the lover, it will be vile to lie to your husband. But if you don't stop now that you're having a baby, it's unforgivable
Number 5, I'm sorry, for what happened to you, it's awful :( Tuesday, you're not ashamed, you've lost all notion of honor, dignity, morality, how do you just explain to us as a teenager, ah what love, what a miracle. The others before me have written well enough, I support their opinion. Indeed, if you love your child, you will sacrifice your imaginary happiness with that one and you will stay in your family. You will remain whole - both with body and soul. like you
Experience everything! This is true love, don't kill it! There are ways to keep it a secret! Success!
There is nothing to add to the comments above. I agree with everything. For such behavior and people, a friend in their barracks called them 'elementarists'. №10's comment is obviously a mistake - he confused the article.
There was a song by Hipodil. Next ... I confused the woman, I confused the door, I was in a boxing match, but I haven't seen so much fighting.
* № 5, this is the most meaningful comment, albeit stricter. * To the author: You confuse flirtation, sex and good emotions with love. Your lover does not love you, he is just in euphoria because of his ego, men constantly want to prove to themselves and others that even though they are old and married, they can have whomever they want. * I agree with the above comments, if you live together you will not earn much, and you will naturally still pray to your husband, and this "love" of yours will either be transferred to another "colleague" or will fall to its knees in front of his wife, just to take him home, that you understand he realized his mistakes. * You have no future, but you don't have one with your husband either, because if he isn't, it will be someone else. -Maryan
I don't believe these love stories at all. One seemed so in love to me, and I have a man like the sun and a child. To go looking for someone free and not to bother me. I will leave my child without a father and my husband to suffer and I will go to "touch" someone. Is that what you call him now - "we touch". You've already woven the threads, but why did you have to create this innocent child. You didn't scratch!
Women, how do you get pregnant by people you don't love and fuck others you love? Explain to me - what is normal here?
And how did you know, madam, that the child you were pregnant with was from your husband? You seem to be serving, huh? To stand on the front stand, I will not believe that your lover has guarded you. I hope your husband hears something and runs a DNA test. When you're pregnant do you just hear? Of course, you are hardly the sexiest belly sight for him. But he keeps a deep reserve that when you give birth and recover, you will be like brand new to him. And I will never stop wondering - why do you go to work - to earn a living or to take off your pants?
More and more often I am convinced that family values are becoming more and more unusual, more and more children are being created, a home born of emotion and not of love, respect ... it is a pity that we live in such times in which faith you have no one but parents, sisters, brothers (even there are exceptions)
To number 3. I not only do not believe, but even purposefully start to avoid her and save all these dramas: D "How happy we are, expecting a child ... and op, one day what it turns out the beloved wife had a burning love with another, all the time while you pay your bills and enjoy the comfort and convenience of family life. Fuck you bitch. I hope he dumps you.
Stupid woman, realize. Gather your brain as much as you have and decide exactly what you want to do with your life. If your lover is married and cheating, what is the guarantee that if you ever get together, you will not enter the current role of his wife? And vice versa - if you tend to get pregnant by one while making love to another, obviously your head is very confused and there is a lot to roar. The bad thing is that your child will roar too, because his mother is thinking about that thing. Remember it from me - everyone in this life pays for the nonsense he has done.