People, hello! I will briefly state my position and look forward to your comments. :)) Almost a month ago I met a man 9 years older than me. He is divorced, with a child. The thing is not only the difference in age and the child, but also the fact that we do not live in the same place. So far we have only 3 meetings, which are indescribably wonderful. We hear each other several times a day. He claims that he loves me terribly and wants us to be together. According to him, we can't be separated and he expects me to go to him after a while, and I don't want to move. It is likely that he will come in such a case, but the work there is more complicated because the child stays away from him. It is very convincing and really everything is wonderful. I just wonder how serious the work is, will we really be together and can I trust him.
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From 3 meetings you can't get to know him. I don't think you should hurry.
If you don't say something more, we can't advise you. Everything is 50 to 50
Hello! My advice is forget it while it's time! In your story I see myself in exactly the same way only that we saw each other for several months the exact same situation divorced with a child we heard each other several times in the morning woke me up with coffee everything was wonderful I lived like in a fairy tale - introduced me to my parents we live together we made plans we went to look at furniture wallpapers and various other things but ....... at one point when things got serious he withdrew he didn't even have the courage to say it in my eyes! So save yourself while you can at the moment whoever snorts like me will come, your next one will no longer exist - think well whether it is worth it in the end you decide! Isn't this Mr. from Gabrovo by chance? If you want to write to me, write here, I will answer you!
You have 3 meetings in a month, and from this point of view it turns out that you see each other once in 10 days. This is not a small thing. On the other hand, you have known each other very recently. My advice is, wait at least another 3, 4 months and then take something more serious. And one more thing - only when you live with a person do you see his true nature.
Hi, I think it takes a long time to get to know each other. Only then can you decide if this is the person for you. There is no way to understand the essence of man from three meetings. You have to go through certain situations to see who reacts how when there is a problem. And it's normal for you to be treated like that. From the beginning, a person always behaves this way under the influence of hormones. And when hormones are involved, you can hardly make a sober assessment or decision. I would recommend you to realize how much you want him and how much he has an interest in being with you. Success! :)