Hi, my story is very nasty and there are hardly any other people who feel that way. My friend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we can't have sex, he just doesn't come in. We try, but I'm scared, I'm starting to dislike so many failed attempts. We both want to do it, but it just doesn't work, really. I'm already starting to think about opening up on my own, but I don't know how. It may seem strange to you, but this is my problem, we love each other very much and want each other, but we can't. Help me, I don't know what to do. I think he will dump me and he has that right.
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It will probably sound funny, or I may have misunderstood your story, I slept with my friend at 6 months, I was ready at 1, I saw him every day and we were non-stop together almost constantly in bed, we had terribly unsuccessful attempts I do not know why didn't he come in with me too, but one day I was terribly violent, I didn't think about anything but the excitement, I was very wet, it was very tight, he didn't want to come in again, but still I sat on top, and with a lot of effort ..... entered .... just got a little more relaxed, we were together for 3 years and with each act in the beginning entry was difficult, but overall I succeeded. I wish you success and you.
Maybe you tighten your vaginal muscles a lot. Try to relax them. If not, try again and again. It will happen one day.
Try to relax. You probably interrupt it when you feel pain. It's normal to hurt, but grit your teeth, there's no way. If he can't get in like that, try to tear your hymen with your fingers. It's not your fault, calm down. Apparently he doesn't have enough experience either. If it still does not happen, consult a gynecologist. When you love each other, it's terribly pathetic and stupid to part with something like that. I don't know why you waited 2 years though! It is normal for him to get nervous, no matter how much he is in love!