Looking for a solution to my problem, I found this site. The story is as follows: I am 29, my girlfriend is 22. She is a cool girl, responsible, but I assumed she was a more understanding person. We have been together for 1 year, 3 months ago it came to me. Our relationship was perfect and everything went on until one day she came home with "a sweetheart" - she found a kitten, it followed her and let's go to the apartment. I also said that it could not happen because the owner explicitly forbade pets. She did not listen to me ... he came a few weeks later to take his rent and saw - he told the animal to leave or we all flew out, and accommodation in K. is at 300 dawn ... I prayed to him, I persuaded him - he raised the rent with 1500 crowns and agreed. Except I pay that money because ... and I don't know why! Nothing, I swallowed these roughly 200 euros a month and ... the cat began to commit oppression. You can't leave food outside the fridge, sharpen your nails on curtains, chairs ... Every morning he throws himself at my feet and yells at me, this bastard breaks a lot of things for you! I told my girlfriend to lose her and she shouted at me that I was heartless, my attitude was brutal. I also told her I didn't care! Whatever he wants to do, I will not tolerate this animal anymore! This scandal happened 1 week ago, she looks at me askance, she doesn't talk to me, I haven't seen sex since then either. It's just funny that a cat has more rights than me in my home! And I care a lot about the girl and it will be damn stupid if we break up because of a "fluff"! I told my girlfriend to lose her and she shouted at me that I was heartless, my attitude was brutal. I also told her I didn't care! Whatever he wants to do, I will not tolerate this animal anymore! This scandal happened 1 week ago, she looks at me askance, she doesn't talk to me, I haven't seen sex since then either. It's just funny that a cat has more rights than me in my home! And I care a lot about the girl and it will be damn stupid if we break up because of a "fluff"! I told my girlfriend to lose her and she shouted at me that I was heartless, my attitude was brutal. I also told her I didn't care! Whatever he wants to do, I will not tolerate this animal anymore! This scandal happened 1 week ago, she looks at me askance, she doesn't talk to me, I haven't seen sex since then either. It's just funny that a cat has more rights than me in my home! And I care a lot about the girl and it will be damn stupid if we break up because of a "fluff"!
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hahaahaha sorry ... I know you're sick and you don't laugh, but it's a hell of a lot of fun: D Okay :) just explain to her that the cat creates problems and you can't live together. Or if he doesn't treat you normally, just throw the cat away: D
And the cat is a human being, and what do you think you should do? Throw it away? You can find someone to give it to and don't ruin your relationship because of a kitten. :)
Throw away the cat, then say she ran away ... Ha ha ha hope her boyfriend is tied up ...
Dude, have you heard of "unfortunate circumstances"? Cats often have different things happen to them, completely by accident. They may fall from the terrace or an open window, they may disappear without a trace, or they may fall ill with a mysterious disease with a very rapid fatal outcome. An "extremely unpleasant incident" can happen to them. Act!
Ay :( cute kitten ... I also love animals and I'm especially attached to cats. Of course your girlfriend, but I understand you too ... you have to make a decision, because obviously you won't be able to take care of the kitten. Talk to her ... let him look at her outside when he can't in the apartment ...
Hey, freak is number 4. The kitten is white because it's still small. When he turns 1, he will be a completely new, reasonable person. So that he doesn't yell at you in the morning when you sleep - you don't have to teach him to throw himself at moving objects (he jumps because he sees you moving). That is, you should not play with him by throwing laces at him, nor wrestling with him, but you should caress him more. I have 2 cats and both were impossible bullies as children, very soon after they became sweethearts. Knowing that there is no more loving and gentle creature than the cat, very soon he will love you so much that without you he will die of grief. Do not consider getting rid of her or abandoning your girlfriend, because you will look like "daddy" Valeri Bozhinov, who moves out every time it becomes difficult and a new unexpected heir emerges. And the cat is synonymous with comfort,
It seems to me that your friend has become obsessed with this cat. I also love cats, dogs, rabbits and anything that is hairy, but I would not allow a cat to ruin my home. Tell her that if she wants a pet, she will have to raise it, not run away from responsibility by making you guilty. Marilyn
This girl is a scary bastard. You have to make her understand that you are making a sacrifice for her. Tell her that the cat can stay, but also set two conditions. 1. To train her not to make white and all the care of the animal to be hers. 2. Let your boyfriend start doing something for you. It can be anything from sexual desire to housework. The girl needs to understand that she can't get on your head and if she wants something, she has to sacrifice something. By the way, I had 9 cats. They have a very relaxing effect, take advantage. Do not try to beat the animal, they are terribly vindictive. Grandpa Torbalan
Imagine for a second the next time what he would take outside.
I understand you and her - there are people who, when it comes to animals, have a strong sympathy for them. On the other hand, I am like you and I am more rational - I would not pay 200 euros more for an animal. He explained to her that the animal was destroying and that it was incurring additional, not small, costs. After all, we are not talking about unimportant things here - when you pay a lot more, things are quite serious. I could not live with a person who shows more sympathy and understanding for an animal than for me and how hard it is to make money on his whims. Ask her the question like this: she pays 200 euros, buys the cat's food and takes care of it or removes it. If that doesn't work for you, imagine what support you can expect from her if you have a more serious problem. Ana
In my opinion, the problem is not the cat. The problem is that your friend made a decision without agreeing with you. And this is a worm light that you have to pay attention to, but very serious attention. In addition, this girl is manipulative - she accuses you of being heartless after paying 200 euros more for the rent. Third, your girlfriend does not follow the rules - the condition was not to keep animals in this accommodation and she accepted it. And as a cover, she put you in a situation to explain yourself to the owner of the apartment. Should I continue? I personally doubt that your relationship was so perfect before the cat appeared. The kitten is not the reason for such a crisis in the relationship and this crisis would have happened on another occasion. I think you distinguish between cause and effect. Thanks for the opportunity, that gives you the opportunity to re-evaluate the stability of your relationship, which I would recommend you do. There are many serious symptoms to look out for. Usually things are not as they seem. Apparently the girl has already imagined that you are tied in a towel and can duct conditions. In addition to the things I listed above, the girl is also stupid (smart women do not refuse sex to their partners because of cats, or rather refuse sex to get something in return - which is not good, because such a man can not be relies) Here I will miss the fact that the girl does not care about you at all - what if he was allergic to cats. A short announcement to get out of the situation: kick your girlfriend out and leave the cat. You have to buy this kitten a gold leash, it saves your life - a red light comes on, to which you must pay attention. You sound like a sensible man, and I hope you read the message of what is happening to you correctly.
Don't throw the cat away
I bet the town is K., with the crowns you're explaining, and your girlfriend is probably one of the local blondes. If so, I have no doubt and I doubt that he does what he wants, I would be more surprised if she had agreed a decision with you :)
I see that a lot of people have given opinions on the subject. Some tips seemed a bit extreme to me, but overall thank you! I wouldn't do anything to the cat, because it is a living creature, in the sense that the idea of an "unfortunate coincidence" is not very good ... back to Bulgaria. It is not known how far I will go, but I strongly hope that I do not take such extreme measures. I risk literally becoming heartless and brutal. It's just that the chick doesn't want to take it away, a neighbor wants to take the cat, but she doesn't give it. She slammed and will harass me until I agree with her! Number 13: The girl is a Bulgarian nice guy, but sometimes she acts just like the "local blond nice guys" ... unfortunately: - / I don't know which city you are talking about, but the country is Denmark :) P.P.
A friend was looking at hers on the balcony. : D
Numbers 2 and 8 made me laugh a lot by making the cat a "human being". Author, tell her that either she pays the higher rent, the food and the broken furniture, or the cat flies away. She won't last more than a few months and she'll lose it on her own. Good luck. Magicians
Maggie, you're an intelligent woman, and you can't remember. It is very clear that they both make enough money, which is significantly above the rent and the cat. It is very clear that she will rather abandon her friend if she has to choose between the two beings / the cat and him /, because it is always nicer what is not calculating, dissatisfied and quarrelsome. When my mistress saw my cat and asked with a meaningful tone and sour face "oh, do you have a cat ...! ??" I looked at her and for a moment the picture flew in my mind how she gave me an ultimatum and I was looking for another place for living, I may have looked very scared or determined, sparks may have been flying from my eyes, and she may have known that I was about to pack my bags ... but the fact is that she felt and said, albeit reluctantly: Well, well ... I also won't hesitate to make my choice in favor of the cat, if my husband does it on the question of whether he is exported or she. But fortunately we both love the cat as our child, I say it fully consciously, because we really have children.
:) From number 15 to the author ... if I had written exactly the capital of Denmark, but ... obviously the moderators do not allow, otherwise it is a pity that some Bulgarians so quickly intercept from such a "wonderful" Danish mentality. You are right here if you do something to a cat, dog or other animal, the authorities will not leave you unpunished, and it is naughty to kill the animal. I hope you understand somehow - in my personal opinion, if she cares so much about this cat, the rent becomes her duty, the repair of the damage during the export, so that the deposit is returned to you as well.
Yes, number 20, I believed you that it is possible for her to pay the rent to atone for her guilt, and for him to live for free on her back. A lot of fun happened here :)
from 20 - well, after the girl can shake stands like a Dane, she will learn and pay like them, they usually have a personal accommodation before they get married, they don't wait to pay their bill, etc. As we will be emancipated to be emancipated :)
What happened? did you leave the cat