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We Have Been Having Sex With My Boyfriend For Almost 9 Months, But I Have Never Been Able To Finish

By elizabethdannybb October 08, 2020 7 answers Last updated October 08, 2020

I am a 19-year-old girl. I have been having sex with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, but I have never been able to finish. And the most interesting thing is that I manage to finish on my own :(. He even recently told me - "Darling, do you want to separate Since I can't satisfy you :(" I felt so bad - I have no words :(. Is there a problem in me? I started to despair. Please help ...

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MissJaz answered · October 08, 2020

   There doesn't have to be a problem, I'm also 19, I had a 3-year relationship and a 2-and-a-half-year sexual relationship ... I started cumming about a year ago, but only with clitoral stimulation, my boyfriend was great but I'm still not from those with many orgasms ... just relax and when you feel the end help you to get with it :) Good luck.

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beckalynnhue answered · October 08, 2020

   Honey, as soon as you finish masturbating, apply it in sex as well!

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feya1234 answered · October 08, 2020

   Do not worry.

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mercedescutex answered · October 08, 2020

   You definitely need to relax. Are you sure she's sexually attracted to you? If so, keep going, but if you're not sure, you should definitely change your partner.

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figueirenseoficial answered · October 08, 2020

   This is normal for your age. Women sometimes need years of practice to start ejaculating regularly. Don't worry about not always finishing, enjoy the closeness now and try new things, and gradually you will find what you need for your own body to finish when you want.

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klara_la answered · October 08, 2020

   Thank you very much!

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repronkind answered · October 08, 2020

   Girl, tighten it! What complex did you make? This, with your cum, has become a fixed idea. Do you like having sex? Are you coming to cry for fun? If so - calm down. I am 31 years old. I had an orgasm for the first time at the age of 29. I had several relationships before, of which 2 long relationships of 3 years each. I've always been cool. Just don't immerse yourself. Don't think about it - sex is not a marathon. Enjoy!