Hello! My question is to those of you who have a serious relationship. It turned out that my friend and I have serious differences about spending free time. We both love to have fun, we love nightlife, parties, discos, bars ... However, I also love gentle walks, for example outside the city, in nature ... And for him every outing should be associated with parties and drinking. He doesn't even want us to go play bowling or billiards, for example. I constantly watch photos of girlfriends walking or going out with their boyfriends somewhere, and I spend time with my boyfriend in front of the TV ... He doesn't want to hear about a day trip over the weekend. We live in Sofia and we cannot complain about the lack of opportunities for diversity. Mentioning something like this usually diverts the topic or makes up a bunch of excuses, but if at the same time someone calls us for a disco or going out related to alcohol, immediately all the obstacles and excuses invented by him disappear. And he is no longer small - he is 30 years old. And it cannot be said that he has not made a living before that. Summer is coming and I'm just sick of the thought of the sea, who knows what a nightmare it will be. We'll probably spend the scheme from the pub on the beach. Maybe some of you will tell me to catch up with friends on this fun that I miss. And I do it sometimes. But I'm kind of dumb that we can't share that time together. We will probably spend the scheme from the pub on the beach. Maybe some of you will tell me to catch up with friends on this fun that I miss. And I do it sometimes. But I'm kind of dumb that we can't share that time together. We will probably spend the scheme from the pub on the beach. Maybe some of you will tell me to catch up with friends on this fun that I miss. And I do it sometimes. But I'm kind of dumb that we can't share that time together.
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Yes, I have a similar problem .... We have chosen them - now we will tolerate them :)
Number 1 told you so !!! And I want to have a girl who loves walks, not discos, but alas, for now I'm not lucky !!!
I don't think what you will do in 15-20 years ... I don't want to think :) Good luck!
I'm in a serious relationship, even married. Free time in most cases we are together, evening club, bar, restaurant. Sometimes he goes out with girlfriends and I go out with another woman. When we have the opportunity to walk within a radius of 200 km, the last time we were at the Bachkovo Monastery, not that we are pious, but for the idea. In general, I'm more outgoing and I don't know why, but I've instilled in myself that there is negative energy at home and I'm fine outside. My wife is like you, she likes to walk around the city, to move, and I try to give it to her. I just hate to say that she has to buy what you are - then she's a mother, this shopping tires me and I teach her to be without me in this ritual. I love parties, but I already like them, the ones I had a good time with are gone, times have changed, I rarely meet anyone I can talk to. My best friend seems to have been my wife, I enjoy it, and I try to make it happy. Only if he takes me to a mall do I go straight to the cinema and after the movie I pray he is not on the same floor.
It seems to me that in this connection you are more in tune with him than he is with you. It won't hurt to talk to him about it. Get along with your friends and do with them what he doesn't want.