I fell head over heels in a man and he comes out at 18 years old. He himself is 34 and claims that he is looking for a serious relationship, wants children, etc., but in fact he is with me and her at the same time. Now I'm distancing myself and avoiding his meetings, but honestly I'm torn. That's all I'm thinking about, how to make him want me and be alone with me. When I asked him about the other, he said he had no intentions for her, but he did not part. We liked both of them, which I can't accept as an answer. He goes out with her earlier, then he calls me to see me, he hides, but when I ask him he doesn't deny that he's still with her and so on .... I don't want to be in this situation, I don't know how to remove and leave it or what. Separately enters dating sites and there I guess looking for others. Am I a masochist or what What do you think I should do,
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You better get out, they don't deserve anything.
I think you will do best if you leave it with the "other". You live life and let him fuck his head !!!
Oh, darling, you messed it up! What connects you to this "man"? I have been married for 20 years with a child. After so many years of marriage and struggling with life's challenges, I realized that my husband has had a mistress for 2-3 years. I have known about her for more than a year. The bad thing is that we are from a small town, and I'm probably the last person to learn about it. To this day, things continue. She is the one who keeps him company in the restaurants. They periodically travel around the country to relax. For me, the constant care for the home and the child remains, along with my official duties. I'm tired of hearing that the circumstances surrounding his personality do not allow us to take him for granted. And are the warm and varied food, the clean and ironed clothes, the bills paid, etc., etc., given to him? And I want to live the life of a mistress. Get rid of her, that this is mine waiting for you. You have nothing to share with him - home, car, money, memories, friends and relatives. What about the child? Should we just throw it away in today's wolf time? And that's because my husband is a complex who thinks with his lower head? Why am I not in your place? I won't think about it - I'm closing this page of my life, and go ahead! Be strong and don't forget: keep your selfishness! Success!
If you are a really smart and self-respecting woman, your place is not with this one at all. Find something better for yourself!
Respect yourself until you become an old girl and only the most beautiful ones that all women dream of remain, but there is nowhere to find them. Abe, use all the turbans in flirtation, in stubbornness, and if it doesn't happen then give up. GS1
The important thing is that at least he is honest with you and does not lie to you. I may really like both of you, I've also liked two at the same time. Give him time to think and choose one.