Hello, I want to share my story with you. So we met on the Internet in 2008 in a popular dating site caused by advertising with a mobile operator. I decided to register as a joke and a week later a girl joined me and congratulated me on my registration. So we started to show off during the day and in the evening because I worked and I couldn't sit in front of the computer all day. I felt something I had never felt in my life and it was an attraction that did not give me peace of mind without sharing with the girl that I like her. She is from Sofia and I am from Stara Zagora. After a month and a half writing on the site and Skype. I decided to ask for a meeting with her because I wanted to see her live now. Before I saw her, she cried on the phone because she had nowhere to invite me. I don't go there because of my situation, because of her. See you, I fell in love the first time I stepped in front of her. We went with her for two years, ie a long-distance relationship, but I felt that something was wrong and one night when we were at a disco and she said that I would lose her and that happened. After we broke up, we got together at her request, and we broke up because she was dating guys again from this site and she didn't tell me. He was hiding and lying to me. in 2010 I enrolled to study and it was because of her to be with her, but she did not accept it because she was obviously with another boy who was not who knows what because some of the boys in Sofia are full of garbage and do not know how to deal with girl. So in 2011 he wanted to see me and see if we would fix our relationship, but he was in Spain. 2013 came in May, we wrote to each other on day two and we had to get together, now it's December and she hasn't come home yet because she had something to decide there.
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Calm down, I went through almost the same thing. Very soon your curtain will fall and you will not want to look at it in a photo. One suffers for a while.
Don't do nonsense! Go ahead, let the new come. :)
Friend, do not waste your time, but find a worthy girl for you! In time you will forget her, trust me! ')
Beat your whip until it's time, rust and a woman leave, there is no stopping. If she has started lying to you and going out with other men behind your back, what more authoritative proof do you need that she doesn't care about you and doesn't respect you? Don't listen to what she tells you, but watch what she does. You still have a chance to come out of the whole situation with some dignity.
This is repeated every two years. He pretends to go home, but at the same time does nothing. I don't know what he thinks or whether he thinks about it at all, and this is a person with a higher education and an accountant ...
She realized ... that business with someone is still going on, and she's lying to you like a ladybug! They beat her a jester after they see what she is, and you just thank her ... How will she not want to be with you - both to be with someone and to do what she wants with others. Accountant ... Her accounting is probably just that - how much did she get in and how much money did she save / earn along the way. Find a girl like you. You don't need the patch that everyone shakes at home
oh don't believe this song, i say it like a woman. in fact, you did not have a real relationship, the one from a distance was only on your side. you are a convenient reserve all the time and you are always available. dump her, forget her and find a normal girl who will hold on to you. F42
To comment 7: I guess I won't do it because I don't have the nerves or strength to do it. Because if she grew up then she was 21-22 years old, now she has turned 26 when I look at the promises and the month of August didn't come, then she had to come in November and I set a deadline, but that didn't happen either. He keeps saying that he wants us to be together on New Year's Eve and this will not happen according to what I have written in history. She had a problem that she had to solve and that's something else is unknown ...
And I will join the above comments, as the one at number 4 is the most accurate. Watch what she does, not what she tells you. You've wasted enough time with her. Now you have to find a really serious girl, not a user. It's normal not to be able to forget her after you've been in constant contact with her. I was in a similar situation some time ago. I really liked a girl, but we both knew we couldn't be together. For 3, maybe even 4 years I thought about her constantly. Whatever I did, wherever I was, she was still on my mind. At one point, however, I stopped all communication with her, we just didn't hear or write to each other anymore. So, not immediately, but after a while things calmed down and the grief passed. So boldly draw the line and move on.
Maliii, I know what's wrong with you while you have hope. I had a similar relationship for 6 years with turbulent hardships and periods of separation, suffering :) Now it's funny to me, isn't it :) But with us things were more real both live and on her part, not platonic and there were many wonderful moments , chemistry, spiritual connection (harmony, joy, tranquility), etc. But from experience I learned that if a story lasts a long time and still can not be fixed any problems will not be. I see you're talking about growing up, well, mine and I justified it (we were both small), but I realized that it's about character and personality, not age. Suppose what is this mysterious problem that solves it so much - someone else / others there? You may want someone wealthy and your financial capabilities to be more normal. Sorry but it seems that from the beginning you have never been her first or only choice. And that he promises you and then ***, lies not once or twice .... Wow ... Judge the man by his actions, not what he says. Even if a miracle happens! and come back, I still think it will break your nerves and the agony will continue. So you will probably give her one last of the last chances inwardly for the New Year, but from there: new year - new luck! Cut off all contacts, delete it from your Facebook. Heal yourself from this sick love, which is subject only to suffering, longings and dreams. As long as there are drops of hope left, it hurts a lot before you wake up one day alone in the world, only with your friends and relatives. Then the new love strikes you most unexpectedly, it happens to you out of nowhere and you realize how blinded and limited you have been.
Good luck with the new love. It is good that the car is new, I hope you see the joy in your world!