Hi, Here, I will try to be brief. I look through their eyes. They are missing something in the marriage, the gap is big and cannot be filled. Some people no longer love their husbands, they can't stand them, they hate them. Others fall madly in love with their lovers because they are unique. Ok, I understand all this and accept it as normal. However, I cannot accept as normal that you have the courage to provide yourself with an alibi for breaking up, to lie, to hide, to take off your pants in front of someone else, to spend family money, to live a parallel life at all, and not have the courage to say I don't love your husband / wife anymore, I want a civilized divorce so that we don't hurt the children. And my mother-in-law met someone on the Internet. Abe, how do you take off your pants in front of strangers. It's one thing to chat with someone and make you sleepy with sweet talk, it is another to live with him and share joys and sorrows. What about idiocy and human superficiality? Aren't you afraid of infections? Aren't you afraid that your lover may be a crook or a fraud? Don't you suppose he can use you as a screen for something? Or is love blind? !! Abe doesn't talk to me, brainless creatures. They think of their children when they are already shit and nowhere. My hen and her lover got into such a mess that I don't want to describe them, nor can my brain assimilate how a mature 40-year-old woman can cause this. I barely got her out, and with great effort I fixed her buckets, and that bastard should be glad he's alive. I'm sure my husband won't look at the picture. So what? He sits and roars at home, hugs the children with and without an occasion. In 15 minutes he asks me when I will return. And I don't feel like coming home? I have no strength to move forward. I do not want to live...
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I wish you had divorced peacefully and civilly. Why are you whining? What is the meaning of the topic? Go to a psychologist, your thought is chaotic.
How many times will you post such topics! We are tired of reading them, and I don't know how you are not tired of writing. And in your previous posts we told you that things are not about just taking off your pants. An expression that you obviously love very much. Stop now, please stop. Such superficial writings will not stop anyone from believing in Java. if he has decided.
First of all, I am sure that half of the stories on this site are provocative, written in order to destroy the Bulgarian family in order to weaken our people and make it easier to take over. And as for how there can be women whores and how they don't care about anything, be it morals, hygiene or someone different from them, I'll tell you as clearly as possible - THEY ARE ANIMALS AND HAVE NO INTELLIGENCE, JUST INSTINCTS.
Oh, again a vaudeville about the adulterous wife, and the noble husband who saves her from trouble. We already know this story by heart, as well as its end. But we don't believe in it.
People tend to take risks by catching their lovers on the Internet, not because they are brainless (and yes, with unfamiliar thrills there is always a risk that they will turn out to be something), but because it is easiest to look for partners online nowadays ... Otherwise you you are upset by your wife's infidelity, that's understandable ....
Tighten it up! You broke your horns - you forgave for the children! Now on a leash - whatever called, it called either the train and mom. And that you do not understand this is another topic - ask or learn. The more we pretend to be chiefs and understanders, the more cruelly we are treated.
Well, you don't want to live now because the woman cheated. Yes, it sucks, yes, it certainly hurts. Yes, she is super dumb that she is roaring and doing it now, just because she is afraid that she will lose her security and peace. But so many men cheat that it's just super funny to me that they cheat on them and suddenly there's nothing worse in the world. You just choose, or abandon it and bear the consequences, or forgive, leave it in the past and start over. You can judge for yourself the possible consequences and risks of both options. And so much. And people are generally quite cowardly. When the time comes for them to be direct and sincere, you can't find them. That's it. Don't have high expectations in this direction and you will save yourself a lot of disappointments.
"I want a civilized divorce so that we don't hurt the children." - There is no such movie, dude. For children, mom and dad are their whole world. If they separate - the world collapses! That's why most married couples secretly break up - mostly because of the children. And you don't have to dislike or hate one person to sleep with another. These things are not clear to you at all, but at all. You can be in a wonderful relationship with your partner, but the sex is lame for years, or it is not there at all, and you have 2 small children ... And what do you do then? Are you retiring at 40?
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Stop insulting the person, aren't you ashamed? Can't you see it's hard for him? Others, the topic was fake, but if it is fake, do not comment on it. What do you enter on this site? You are all great understanders - you know what life is from A to Z. You must have fallen into all possible situations and have a recipe for everything. My husband started cheating on me because he was bored with me. After 10 years of marriage, he had fucked me a thousand times and I had nothing to surprise him with. Well, Amy won't bother him with his new job. I took my child and moved out. I call him grow freely, there is no need to hide and lie. Three years after the divorce, I met a normal human being who has no instincts for a primate and a jay's brain. My child accepts it too and is happy. The former became jealous. After overthrowing a regiment married, their husbands are "
Author, don't even try to understand the infidels. You will not succeed, they have a ready answer for everything. You wonder how your wife took off her pants in front of a stranger. Well, that's her mind. I was wondering something else - my husband had a fuck with his colleague. After work, at a turnoff there, in the car. As a woman, I would not allow my husband to touch me before I went through the bathroom and was perfectly clean. And this slut has been at work all day - everyone understands - you sweat, you go to the toilet, when it's hot you literally get sour. And after all this, you go to dig your legs in the cars. Otherwise, he is very disgusting - my husband, everything at home should shine with cleanliness - utensils, tablecloths, everything. And he goes to fuck with a smelly scumbag. Don't try to understand, I gave up a long time ago.
Well, she also gets tired of infidelity, it is clear especially when it lasts for a long time and you do not invest any feelings, because you are in a "perfect relationship" with your husband / wife, as described in No. 10. And then what? Are you looking for the next lover or do you remember that you have some idiot at home who provides you with financial comfort, peace and comfort while fucking outside?
Children are no excuse to lie to your partner! They only cheat the garbage and that's it! And the author's wife is also a rag. And sex is done by two people, so if they are lame they are both guilty! Why not come up with a new idea? And who can't keep his zipper closed or his legs closed, better not get married at all! Be free and sleep with whomever you want.
Author, once you have forgiven, well done. I could not make it. In most cases, infidels lack nothing at home, but they have a lot of free time, and they are bored, I noticed. My ex had attempts to reunite after I discovered him, but I saw no sincere regret or interest in him. I was just tired of him. I could not forgive him the lies, the neglect.
People cheat for a number of reasons, most often related to family deficits. Infidelity is not from yesterday and it is not such a big deal to be whining and whining that if you see someone put it on your Pena and you understand. The dairy is big. Take it tight and make it an effect from a defect - ask her about the cause and diversify your life if something is fixed, and don't just blame it so that it doesn't turn out to be like my wife's ex, where she didn't know what a clitoris is and that the woman must also end ... and then such individuals read morals and find all sorts of topics to dispel doubts that they are ignorant and impotent. I have a feeling lately that the net is full of sloppy and moralistic candidate members of an Islamic state.
I am a woman married with children. I fully share the author's opinion. If you can't keep your pants up and control your urge, you'd better or don't get together to live and have children with someone. Or leave him, divorce him as a civilized man and put an end to a lie, to an already meaningless marriage / relationship /. And yesterday's partner has the same right to seek happiness and continue his life with another. But those who cheat are not only cowards and scoundrels, but also great egotists. They're having fun, fuck the other. That's why I respect swingers and those with open relationships more. I just wonder to the author, how can he bear to look at the rag in his house every day? And to punish in this way not her, but herself? I understand that he does it for the sake of his children, I don't know how old they are, but they will still learn about what happened if they are not already. There is no way parents can be such good artists and always maintain the illusion that the family is ok. I would never trust such a person again ... The relationship will never be the same. For me, if a person cannot forgive betrayal, it is better to end and continue his life alone or if he is lucky with a more worthy partner.
Up to 17. It's a scary thing when you start writing nonsense without thinking. Apparently the deficit is in his brain. Did your current wife marry a virgin to her first husband? When did she find out that her ex didn't know what a clitoris was or that a woman came? On your first wedding night? Don't be ridiculous. There is no person who can satisfy another person's needs unless the latter has such limited needs. Including you, sir, do not currently satisfy 100% of your wife's needs. What to do? Throw yourself in someone else's bed again? And nowhere did the author say that his wife cheated on him because of sex. Maybe from pike, maybe from stupidity, maybe from irresistible falling in love, there are thousands of reasons, and the result is always one.