So ... I'm a 13-year-old girl, I drive 14 ... I've kissed with my tongue about 6-7 times ... My 1st kiss was awful !!! And the next ones too !! Whether you have problems like me, but me: 1. I'm disgusted to kiss with my tongue [to put it mildly] I don't like to have saliva in my mouth: D 2. I don't care ... she doesn't have the thrill! I prefer kissing without a tongue. . . somehow they are gentler, kinder ... but I like it more .. I have a boyfriend! We've been walking for a month ... but he wants us to kiss with our tongues. . .
I've kissed him 3-4 times ... but whether he likes the way I kiss him, and how I can tell him I don't want to; (I'm afraid he'll dump me like a dog on the street! I love him very much .... but ..... [there is a big BUT] Nz what to do please I want help and advice !!! Thanks in advance !!
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Well, if he loves you, he will never dump you for such a thing. There are people who do not like to kiss with their tongues and there is nothing wrong with that. You don't have to force yourself. I also don't like it and I don't like to do it;)
I fully support the previous one. Just ask yourself if it's too early for you. Now the hormone shakes you. Be friends, but to a certain extent, because then problems come.
Personally, I started with the French kisses at 12. At first it was mooooooooooo bad. Then I caught a new boyfriend and so to speak - he was very happy and it motivated me - I improved. I want to reassure you that at first I didn't like it either, but now ...
I, on the other hand, am dying for a kiss with my tongue, as my illness is: D ... I prefer a kiss even to a hug hug .. !!! I don't know why, but I really like kissing with my tongue ... and I can tell you that it's very cool, at least for me, and you're there, hug and slap each other on the cheek. )
Cut your tongue so everyone will be happy :)
I am also your age [13y. ], but I dare say that at least a little I take into account the situation. I want to say that in Skype you can say: "Someone, nz ..." etc., but here where you write to people you don't know, you should address them with "you" as I address you. I don't know if you're interested in who knows how much, but I don't think it's right to speak, kind of "asshole" ... I mean, this "something" ... somehow isn't his thing here. But anyway, you decide. And as for your "problem", what can I tell you ... if you don't kiss, don't KISS !!!! What is "I'm afraid" .. defend your position, defend your interests. And if you love him, fine .. do what you wrote, I mean you don't like it at all ..
If you're worried about whether he liked it, come to me, I'll tell you if I'm cool.
Tell him directly that you don't like it. If that's why he doesn't want to be with you, then he's rubbish and don't pay any more attention to him. Number 6, do you and your friends drive it to "You"? Remember that the appeal to God is of "you". Are the others nothing more than God or will they be? On "You" people invented it like that ... OK, let there be official addresses, but everywhere they are only they are not tied. If we only talk to "you", it will lose its meaning. So don't work so hard. Look at the lectures he wrote until you get to the advice the girl wants. Apparently you lack self-confidence and a pat on the shoulder that you are the most educated.
In my opinion, when you kiss someone, you should come from inside to let his tongue out. I don't know how it will sound to you, but if you don't like kissing him with your tongue, maybe he is not your true love .... I'm sorry if I touch you with these words, but I think so: (((
And I'm worried about kissing with my tongue, and my boyfriend is very attached to that, but it's kind of weird and disgusting to me. How he wants to kiss me like I can't find an occasion and a suitable moment because he is dating a group of people I hate.
Just don't kiss him! Be yourself and don't do what you don't want to do. Tell him that you don't like it and I completely agree with number 8 - if he dumps you because of that, then he is a complete wretch-GARBAGE !! Forget it. This is from me.
Please !? He repeated it - you are afraid of being dumped on the street like a dog. Now I'm sorry to talk to you like that, it's probably not very easy for you anyway, but tighten it up. TO translate what you wrote to see that it's not really scary - you're afraid that someone will dump you because you wanted to be yourself and you held your position, he'll be your idiot if he doesn't wait the moment. You remember there are people and people, some like it - others do not. And when we talk about it really, if you don't wait for the right moment, when you're all goosebumps and everything just happens by itself without planning and thinking with passion and surprise, if you don't wait, you just can't like it either.
Don't take offense, but you're super weird to me! When you go with a boy, consider what he wants! Why should you make such a problem for a tongue kiss ?! He wants to because every normal couple has kissed with their tongue and not once! For example, I kiss my friend every day with my tongue and I don't know what is disgusting to him and what is so bad for him! ... girl, you are strange! Tighten up!
Well, I don't have a thrill either, but I'm kissing, and in your case, if you love him so much ... you guessed it ....
I'm 14 soon 15, girl. When I was little I first kissed a boy who was super unexpected and fast and it became disgusting and wet and nasty in my mouth. After this incident I don't want to kiss with my tongue at all and I feel very sick ... Today a boy tried to kiss me with his tongue but I was with my mouth closed and yes ... I feel sick because everyone around me is normal and they are not disgusted by anything ... And when I watch on TV how they kiss, I even enjoy it, but when my moment comes ...
I am 12 and of course my moment will come, but for your situation .. When this moment comes do not pull just let you see what will happen. If you haven't kissed him like that before, who knows, you might like it. But if that doesn't happen, come up with some crazy excuse and ... well, that's it. Still, I wish you success with the kiss. :)
I am almost 16 and my first kiss was only a few months ago with my ex-boyfriend, but with my tongue only a few times, I always pulled first even without a tongue, because I loved another ... I think that at 13 it is normal without a tongue even better, and even at this age you hardly love him, and because you hold on to love like me, something stops you. My current boyfriend and I make love and kiss every day and things I never imagined in a movie. ^ _ ^ At 13 you are better without a tongue / and a boyfriend on the one hand /, but there is no way you can never, you can't squeeze your whole life.
I think he's angry at you for something .. You better look him in the eye and ask him "What happened? Are you mad at me for something?" I did so and he told me everything and then kissed me .. The girl most - They love to kiss with their tongues! This is a fact! If it doesn't work, take your gum and try again ..: D
My first kiss was with my tongue. We were at a disco and he just caught me and wouldn't let me go anyway. (we don't go with this boy).
I will tell you that you are small and look after your children!
You're just too young, I was still playing with dolls at your age, and now you're all in a hurry to grow up. You say you love him, but you really have no idea what you're talking about.
Up to number 6, it is very unfortunate to correct others and you yourself to be illiterate, I have not watched everything, but what caught my eye. I DON'T KNOW it is written like that !!!! As for the topic, I don't think they really kissed you, so that you can understand how it is and you obviously didn't love the person if you don't feel a shiver. Find the person for you and then try !!
The author is already 20 years old, what is the point of more comments ....
if you don't like it, just tell him and if he loved you he will forgive you if you are not healthy
My girlfriend and I have been together for two years .. We've done a lot, including having an active sex life, but we've never kissed with the tongue .. I don't like it, but obviously she loves me as much as she does I her so .. two years we drive it without it ..
Hi, now I will not blame you, but I just want to ask you: Why did you catch a boyfriend, when you are disgusted by a kiss with the tongue, it is quite normal and normal for him to want with the tongue. My friend and I always wondered how many disgusting people there were even once when we kissed and he called me yiu (it was humorous) and we both started laughing. So ... think about it. Success!