Hello ... I'm 16. A month ago I went to camp with my friends. There were a lot of boys my age and ... a wonderful boy of 16. All the girls fell for him. I also really liked it ... One night there was something like a disco. I stood and watched the others have fun. I saw him talking to his friends and looking at me. He came and asked me, "Why don't you dance" And I told him, "I just don't want to." he asked me, "Are you so incompetent?" and then I was offended by his words. He was just a dream ... I thought he was being nice and then he disappointed me. I got up and went to my room. After about 10 minutes there was a knock on the door. The boy came in, and I didn't tell him anything. He said, "I'm sorry for what I told you ... Just when I saw such a pretty girl and I didn't know how to express myself." I told him, that this is not the way and should not be in my room, but at the same time I wanted it to be with me. He approached and ... we kissed ... then again and until I realized we were looking for a room that was not occupied. He took off my tank top and his T-shirt and ... we did. While the crazy disco downstairs continued, we were both in bed and talking. Then I took a bath and went back to my room. I was so happy about what happened, but at the same time restless, that things developed so quickly. The next day we went for a walk on the beach. Adrian (the boy's name) seemed more and more beautiful and good to me. Our relationship was no longer such a secret, which led to the envy of many girls. In the evening we also hid and talked. It was time to leave and I had to part with Adrian. Even though we were in the same city, it was big and you didn't know, whether it will be easy to see each other. I went home and we kept in touch with him. It was too good to be true ... I was late, I got tired easily and decided to take a pregnancy test ... It turned out that in 9 months I would become a mother. I couldn't believe it then ... Adrian and I were taking precautions ... If I told him, he definitely wouldn't stay with me. I go to school, and if my parents find out, I don't know what will happen. What to do?
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For starters, don't lie. First you say "I'm 16." then "a wonderful boy of 16" .. so far so good .. you're the same age and a little lower "he was great" Last ??? As for being pregnant, there is no other solution than to share with yours and have an abortion.
You should tell him and decide together.
I think he was great about the city, not the boy ... Chick, tell yours and welcome the decision together, you are still dependent on them ...
As you did not publish my comment, I just wanted to share that the story sincerely cheered me up and congratulated the girl on the occasion of your baby - may you be alive and well, and you will be very happy with your father!
He was great about the city, and if I tell ours I just don't know they're going crazy. I'm not like that, I go to bed with everyone I meet, but who knows what they will think ...
Tell your friend and discuss this, but I advise you not to have an abortion! It sucks to kill an innocent creature! And don't leave it in a children's home! Now your situation sucks, but you had to think about what you were doing ...
You are too young to have a child, you will hardly be able to take care of him. I have a daughter "and God forbid", but if it was her, I can honestly tell you that I would go crazy and still support her. From now on I can tell you the answer of your friend "Mahnigo", you will go to a private clinic, you will pour two pockets of money so that no one will understand. And then the problems you will have will worry your mother and father, your friend will just not care anymore .... For whatever your parents think, and they are parents for that, share the problem with them. These are the people who are able to really help you right now.
First - until you turn 18 at sea with mom and dad because you have no responsibility !! Secondly, tell your father and go have an abortion until it's too late, that you can't look after yourself and I don't understand how you're going to have a baby! Third - From now on do not open your legs in front of the first "wonderful collector of women's attention" Fourth - If you have an abortion, pray that you really become ready for children to be able to have them. Cheers dear girl!
I can give you advice, call me on if it's not too late I tell you not to have an abortion. True, it will be difficult, but if the boy really cares about you, he will support you whatever you decide =)