If you are madly in love, what obstacles (unless you are seriously engaged, of course married), would stop you from experiencing your love (large difference in age, religion, disapproval of family and friends, financial situation). Don't accuse me of mercantilism, it doesn't mean that the above stops me, I'm just interested in how people think :) What are you ready to do for the one you love?
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For love I am ready for anything ... When it is mutual you do not feel it as a victim (any "obstacle" of any kind) :)
Crazy lovers, nothing can stop them. Otherwise, I would only leave him if he cheated on me.
I would give up many things for love. But there are two things that I do not break for anyone or anything and they are a compromise with myself and my pride. 24г. M
It always stops me that on the other hand they don't respond with the same feelings haha
I wouldn't deepen a relationship, even if I had feelings if he was an alcoholic or a liar. I hate these two things and I don't compromise with them!
Reasonable obstacles for me would be: religion, ethnicity, if he is stupid - not very intelligent or ill-mannered, critically low level of morality - here we are talking mainly about punishments bordering on inhumanity in terms of severe physical violence or mental violence or other people, some addictions such as gambling or drugs, especially if they are severe, overly perverted sexual preferences such as voyeurism, objectophilia and the like. In general, it is as if. Girl, 21 years old.
Bad attitude.
If I'm already in love, I know that a curtain has fallen before my eyes, it's over, I tend to downplay any reasons. I try to think before it's too late when I can still avoid a bullet. Perhaps most of all, I am most denied the lack of deep feelings in the other person and a big difference in age. As the age difference, because I am not a child, is purely in terms of life stage and way of thinking in different generations. There is nothing else to explain, there is no point in waiting for rain in the desert, you cannot force someone to love you. Otherwise, the opinion of others is not important, I do not care about money, the distance is overcome, obstacles are overcome. There is a difference between an obstacle and a disastrous problem. I think that distance is a sufficient problem only for teenagers who are still naive and not independent.
Well, it depends. There are two things I would dump a woman I love. The first is infidelity, and the second is the presence of vices / smoking, alcoholism, DRUGS /. For infidelity, I tend to forgive certain promises on her part that this will never happen again, but for vices - NO! And unlike age, religion, financial status and approval / disapproval of relatives - I WOULD NEVER DROP MY FAVORITE. But I don't have a favorite, so my opinion may not be authoritative. I once had, and now I don't ... But still, in my imaginary hypothetical thought experiment, these are the results. I hope I was useful. Male, 20 years old
I have done everything in the name of love and I will do it, just for me this is the most sacred feeling and if it is real no obstacle will stop me!
The ones listed by the author are not an obstacle for me, although I understand the people who consider them important. What stops me as an obstacle is selfishness (drug addiction and gambling, lack of compromise and the desire for supremacy at all costs). Selfishness, in my opinion, kills the love between lovers, and the existing laws and social environment work actively against the social obstacles listed by the author.