It was love at first sight for both of us. From the first minute we became inseparable and from the first week we lived together. We counted the hours when the day would end, we would return from work and see each other. We couldn't detach ourselves from each other. We were all very happy. Our families, friends, colleagues saw that we were happy. I always wanted to cry with happiness and that happened then. We lived alone. We renovated our apartment, made it good for us. We had no problems with work, we both have a stable income and money was not a problem for us. We went to many places, we went out with friends, our daily life was varied. The sex was amazing. His relatives and friends began to talk to him about marriage and children, sometimes jokingly and sometimes seriously. And so until the beginning of this year. Sometime in February, everything changed in a flash, and in March he wanted to break up because he didn't love me anymore. It was like a shock to me. I didn't understand what was happening and my god I still don't know what happened. Where I went wrong and what I did. I don't even remember arguing about anything. He just said and cut off. And until the day before, everything was fine. We went to a family reunion with his relatives, the sex had not changed or decreased, I only felt a change in his attitude last week, but I attributed it to the problems in his work. Believe me, I'm not the same person this day. He was the perfect one for me and so far I can't find a flaw in him, and I have no explanation for his behavior. We see each other from time to time by chance and talk normally like old acquaintances about common things. Once I just tried to raise the question of why he left me, whereupon he became angry and left. Tell me how to forget it when I don't know if I will ever experience that feeling again. I have other fans, but none can compare to him. I have to make a lot of compromises to be with them, it doesn't feel the same way. Tell me he's not worth it.
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Maybe he was worried about the excessive brilliance and seriousness in your relationship, but what if he is not ready for a family and others suppress him with their hints? Call him and insist that you see each other and talk. There is another possibility, you just hated him - men are like that.
How long have you lived together? Maybe things have developed very quickly for you and he has already passed the thrill of euphoria in which he has lived since the moment you met. For men, things are more superficial and they do not feel very, very much, although they claim that they love us, that they cannot do without us, and so on. I wonder how you torture yourself by continuing to see him? Because I was also abandoned just like that, but by my married lover, I no longer wanted to see him or hear him again after the separation, because whenever he called me on the phone I fell into depression and uncontrollable crying simply because more I loved him. Do not torment your soul and head with questions to which you will not receive an answer. Try not to think about him, and he if you can not without you by now you have reunited. If it didn't, so he didn't really love you. We women must stop, after all, guessing at men's behavior and suffering from it because they don't deserve it. There is no man who loves a woman as she loves him.
Probably you either hated him or he found another one, unfortunately men are like that .... :(
He's scared of the seriousness of your relationship, because it's developed pretty fast, you know, very good is not good.
Something similar happened to me three months ago. Love, plans, we spent a lot of time together and we had to live together in his new home this summer. Two months before we broke up, I had problems at work, I found another one, but I hadn't decided what to do. I was nervous. And one day he told me that my stupid problems were making him tired. One Sunday he just left me crying in the rain. He stopped picking up his phone. I wrote him a lot of messages and in the isolated cases in which he answered me, I realized that he was leaving me?)) Was it a big drama? I realized that one has to take care of oneself. I don't know if I will meet Love soon, but I have no choice but to wait? And even after he didn't look for me, I was obviously nothing to him.
The reason is exactly the same because a woman can stop loving a man. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. The big problem, in my opinion, is that many people do not know if they love someone or are just momentarily attracted to him / her. There is a big difference. However, you can't blame someone for stopping loving you, no matter how hard it is. However, you can blame him if he lied to you that he loves you!
Just forget it !!!
Не я заблуждавайте, защото ще я депресирате още повече. А това е много страшно, защото тя ще търси причината в себе си, а такава просто няма. Мила, високо главата към следващата любов. Той просто е намерил друга и няма сили да ти го каже. А нали са подмолни същества мъжете няма и да ти го каже, за да може ако случайно се скара с другата да се върне при теб. За съжаление това е истината. Трябва да си много силна. Гледай напред.
Hello, I sincerely regret what happened ... but in my opinion, whatever the reason - you need to know it ... because it will haunt you for a long time .... you will always wonder - did I make a mistake .... why .... what happened ... etc. In my opinion, first find out the reason .... there is a reason for everything .... I doubt very simply that you are suddenly tired of him .... I doubt also to be afraid of the seriousness of your relationship .... when a person loves another - he just has no chance to get bored ...
Don't think about him! He is a coward! If he was a man on the spot, he would tell you what the reason was, whether you pushed him away with something or he just found another one! Does not deserve you! Success!
I don't know if I can see better that you wrote this 4 months ago and I sincerely hope with all my heart that you have overcome your pain. Today I wrote my story "I want it to stop hurting me" and I saw that both things are almost the same, but the only thing I would tell you is to stop thinking about him I know you can't and everything reminds you of him, but have Courage a person once he ends a relationship means he does not love the person enough or there is another involved between you.
I hope you are better now ... And do you know what is good :) that after such a breakup with the next man it will be even better ... Personal experience ... Don't compare ... just forget and indulge something better ... There are no perfect people, even less - men !!!