I am a 19 year old girl and you have had a friend for 3 years. It can be said that everything is okay with us, he behaves super well with me, he helps me in everything, but sometimes he suffocates me a lot, he wants me to always be with him and we live together. He is a year older than me. In the summer I worked at a cafe and a boy came and I liked him, we started looking at each other, he was smiling at me and after he left it didn't take long and he asked me for friendship on one of the social networks. He started writing to me but it didn't last long because I cut it off, of course I have a friend. About 4, 5 months later he started writing to me again and from topic to topic he told me that when he saw me he liked me and that I was very beautiful and sweet. I was surprised because he was only telling me now and he told me that he had been abroad and it didn't make sense, but now you were here. We saw each other a few times and he tried to caress me as we talked he smiled at me and looked me straight in the eye. It really got interesting to me to some extent. I just missed chasing someone with this three-year relationship. We wrote to each other for a long time, on all sorts of topics, not immediately, but he started to hint at me around sex, I naturally pulled, and he asked me not to be a nun and that when you like someone, it's normal to want intimacy. he did not stop writing.
He knew that I had a boyfriend, about a week passed and my boyfriend and I quarreled over this boy, I told the boy that we had a quarrel with my boyfriend and he stopped writing to me, he said something like that he doesn't want to ruin my relationship, he said even to tell him that there is nothing between us and any. And this moment when I started writing to him, I had an argument with my friend because, as I said, sometimes he suffocates me a lot and that prompted me to start. We haven't written about a month or so, but when I upload something to a story and he always looks at it, he wants to get my attention, but neither he nor I write. The question is, what did this boy really want from me? !! I want to mention that the boy in question is 26.
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The "boy" in question, dear, wanted sex, but when he saw that the situation was getting hot and his friend intervened, he decided not to get into trouble and trouble, but to go elsewhere. What he looks at means nothing. If he had wanted to look for you by now, he had already done so without worry.
Well sex at least! You said he told you. Possibly something more. But he doesn't want problems with your boyfriend, and he seems too serious to separate you and then live with you.
Such questions puzzle me. What did he want? To attract your attention, to try to get where sex, where something else and so on. He wasn't seriously in love, and he didn't expect you to drop everything to be with him. He tried several times, he caught your attention, but he didn't get anything special. In the end, you told him that you had an argument with your friend over him, which is often considered a kind of accusation, and he decided that there was no point in dealing with you. You didn't take steps towards him, you didn't sleep with him, you told him that you and your friend were arguing over him, and he accepted that you had no desire to cheat. That's it, it's simple. Now he can watch everything you upload to social networks, but that doesn't mean anything. Many people start looking at and liking a lot of photos without even thinking, they don't do it on purpose, but just like that.
He just wanted sex :)
He wanted you .... is now how to write it to publish my comment. Casual relationship and sex. There are a lot of people living abroad who pretend to be great when they return to Bulgaria. While I was studying and living with a roommate, I gave him my share of the rent and took pictures with them for FB. He washed dishes or was on the unemployment market and saved money, because when he returned to the village where he had women, he drank and he lied. The Bulgarian easily raises her legs, thinking that there is green. Don't bother with this boy. M28
She wants to fuck you, she was a girl. What is not clear? He wants the same thing you want - to keep from fucking.
"We saw each other several times and he tried to caress me while we talked, he smiled at me and looked me straight in the eye. We wrote to each other for a long time, on all sorts of topics, not immediately, but he started to hint at me around sex, I naturally pulled, and he asked me not to be a nun and that when you like someone, it's normal to want intimacy. he did not stop writing. "This is a typical player, I wouldn't deal with such a brat who thinks he can deceive you with learned behavior. "I told the boy that we had an argument with my boyfriend and he stopped writing to me and said something like that he doesn't want to ruin my relationship" Ie he tells you - I want casual sex without your boyfriend knowing. "It simply came to my notice then. I just missed chasing someone with this three-year relationship. "There will always be someone with whom you have a thrill. Someone newer, prettier, smarter, richer, more fun ... The same goes for you, there are women who are PO than you. Think logically for the future when you want a family, that in a relationship it is not the thrill that leads, but the love that is expressed in respect, support, sincerity and a shared pleasant everyday life.