I have an acquaintance of 60 who has an interest in me. I don't know how to answer, I'm 45, married. What do men of this age need? Please only for serious answers, thank you
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If your acquaintance is 60 and is educated and knows that you are married, he will not show intimate interest in you. Men at this age are mature, intelligent, educated and do not do such things. Look, if you weren't married and you don't have a boyfriend right now, then she might be thinking about having an affair with you, provided she likes you physically. If you are 45 and married, why don't you know how to answer. You just tell him that you love your husband and are faithful to him. If you are wondering how to answer him, it means that you are not faithful to your husband and you do not love him, but you are thinking about adventures. And if you want to know what men of this age need, I'll tell you. They want even younger women than you because the young girl has other vibrations and strongly influences the male imagination, and you must be overweight, probably wrinkles on the face, but you are already 3.4 classes of women. Do not imagine that you are very liked. Calm down a bit.
I am also very interested in the topic. I even thought of playing one. But I'm in my early 20s ... I also have an acquaintance / friend I met online. It turned out that we are from the same city, that it deals with exactly the things that I am interested in. He was very interesting to me as a person and maybe a year after we started writing to each other, we decided to meet. We talked for a long time, we walked, it was a strange but pleasant meeting. A week later, however, I received several disturbing messages such as "You are a very special person in my life," "I'm ready to help you whenever you need help." It sounded like I had blown his mind (at least I think so), I thought quite honestly. In general, this was one of our last chats. I was startled by his candor and the strangeness of the situation and did not hide it from him. He tried for two or three more months to return to the previous tone of the conversation, but for fear of being misled in some way, and the lack of time, I mostly ignored him. I found out he blocked me recently. Maybe he was startled by himself, I know: D ... So I'm following the topic. That a person can fall in love at any age is a fact. But how sincere his words were, I will be able to judge from the comments of others who have already fallen into a similar situation. So I follow the topic. That a person can fall in love at any age is a fact. But how sincere his words were, I will be able to judge from the comments of others who have already fallen into a similar situation. So I follow the topic. That a person can fall in love at any age is a fact. But how sincere his words were, I will be able to judge from the comments of others who have already fallen into a similar situation.
Extremely stupid question in my opinion. It does not speak well of the author's intellect. If a girl aged 16-17 asks it, it is justified, but to ask a woman aged 45? If she cares what her acquaintance wants, why not ask him? Directly and directly and ask for such a specific answer. Apparently she is not looking for one, but for games, flirting and "refreshing" the family routine behind her husband's back.
Men at 60 are men like all other men and they want what other men want. I just don't understand what excites you about this after you're married. 60. Disgusting, he may not be her father but her grandfather. This people may have shouted ....
At any age, men need two things - love and respect. Women too.
I am a man of 60 years! What does a 60-year-old man need? A 60-year-old man needs different things. But it's not bad to play with a young girl. Then he can brag to his friends-sets. The smaller, the more commendable. Men in their 60s may not be able to keep an erection for 3 hours, but we know the female body and female fantasies well, and we know our fantasies well. We know how to make oral love to a woman without rushing to finish. We know how to listen and predispose a woman to tender, sensual sex. In addition, we already have enough money to take the babe to a nice restaurant or hotel, to a spa, to relax her, to pamper her. We are looking for such entertainment. Without many commitments, dangers of pregnancy, marriage, etc. But even in this way we deliver hitherto unknown pleasures to younger women,
He wants a cake, what else? But it is not certain that it can, so - ignore.
Hello, №4! I am the author of the second comment. Do you think girls in their 20s can't communicate with men in their 60s and such a friendship is not possible, right? Because that's exactly how you sound. When I enjoy talking to someone and when I have something to learn from them, I will always do it. As long as our friendly relations are always within the bounds of prudence and decency. I'm puzzled, that's why I'm commenting. Apparently you yourself see the friendship with such a big difference in age (and in principle the friendship between a man and a woman) above all as an opportunity to create another type of relationship. This is not commendable. Then I was the "screaming", well you saved to write "k ** va" after that)))
Number 2, the man wanted to spank you, what do you think?
Ehoooo, №2 and 8. First I will clarify that I am not a man, but a woman. Secondly, I will note that what you write does not look like your relationship is friendly. And finally I will add that if I was in my early 20s - to say I'm over - I wouldn't even look at a man in his 60s. I'm sorry, I'm kind of perverted. And you drive as you know - it's all a matter of perspective.
№4, very unfortunate, so apart from the fact that you are slightly lame in reading comprehension, I can also say that you are limited. Age should not stop you from communicating and learning from more experienced people. There are ingenious people my age, yes, but when you meet a smart and successful person who is older - what? - Do you cut it right away? "Sorry, I have principles, I never talk to older people. I find them perverted when they pay attention to young girls." - Honestly, this sounds terribly stupid :) That's right, it's all a matter of perspective. And my point of view is not in the range of 20-30 (speaking for years) simply because I see that between a man and a woman there can be many more types of relationships than sexual - business and business relationships, for example, friendships, etc. I expected there to be a lot more in-depth comments, but apparently the point of view of most goes only to the ways of satisfying their sexual needs. From the first step of Maslow's pyramid, its top is difficult to see, hmm ...
A friendship between a man and a woman can only exist if the appearance is lame.
Most of all, they need to solve second-order differential equations and triple integrals. For which they need the help of married 45-year-old women. Maybe 20-year-old girls.
№12, you write outright nonsense and distort my words. I would never refuse to contact a person older than me, on the contrary - I know that they have experienced more, that they are wiser, that life has taught them many things. But in both cases - both the author and №2 it is clear that their intentions are purely sexual. Do you encourage a married woman to cheat? And do you like a 20-year-old girl to deal with a 60-year-old man? If you were your daughter or granddaughter, you would sing another song. There's someone limited here - but it's not me. Come on health ...
Meraka died last.
Hello! I am a middle-aged man. What men of 30, 40, 50, 60 want is the same as women of these ages, but we are not honest with ourselves and we do not admit it. If you write this topic, it means that you also have sympathy for the person. For me, not always, and at all costs, communication is connected only with sex. The decision is yours alone, the heart is also a good advisor! Good chance!
Number 13 is pretty straight. Quite similar topics have been written and the conclusion is obvious. There can be no friendship between a man and a woman! Watch it from wherever you want, but it's a fact. There are such thoughts that there is such a friendship, but either there is something wrong with one of the two or he is afraid to admit it. What 55-60 year old men wanted. Well, in my opinion / a man of 40 / looking for peace. A settled man. Normal conversation, and naturally intimate relationships. For example, I've been looking for these things since I was 30 years old. And I don't have any of them. I haven't been with a woman in 6 years. I tried to reach out, but I was embarrassed. From the age of 16 to 34, I had all sorts of experiences and marriage proposals from women. The moment I decided to sit on my ass and start a family, everything turned upside down. And now I'm pulling my hair and wondering if I've been here.
They want to be young.
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Hello. I am facing the same dilemma. How things are going with you. We don't see each other very often, but I'm always happy. There is something very charming, radiating serenity. Good luck to you too.
If he knows you're married and you're pushing, he's not very literate. Otherwise he wants what every man wants.
From a thick wallet and viagra. Otherwise, there is no one to look at them, literally.
What does a 60-year-old man need? From changing diapers: D: D: D
From plum.