I'm talking to her friends ... And we come to the topic "Meaning of life". I express my theory: "Every place is the center of the universe, Every moment is the most important, Everything is the meaning of life" (Thought of the writer of the series "Rick and Morty") - this is how you should live. The girl I like hears us and completely carelessly lifts her head from her phone for a moment, and says "Then do it." Later that day, I thought about the meaning of her words. On the one hand, she may want me to live my life and not bother her, and on the other hand she may ask me to pay more attention to her ... I have no idea what she means ! There are no previous actions of hers to support either of my two doubts. Thanks for your time.
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Why do you connect her wishes in what she said? Because that's what you want. And she just joined the conversation with an obvious conclusion, nothing more.
“Then do it!” It’s ingenious! And if she truly believed what she was saying, you would understand that she meant exactly what she was saying - to make your life! It doesn't matter what she thinks. You make your life! No brakes! Uninhibited! Take it, and if it refuses - go on! Every moment is the most important! Everything is the Meaning! ;) Ж30
Some wiser people, than the writer of the series "Rick and Morty", said - "Hungry hen - millet dreams.". Not that this writer is wrong, but the topic is for you. But the sides of things in life are never just two - dualism is only in limited brains.
You are looking for a calf under the ox. Women do not understand philosophy. She just said something to join the conversation.
The ultimate conclusion of this philosophy is to do what you want at any given moment, without caring what others want, how they will react, etc. In short, she may have told you with this inclusion that you are a wooden philosopher - a lot of talk, nothing to support them. In other words, as much as women like to talk to them, they prefer these tales to be supported by action, if minimal.
She meant that all this was true, but in the end, if we just talk about these things and do nothing, being true is of no use. Ie the main thing is to act and follow these philosophies, not just philosophize. And all this hardly has anything to do with your sympathy for her and whether to marry her or not. It's just that you're so fixated on interpreting everything in that context. And she really hardly thinks about it at all or pays any attention to him. You just made a movie yourself and you think it's all about your movies.
Whatever you heard. You said "that's the way to live", she said "then do it". Without any intention. Maybe if he had said something like "that's how I live," she would have found it interesting. Did you answer anything?