I appeal to each of you who loves or has ever truly loved in your life. What does it mean for you to love I ask you because after a series of dramatic events and twists and turns, I began to question my own judgments about love. I am no longer sure what it is like to truly love and whether I have ever truly loved in my life ... Please be my corrective and give me back the real idea of this feeling. When a person truly loves: 1. Is he afraid of a common future with the object of his feelings? 2. Does he question his partner's feelings? 3. Does he question his ability to make his partner happy? 4. Does he feel insecure about his relationship with his partner? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I've always thought that when a person truly loves, the answer to all these questions is, "NO!" Is it true, that when a person loves, he just loves and point without question ??? Thank you!
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Love makes you do things you wouldn't normally do. Many years have passed and many dramatic events have happened in my life and I really can't judge whether love is cursed or the best thing that can happen in a person's life. 1. Is he afraid of a common future with the object of his feelings? -No, isn't that the goal 2. Does he question his partner's feelings? -Always! This is one of the bad sides of love, but there is no way the doubt is missing, love and doubt always go hand in hand. It is inevitable! 3. Do you question your ability to make your partner happy? -It shouldn't, but I think that in rare cases this also happens. When you love someone, you give your best. And "everything" means to be happy . 4. Does he feel insecure about his relationship with his partner? -Insecurity is caused by the fear that you may lose this person. And this is inevitable, if there is no insecurity and fear, then there is no real love. Love is a two-way process, you can't love and you can't be loved. Even if it could be temporary, in the end the one-sided one wears out.
I personally think that the answer may not always be NO and still love truly! Another question is whether love is 100% shared.
Love? I don't believe in love, I don't believe when I hear "I love you", I don't believe that I can love someone - I really don't believe ... I wish you success
Hmm, directly to your 4 questions. 1- No, don't be afraid. He even strives for it. 2- In principle, no, but it still depends on the partner. Examples a lot - for reference - "love and infidelity" 3- He certainly wants to make his partner happy, he may doubt his abilities, it depends on what it is about. 4- He should not feel insecure. But at all times he should strive to strengthen the relationship, to demonstrate his feelings and to make his partner as happy as possible. But
My love, there are no criteria in love. Usually when she leaves, then one realizes whether she was real or not. If it hurts, then you loved.
And what if you squandered your chance with someone many years ago and didn't have the opportunity to experience your moments together, and what if one day he reappears in your life and tells you that he hasn't forgotten you for so many years? You have just overcome him, but during these years you have been tormented, hiding and secretly crying for him, when you enter a church you pray for him, when you kiss another you think of him, when you look for his eyes constantly and still do not find them. ..and somehow your time has dulled these feelings but this person reappears ... and you shiver, the feelings invade you again, attack you mercilessly, the thrill shakes you and you realize that it is still in your heart ... this love Do you think that if I have a friend now, and he is also busy ... is it worth living the long-awaited, dreamed and painfully longed-for moments? Please answer me ...
I think the answer to everything is yes. It is normal to be afraid6. To love means to have your legs cut every time you see the object of love. E you are completely devoted to him. To get everything out of your mind when you talk to 4 people
When I met my husband, my first thought was "I will grow old next to this man". We have been together for 10 years. 1. Is he afraid of a common future with the object of his feelings? - I don't think so - after all, this is the natural development of a true love. 2. Does he question his partner's feelings? - It's quite individual, I think. Doubt is in principle excruciating. If I doubt his feelings, it hardly makes sense to be with him ... but this is my opinion, which I do not impose on anyone. 3. Does he question his ability to make his partner happy? - and this is individual, ie. he can do his best to make his partner happy, but he is tormented by the thought that it is not enough. 4. Does he feel insecure about his relationship with his partner? - I will repeat here - if in doubt, what is the point of this connection ?? In general, the lack of trust makes the relationship painful and burdensome with negative emotions. As far as I can tell, this is a connection from the past, with a tendency to "return" to the present. My views may seem old-fashioned, but ... if there was that true, burning love between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan but ... if that true, burning love existed between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan but ... if that true, burning love existed between you, you would hardly be separated. And now you want to find the future in the past. I don't think it's appropriate. When a glass breaks, even if we glue it, the crack remains, the integrity is broken. This from me, I hope I was useful. Megan