Hello. I am an 18-year-old girl. and some time ago I met a boy. After daily writing and a few meetings, he just stopped contacting me. I don't want to write to him so as not to annoy him or anything like that. Boys / girls, have you been in a similar situation, and if so, what did you do and what do you think happened to the boy in question I am writing about?
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Well, mine just found a boyfriend ... He just tries and where he ties up he is welcome.
Yes - from personal experience - don't expose yourself, don't write to him, he just obviously doesn't like you and you're tired of him, no matter how much it hurts - you keep going!
He may either test you and wait to see if you're as interested as he is (supposedly waiting for you to write to him once because if you don't write to him he'll tell himself clearly, it doesn't matter anyway), or he may just be lost interest. To find out, just go and write to him, if he blues you and ignores you, then he has lost interest, if he behaves as before, then he just tried you. In both cases you lose nothing. Come now boldly go ahead and write to him.
If he doesn't write to you, then he has no interest in you
So he feels like he's not getting enough of you. It means that he devotes time and attention to you and you take them for granted and expect him to be in the role of the giver and caregiver and you of the receiver and receiver. It means that your relationship is unbalanced and one-sided. It means that you do not understand that you also have to make an effort for this relationship and make him feel good and not just passively expect everything from him. So he likes you, but at some point his patience with you waiting for you to start and you pay him the same attention he pays you is exhausted, he felt used and bitter and thinks he doesn't get it from you. which gives you and therefore just stops at one point.
Most boys do this after meeting a different girl who is not like the mass of others. Strange - they want it not to be easy, but to have to fight a little and quickly give up "making an effort". And isn't it right instead of stopping writing and calling, to talk to the person, instead of making your own decisions to end the relationship? !! Girl, don't deal with paw stories ... obviously, as they said above, the boy just doesn't care. You will still encounter such things. Keep going without thinking and don't care.
I have not encountered, but I myself have been in the place of the boy. And it's not true that he stopped writing to you because he's trying you, but because he just doesn't want to deal with you. You saw each other live, something he didn't like about you, that's why he doesn't write to you anymore. Unfortunately, on the Internet, expectations are high when everything happens in reality ... or you are happy with the success, or you are disappointed and move on. -Elizabeth, 20
Two options: either he died, or the female version of that retro chalga "Goodbye, adios, dear, goodbye, adios ..." sings to you.