Hello, everyone! I am an 18-year-old girl and until 1 year ago I had a relationship that was 2 years old. We broke up because he cheated on me with my best friend. And so on. Then he got a new one, they broke up and now he is alone. I only have one simple question to which whatever I do, I can't answer. Why did you write to me again after your separation? Everything was ok, we wrote to each other, we had decided to see each other and finally ... I hear that he went out again with my ex-best friend, he wrote to all my close and familiar friends. He tries to take down many girls, he goes out with another one almost every night. And my main question is ... Why does he write and hang out with everyone around me, but not with me? He can't look me in the eye. He passes me, there is no greeting (while there was before). What happens in such a short time.
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The question is why do you want him to communicate with you? The boy who cheated on you, and with your girlfriend, and you want to communicate with you? I would ignore it, but to talk - absurd. He wrote to you, either out of guilt or because he was dry. If it's conscience, it's okay. You don't need the other reason. It's okay to apologize for the pain. But checking to see if she would make any contact again, in your situation, is hypocrisy. This boy should pass you by because he hurt you, and with a loved one. And he had the audacity to write to you! Believe me, you don't have to want to communicate with him! You got rid of it! But you seem to have a slavish mindset, if you care at all, why doesn't the person who hurt you deal with you. Are you okay?
You are already on the list of the past, obviously it is on another page, the list of the future! And you are excited about such a countman, you will only get lies from such a one!
I answer the title - MAN DOES NOT ASK ANYTHING FROM YOU. He doesn't break you, he doesn't write to you, so he doesn't want anything. If you're going to get into movies, make them more interesting. Put in the plot of the KGB. CIA, beautiful Russian spies and others.
He wants sex from you, Author. If he was serious, he wouldn't be cheating on you in the first place. Now he is tired of his new relationship and wants to sleep with you again, and then he will start ignoring you again or demonstratively taking down someone else. He does it because it raises his self-esteem. Because he hasn't grown up. Because obviously there is nothing else to boost his self-esteem, except for a few girls who bond with him and he plays them as he wants, because they allow him.
From the author: I completely agree with the opinions of all of you. My only mistake was that I trusted him and loved him so much. He doesn't really deserve anything.
Don't think about it, you broke up once and for all. If he no longer communicates with you, what is unclear? What you want is more important. If you try to be with him again, you are wrong. It will dump you again, it's even more offensive to you. Isn't it enough that he once mocked your trust? Just forget it and don't care about it anymore.
Amy is probably in the period where she proves her "masculinity" by accumulating numbers, or cures a previous disappointment with sex and dumps. Don't feel sorry for him, you did the right thing by leaving him. And you better not pay attention to him, even if he writes to you again, you will be sorry if you let him come back into your life.
Do not delve into what the ex wants or thinks. Nothing good comes of it, you just bother. He went on, sleeping left and right, and you're still thinking about it. We women are more emotional, and that's why we work so hard. It has happened to me that they are looking for me, and most often for several reasons. 1. He wants to sleep with you again, maybe not because of the sex itself, but just to have you again, to know that he can have you again. He may have thought of you, attracted him more, but only so far. He does not want to be in a relationship with you again, but only in a hurry. Is that what you want to be, is that what he remembered only from you? This reason is most likely, but it hurt me the most. 2. His current girlfriend does not make him so happy, and something is lame. Problems can be of any nature, and he thinks of you because, for example, you didn't react or say that. That is, make comparisons, because something is currently lame. 3. He wants to raise his ego. He checks his exes to see if they will respond, if they will be favorable. He doesn't care how you are, just to know if you remember him or suffer. And so he rejoices, he feels significant. 4. Rub your nose, showing how good and good it is. Underage men do this, kind of seeing what you've missed. 5. So as not to move forward. He may be with others, but subconsciously he does not want you to be with another and forget him. It happened to me that I was not looking for him, but he was looking for me every few months. Hey, it's that simple. It just reminds you of yourself so you don't forget it. It's annoying, and also immature. 6. To want to be friends. It may work for some, but it is not recommended to try. Besides, I always think there is a backward thought. He will know that once you are curled up, you are either desperate or you still love him. It will manipulate you and make you feel even worse. And honestly, with some people it's better not to look at each other again. There may be other reasons, but I can think of those. Whatever the reason, you just don't need it. If he looks for you again, just tell him that you're uncomfortable, that you don't want to communicate, that you're still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate. that you are still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate. that you are still sick. A normal person will understand you. You can even block it. Pass him by, talk to him only when absolutely necessary. Remember that a person who does not care that he has hurt you, but is impudent for some contact, is not literate.
And something else. Your ex is no longer your problem, but someone else's. Let someone else know what he is like, break his head with him, put up with his nonsense. Then, after a few lose it, he will appreciate you, but too late. But he is no longer your problem, but someone else's. He may be different with another, but internally he will be the same person, with the same way of thinking and behaving. There is no point in being jealous or wondering why he is with them and not with you. There is no point in making comparisons between you and the new ones. Just try for them now, but they will understand what it is. Just feel sorry for the new one who will get involved with him.
From the author: I really thank everyone for the good advice. I began to pass him, to ignore him. We will finally see what happens. By the way, after him I had a relationship with someone else. But he called me again and told me bad things about the boy I was dating. He warned me, he didn't want me with him.