In every second opinion written by a woman on matters of love / family / infidelity, etc., I find the expression that a man should know what he wants. Honestly, I do not understand the hidden meaning of this expression. it should have a hidden meaning, because there is literally no such thing. I don't know a man who doesn't know what he wants, or at least I can't say it's a mass phenomenon. It is usually typical for women not to know what they want, to change their opinions, etc. I can guess that with this expression women mean to be proactive, to lead and make decisions without considering the woman? Perhaps with this expression, women avoid acknowledging that they don't really know what they want or just don't want to bear the consequences of some irresponsible decision (such as infidelity) and instead say, "I want a man,
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Emmy, because they don't know what they want, they advise us to know, because they know how hard it is to make such wrong choices.
It literally means you want a woman and you don't stop until you get her. That's it. Without hesitation, a month, two, five, a year, no matter. There is no woman who is not enchanted by the perseverance and determination of a man.
Author, you have already described the basics, but I will add what women show visually what "a man who knows what he wants" means. It turns out that he is the one who has a lot of money, an expensive car and an apartment, regularly goes to restaurants and vacations, pays for everything and buys expensive gifts. On the other hand, the knowledgeable man knows full well that he will get a woman walking apart. He is even more knowledgeable if he was born a giant with broad shoulders and sculpted an athletic body. According to women, men with a height of less than 180 cm and those with a normal body and no thick wallet "do not know what they want." The thick wallet helps the man to step on top and be much taller in the woman's eyes.
"A man who knows what he wants", this is a man who is always ready to hire you ... is to beat your jester. And if you happen to get up, but you get up a lot, let your bride make you.
For me, to know what he wants means to have goals in the near and long term, to take some action on them. T. is if he wants to work in a position - to learn what he needs to work in the right place. If a woman wants, he can also take care of her, etc. He may not have the thickest wallet, as one of the comments says. Not all women are looking for millionaires. But no woman likes a man who lives with his mother. I believe that if a man wants a family, he should be able to provide an average standard.
Number 3, fill my soul :-) Short and clear :-)
Number 3 - complete nonsense is what you wrote. If you are aiming for such powdered dolls, it is normal for these to be the main things to look for in you. If you want a decent girl, you will have to rearrange your priorities and, accordingly, the goals you are trying to achieve. The fact that someone can offer nothing but money and a model figure is far from the most important thing. If this complicates you, then you have a serious problem. Number 2 - "There is no woman who is not enchanted by the perseverance and determination of a man." Does this apply in the opposite case?
I will explain to you now. My ex and I were over 10 years apart. I'm in my early 20s. You clearly understand that a man is not a boy. And at the end of our relationship, I ask him, "What do you want? Tell me! Do you want to separate? Do you want to stay together? We have to solve it together, it's not just what I want." And he said, "Oh, ami. .. and I do not know. "Well, do I know? !! So, he didn't know, I knew what I wanted. That means knowing what he wants! To know if a woman wants it or not. Determined men attract women in other words.
It means you want her, that means. Also to please her and to tolerate her nonsense. Understand that women in general are very selfish beings who think primarily of themselves. When a woman tells a man, for example, to know what she wants, she wants that man to be sure of her, that is, to want her. She is not really interested in what he wants and his happiness, for example he may want to play computer games, be confident and happy about it and want it, but this is not ok for her. She is not interested in his happiness but in how to use it for her own benefit. When she asks you what you do, she doesn't care if you're happy with your job, if you're happy with it, if you feel satisfied ... no. She is interested in your salary and is currently assessing how much she can get from you, of course you don't have to be. " empathy and entering into the situation of the other. They are driven by greed, selfishness, thrill, or something just as superficial. Sift very carefully. empathy and entering into the situation of the other. They are driven by greed, selfishness, thrill, or something just as superficial. Sift very carefully.
I am a man, but I understand it this way - to have some direction in life and to work for it. For example, to have decided what he wants to work, to have some plans such as family, career and to follow them. And not to live day by day - today he catches up here, earns BGN 5, tomorrow he draws somewhere else, he catches up with a woman for fun, and then he dumps her without even knowing why. In two words, Abe should be consistent, decisive and responsible and be able to rely on him, and not change his mind every 5 minutes. That's how it works for me.
I'm number 3. Number 7, and you can see for yourself that number 10 has already answered you correctly and correctly enough, but I will add something else, because at the same time you are asking me and throwing in some of your distorted guesses. And you break with the regular female taunts like "Ha-ha, let it suck - that makes my day meaningful!". Emmy, I'm not sick, but I'm happy and free that I'm not with a member of your gender of the kind we're discussing. I have a wife and we are expecting a baby. I joined the topic because there are a lot of untold truths, and it is good that there is no hidden cover. I've been with all kinds of women: normal-looking, ugly, beautiful, working, studying, unemployed, wealthy, poor, short, medium-sized, taller than me, modest, pretending to be modest, poisoned, great moralists, nymphomaniacs, alone women, women with child, young, older, around my age ... All different in their own way. But all of them looked serious as an attitude - that was what they had in common. With this, they usually try to impress serious men, who do not use other insidious female tactics. And yet they have in common that they always, but always pursue their personal gain, although most skillfully conceal it. I am grateful to them that, although in a nasty way, at least they taught me many valuable things and to pursue my happiness very carefully. :) You rightly said that modern Bulgarian women do not need millionaires. They need payers, no matter what their income. Smart millionaires (not the ones like Mityovtsite Paynera or Pishtova) are often quite calculating (like women) and are not famous for their generosity, but they keep the woman short. And a woman wants both freedom, let the man spend most of his money on her, not caring if he would have anything left. The important thing is that he has money for her. Supposedly to show that one day he can build and support a home and a family. No! This is the main female manipulation! Home and family are built with joint efforts and money! Not with the man's efforts and money. My wife and I do just that, and that's why we have mutual respect for each other. And how do you expect a man to respect you, if you are not side by side with him and you are waiting !? And it's amazing how women have always thought about the future and the family, and always want men's money here and now, spent not on home and family, but on restaurants, taxis, expensive cars, clothes, jewelry, expensive phones, trips, hotels and everything else. but (again, I emphasize) not for home and family. And why do they stumble upon various mutrogenic types, from which they then suffer and roar, beastly to the whole male sex, after all trumpeting that they want a caring and respectful man? Where is the logic in this? No matter how much you try to answer differently, the representatives of your gender clearly show exactly the above and you can not refute their actions with words. There are extremely rare exceptions among young Bulgarian women, but they are only 1-2%.
I'm a woman and I'm telling you it's just another stupid cliché. People love, no, they love to talk clichés. Many of those who think they know what they want, often after a period of 3-5-7 years, suddenly realize that they didn't really want what they were super sure they wanted. I've also been told several times 'you don't know what you want'. Here's what I think from my experience: People who say 'you don't know what you want' are usually those who want to get something from you, but for some reason you don't always realize very well, you don't want to give it to them. you give. Just something inside tells you that if you give it to them in time you will not be happy. ж30
To know what he wants means to stand behind his words. When he says I want such and such a woman, with such and such qualities - when he meets her to respect her. And not to run his saliva after the first muffin that smiled at him. Or at least to tell himself that he wants a muffin, not to deceive himself and to lie to people
This requirement is strange. If a man knows what he wants, it is, for example: - to live in poverty for the rest of his life. - to earn money, but to donate it to charity and not to set aside for himself. - to get rich, but not to give his wife money for shopping. or something like that, will they accept that he knows what he wants? Practically, even knowing that you want to be lazy all your life is knowledge - well, it doesn't sound as good as some ladies would like, but it's still knowledge. It is really good to update the lafa, because it is incorrect at the moment! Obviously not everyone who knows what he wants is welcome - I know it, they know it. Let's take measures and stop misleading those who have not guessed like us! Not everyone is so resourceful, though ...
I'm number 10, number 12 explain it very well. Now a fun dialogue from facebook (from yesterday) about an article about shopping / shopping as therapy, completely real and revealing, I just changed the names. "Woman1": Ooooo, how cool <3 to "Man / Provider" - soon I haven't gone shopping, I think I need to unload a bit: D: D "Provider": (to the author of the article about shopping) will ask for shopping posts if you can put Restriction: (for Woman1), I will be very grateful. Woman 1: I didn't think of you as such a person .... Provider: I thought you wanted us to go to the sea and not to the mall Woman 1: Well, that's what happens, I'm expecting plane tickets soon: D Provider: 1, 2 days Woman2 (she turns on now) Provider, you don't seem to understand how to do ... first shopping for new clothes and swimwear for the sea, then 5 * hotel and plane tickets, by the sea you will rest again with SHOPPING ps then you have to upload photos with the new acquisitions: D Woman1: (emoticons heart to Woman2) Provider to Woman2: and pariahs? and pariiiii? Woman1 next to the Provider: Don't you love me anymore ...? Provider to Woman1: ah ti kva siiii (sad emoticon) What do you say ah?