I have known a man for 6-7 months. We meet him only for coffee and walks around the city. He is smart, intelligent, educated, but does nothing more than walk. There is no other woman, I'm sure of that. I stopped calling him and declined invitations to meetings because I didn't see any development in our relationship. But he is looking for me and wants to contact us. He said he had been disappointed a long time ago and was cautious now. I also feel that he is anxious and a little shy. He also shared that he has been alone for a long time and does not seem to know and cannot say what he wants. He hands me flowers, very gallant and considerate, but only that. I tried to challenge him - I invited him as a guest, he supposedly accepted, but the next day he told me to postpone it for later. He's obviously worried. What to do with one and what to expect from it
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I'm firm to give him a chance! Try to "split" his shyness ... be a little more careful with him and things will happen! But don't give up if you like it too;)
He wants to be with you, he really loves you (judging by his actions). I think things will work out for you, but more slowly. Do not reject offers for meetings or calls, he will relax and everything will be OK. Good luck ...!
How old is he? And I had an acquaintance with whom he was like that for 4 years and 10 months ago we broke up. He never relaxed enough and decided it was better for me to find someone else to make me happy. There has been progress since the beginning, but very little. I was very patient and careful, but I failed. You can succeed.
It's very simple - the person definitely likes you, but wants to get to know you better. And you wait - where are you in a hurry .... such men do not meet on the road and under the road.
There will be no other woman, of course. Who besides you will tolerate such a mold. Here, one of the girls can wait for years. GS1
What do you want? Are you aware He wants to see you, and obviously needs you when he seeks you; but if you need something else - ask for what you want, and if you don't have time for it - tell him, it seems to me that he doesn't know what you're thinking at all, and you - too, and don't seem to share that, which actually excites you. Here, the one with the molds, number 5, is aware of everything - you see! He can't stand anything and that's it - are you like that?
Offff ... Because of things like number 5 you have to put some FACE CONTROL! Are you sick And as for the story - give it a chance! For now, he may seem crazy, but if he treats you with respect, he deserves a chance! It might work out? Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. Maybe the reason is not his ex and to be protected, maybe it's you! Judge! SUCCESS!
You ask what to expect from him, the answer is NOTHING. After he avoids intimate moments ....... obviously something is wrong with him + inexperience, shyness .... I was in a similar case, I did my best to change things ....... but ...... everything is perfect, except .... sex and now with him is so crappy and tortured .....
This may be a hidden homosexual, or one who has not yet realized it.