Well, what can I tell you, my story started very nicely, but it seems to be coming to an end. I don't know, I can't judge for myself, so I turn to you for advice. We met quite by accident in a restaurant and through mutual acquaintances. Anyway, we went out a few more times with these mutual acquaintances. One night it was quite late and he offered to take me to us, I agreed. You could say that I fell in love with him at first sight. So he brought me home, asked for my number, but I don't know why I didn't give it to him, I took his and we agreed the next day to talk and just go out. When I got home, of course, the first thing I did was call my best friend, who actually introduced us, and tell her everything, because I was already hooked. Yes, but what I heard from the other side I did not like at all, I even became very naughty. She explained to me that he was madly in love with her and all sorts of things. Of course, I didn't call him the next day after what I found out, and why should I do it ! .... A month later my friend called me and told me that the boy in question had called her and asked for my number. I just shone with joy and happiness. He called me, we agreed to go out and we went out. It was winter. It was very cold outside, but also very beautiful. We went to a restaurant then took me to a forest it was late in the evening. We went to a meadow where there was nothing but a lot of snow and a beautiful cypress and a bench just below it. The moonlight illuminated our faces. It was really beautiful and that's where our romance started. Then I realized that he never explained himself to my friend or that he was in love with her. I felt very ugly, I felt betrayed by a very close and dear person to me. Many people were against our relationship. They made every effort to separate us, but apparently our feelings were really strong and withstood even the greatest trials. Yes, but time flew by and what happened became everything for me. More important than family, than friends from going out, than absolutely anything. But for him it was not and still is not. He goes out with his friends without me, he lies to me that he is coming home comforted, and the next day a friend of his unwittingly tells him that they have gone out. He doesn't pay attention to me. It's all just for friends, not me. He tells me to come out, I'm not stopping you. But when he came out he frowned and frowned, why I've been with this or that and I don't go out just so I don't make him angry and sick. He is jealous of me from most of my friends, and I give him no reason to do so. And it is. so as not to torment him, I do not go out with them. I can't stand being at home anymore, I stand and wait for him to come, and he still doesn't come. I ask him if you don't want to be with me, he says, I'm not forcing you to stay, and his answer is "I don't love you and I'm fine, I don't want to part with you." Yes, but for 2 years now I have been like a prisoner in a prison that I built myself. Recently, he even left me for a week, told me he didn't love me, and took his way and left. A week later he came back and said that he wanted to see if I loved what I was going to do and that during that time he was very sick of not being with me. He is not anyway. I love him even though he is always rude when we are together. He never compliments, speaks softly and kindly, but maybe I'm used to it. Lately I'm tired of getting used to anything, I'm tired of resigning myself. I feel completely impersonal, as if I am a person without life and opinion. What I don't know is whether I love him or I'm used to him. I still don't know how far we can go this way, I'm just crying and getting tired, the dilemma is whether to be with him or not ???
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HELLO, I'M SORRY THAT I WILL SAY IT, BUT JUST AS BEAUTIFUL AS IT WAS IN THE BEGINNING, THE RELATIONSHIP IS OBVIOUSLY OVER. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO STAMP IN ONE PLACE. I ALSO went out with a man who lied to me in the way that he was supposed to be coming home from work, but he was going out with his friends. THEN I UNDERSTAND THIS FROM HIS FRIENDS, HE LOVED ME A LOT, BUT WHY WOULD HE LIE TO YOU THEN. THERE IS NO LOGIC FOR SUCH A THING. WE DIVIDED HIM, IT WAS MORE, BUT NOW I'M NOT SORRY. I FEEL FREE AND GOOD NOW. SO MILA CONTINUES FORWARD. YOU MUST FEEL SATISFIED WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP, HAPPY, SATISFIED, NOT UNHAPPY AND IMPERSONAL. I HOPE I WAS USEFUL TO YOU. I WISH YOU SUCCESS!
Why are you sitting like a prisoner? Haven't you thought that because you do it, he has lost the thrill that was there? You have to have your life, friends, go out and what are you waiting for? Be jealous! This is selfish. Take it somewhere with friends, have a little fun without it and I think your brain will clear up. You do it yourself and seek help! You have to help yourself! Get up from this computer, go out, go shopping, go to the movies ... you will meet new people and decide whether you like it or not, that's not complicated!
number 1 give some coordinates please. We have written to each other several times already. I need to contact you.
Hi, my story is exactly the same. We don't even kiss anymore, we fight all the time, and when I tell him - You don't love me anymore - he tells me to stop talking nonsense, you know I love you. My whole world revolves around him, when he is busy there is no one to go to a coffee with: :) It's a hell under the sky and I don't know how long it will last. I just want to get away from him somewhere and try to forget him ....... Because if I stay with him I know that I will suffer ...... if someone can give me advice and I will be thank him .... And I wish you good luck!
Honey, your story is just like mine ... just if it's called love ... you'll only get pain from this man ... as it happened to me. I'm still in his trap, but quite by chance another person appeared whom I think about (at least I don't think about "mine") and so I'm better than with this grief. I've been putting up with it for 2 years and I'm thinking of ending it, no matter how painful it is. I think this would be the right decision for you. Good luck!!!
Girls, tighten it up and pull one by one .. is it nice to lose two years of your life this way, it's not love, upside down, there are much better men who deserve you, who are not there for a moment to think of treating you that way. Personally, if you ask me - you sit down, discuss and make the final decisions and move forward with or without him. It can hurt, hurt, and suffer, but isn't it better to cry for a few months than to suffer for the rest of your life? I sincerely wish you success in whatever you do!
Stupidity! See her in real life! That you don't even know the spelling!
Emmy, what can I tell you, darling ... it's the same situation with me ... T. was. I gave everything for him, and he constantly thinks about him, his friends and stupid games ... He lives in a virtual world ... But I started to like him and I slowly withdraw from him ... I start doing this , which he does ... to look for it less often ... And do you know what the result is, and a big one ... Solder to express your opinion, start paying more attention to your friends. Keep some things quiet so that you don't bother yourself ... Because, like me, you made a nightmare yourself and now you have to wake up and see how life gives you a hand for something more beautiful, better. Head up and don't despair! Life goes on and boldly forward;)
How well I understand you ... :( I don't have exactly the same story, but I understand the way you feel. The topic is old, so I don't need to give advice I guess, but my opinion is that it's not worth pushing your friends away for this person.