I am 40 years old and I have been married since 13. I have not cheated on my wife so far, although I have had many opportunities. We had a very long time when sex was an obligation for her. At the beginning of our marriage, everything seemed to be fine, but gradually she began to refuse me. Still tired, still asleep, has responsibilities (goes to work, we have two children) and I stayed in the background. She's been trying to make things right lately, but because she's afraid I'll cheat on her because I tell her I'll find what I'm missing. I buy flowers regularly, leave the children with their grandmother and take her out to dinner. We go home after dinner and she falls asleep and I stay to watch porn. I can not take it anymore. I don't think he's cheating on me, or so he claims. I buy dresses from sex shops - she dresses her enough to thank me for her attention and then throws her somewhere. I also say I agree to have sex with another man, wife or family, but that doesn't help either. I want and love her so much that I'm not sure if I can do it with another woman. For our friends, we are the perfect family. Her friends tell us that I break her from sex, I don't look at another woman, they envy her too and she likes it. When I tell her these things, she changes in a day or two
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Oh, what can I say, I am a woman of 30 and I am in your situation .... With us the husband is passive even after marriage ... And I wonder if he has a mistress, and I on the other hand have no desire for another man. I think we're just tired of them - that's it. I hope one day they change
Once we talk, it changes, but only briefly. I hope one day it will change forever.
In my opinion, she is just so sure of you that she allows herself to change as long as she doesn't lose you, and when she sees that you are next to her again, she starts with her song. I think you need to show a little indifference to make her think and appreciate you, not to be appreciated by other families, etc. Show her that she can lose you, she is obviously too sure of you, let there be a drop doubt, let him be a little jealous ... after all, sesame makes the relationship between two people complete
I will try, thanks
I'm 40. I didn't have sex with my ex-husband at all, I was just trying to fuck. Eventually he started cheating on me and we divorced. For three years I have a friend with whom I enjoy doing it 5 times a day, if possible. So, it depends on the man, I think.
Dude, you spoiled her a lot. Don't buy flowers for a week or two, don't tell her you want sex and then you will see how she will land on you. Not to mention dragging her to buy her clothes. Stop, let's wear these. Every day, flowers, bro ... the supply is great and the price is falling, she doesn't care. Before reacting do not buy, only after that and 1-2 times a week at most.
I have always been against infidelity, but everyone has limits !!! Try to be indifferent and somehow see what they mean to you! You still have 2 children, and if you cheat - they will suffer! Show her that you have one! If your behavior entertains her, then play a show and get her reaction! Medical student
She is tired. Don't you notice it that much? Take her on vacation, but without the children, just the two of you, it's like you're on your second honeymoon. You don't remember that much. You are married ... I have no words, you always have to be told, you don't understand anything from women, you only understand from sex, not that I have anything against sex, but it's true. Go somewhere just the two of you
Hey 8, how did she think she was tired? Why didn't the man get tired of taking her out to dinner? He seems tired of polishing her brushes, but it's no use.