For everyone who has ever felt this way. For all those who have become so attached to a person .. that their life seems meaningless without him .. Here is my story !! I'm in love with a boy ... so far so good, but I'm afraid that he may leave, just leave my life without even saying why! It's as if I'm anticipating it, because it's always like that. I'm afraid that if he gets to know me completely, he'll back off. And I don't want to lose him, I don't want to be alone again, I don't want to be without him. Do you understand .. I don't care what he looks like, I don't care what he has, I don't want any gifts from him I don't want anything .. I ONLY WANT HIM. I'm not looking for him because I use him or I want something, but simply because he, with his presence alone, makes me extremely happy ... if these words weren't too strong, I would say I LOVE HIM !! But there is time, there is time for everything. I just don't want to lose him, I just don't want him to leave. He promised me that he wouldn't ... but I know each other ... as if I know how to attract people to me and make them like me ... I repel them with the same force ... as soon as they start getting to know me. And yet so far there has been no other boy to make me feel this way, whom I can trust so much and whom I can share so many things. With him I am myself .. he likes me like that and still does not know me completely, so I'm afraid that if this happens he will just leave; ((. I just share everything with him and pretty good already he got to know me and yet he hasn't withdrawn yet .. and the more I get to know him, the more I become attached to him, and if I get attached to someone or something .. then I have a hard time experiencing him,
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Well, while you are together, look at your happiness and don't think about separation ... because the more you think about it, the more doubts you will have and you can cause the separation.
If you want to believe me - I was in the same situation, but I just didn't get angry and called him to come and see me and talk. He was not in us, but you call him in you, make sure it is not too early, but not too late, call him and tell him everything, I did so and I will not regret it for the rest of my life!
Love and affection have nothing in common. I give you an example of true love: charity or the doctor's work with patients - no matter if he is a surgeon or a psychotherapist - Attachment is associated with selfishness .. from it comes all the suffering. One does not feel attachment only to people, but also to things and events. No one aims for attachment in a relationship - it's just a side effect. Everyone wants to feel love - no matter physical or spiritual.