Hello, dear readers! (I apologize in advance for the familiar story, which may make you a little bored..And I really thank you for your attention and I hope for your understanding ..;]) Well, I'm a girl from a small town and everyone knows everything about everyone, so I avoid getting into trouble It all started in May 2009..There will be a small cafe next to the school and we gather about 20 people, before the classes start everyone knows that he should be there at 7 without 10 .. One morning among the familiar faces I noticed "new replenishment "(tall, slender, extremely charming, white and wide smile, chocolate-brown eyes, black ebony hair..a really amazing charm ..) The chemistry between us was more than obvious. We literally did not look away from each other in all the time. From this day every morning before school we will be together .. He was obviously in a good mood. He hugged me so hard and said to the waitress: -Look, what a beautiful woman I am..We are leaving, aren't we ! Just look at how beautiful she is .. And she said: -You are very beautiful to me, sweethearts. You are a very nice couple. I'm so sleepy ... I still don't know where I am. And he said to me: -Come to our table, de .. We sat down and suddenly everyone disappeared somewhere, we were only 2nd .. We started talking and he turned the subject, began to "feel the ground". We talk how much we talk and I told him something that I could not cook and he said: -I can make moussaka, that's all we will eat. I was surprised that he spoke in the plural. And the main problem is that we have a huge difference in age .. !! Whatever I was trying to point out as a flaw in this regard, he countered every word I said. Now I will try to chronologize part of our conversation. I: We have too big a difference in the years .. He: There are no limits for love..And I guess you watch the show "The Truth About Us" .. There was a 2 with 16 years difference and how unhappy are they when you watch them ..? Me: You're going to Germany again ... ?! He: Well, after a month and a half I'm here again .. Me: What about your friend ..? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? There are no limits to love..And I guess you watch the show "The Truth About Us" ..There was a 2 with 16 years difference and how unhappy are they when you watch them ..? Me: You're going to Germany again ... ?! He: Well, after a month and a half I'm here again .. Me: What about your friend ..? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? There are no limits to love..And I guess you watch the show "The Truth About Us" ..There was a 2 with 16 years difference and how unhappy are they when you watch them ..? Me: You're going to Germany again ... ?! He: Well, after a month and a half I'm here again .. Me: What about your friend ..? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? There was a 2-year-old with a difference of 16 years and how unhappy are they when you look at them ...? Me: You're going to Germany again ... ?! He: Well, after a month and a half I'm here again .. Me: What about your friend ..? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? There was a 2-year-old with a difference of 16 years and how unhappy are they when you look at them ...? Me: You're going to Germany again ... ?! He: Well, after a month and a half I'm here again .. Me: What about your friend ..? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? ? He: 1st I was with her for too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she called me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ? ? He: 1st I'm with her too little time.. 2nd turned out to be super crippled..in the 1st week she calls me ..Let's get married .. She doesn't let me go anywhere, she clung to me anyway. She doesn't let me go to work in Germany .. manny didn't tell me about her, please ..! Well, everything is great, but we have a very big difference in age and that worries me..not so much about our relationship as about the fact that we are a small town and everything is known..It is quite striking from the side..Well, if our people understand .. ?
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Well - try to go out and get to know each other not only in the cafe. The difference in age is not an obstacle. Doesn't the fact that he has been talking about you as a COUPLE for so short a time bother you?
At least she would have told you how old you are and how old he is ... However, such a relationship has no future, you here, he there. And if the difference is big it doesn't happen (I say it from personal experience)
Don't you think that if he treats his girlfriend like that, he would do the same to you? after all, she's in germany and she doesn't see you as often as she does ... and who knows what she's been doing in germany for months (except working) ... okay you say everything is perfect ... but she doesn't the mistake of telling yours. I know I may not be giving you the right advice, but I made this mistake and now they don't let me go out at all, even with friends, or if they do, it's limited time and they control me everywhere ... maybe they'll understand from the rumors in the small town, but not rich to be sure until you admit it to them ... and if they ask just deny and say that they like to make fun of you or that you are just friends ... sorry if I think wrong but THE CHOICE IS YOURS!
In that case, try not to let your people understand, and when you grow up there will be no one to stop you from doing what you want, and he often goes to Germany, which reduces the risk of someone suspecting something.
I don't think the years really matter if his intentions are serious
to number 2 why no future I go with my friend of 7 years now I'm 22 .. before we lived together ... now he lives in las vegas comes in a month .. I've been there 4 times and waiting to get me visa to go permanently to him;)
well, if you like him very much, you can go out and not punish your butts, there will be many others and he will not be the only one, and if you think that you can't keep such a secret from yours, break up with him and catch another ....
Emmy how big a difference?