Hello people. Lately I hear this expression often and I wonder what is the toxic connection? Before you insulted me, I was a 14-year-old child who had never had a boyfriend in his life and he didn't understand such things. I understand the toxic relationship as when bad things happen to 2 lovers while they are together but I really don't know please explain to me, I don't want to look like a fool.
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Toxic connection is to have quarrels and scandals every day, whether they are nonsense or not, to have great jealousy of at least one, there can be eternal lies and infidelity .. Abe, if you are in such a situation, you run away. People cannot be re-educated.
I think you are too small for such things. Focus on learning or something, and sooner or later you will find out what toxic relationships are, whether you want to or not. I don't think you're the age when you should be excited about such things.
For me, the toxic connection was losing weight (18 in 4-5 months) from nerves and a little sleep
Toxic relationship - a relationship in which you feel bad most of the time, but still hang in it. With two words. Toxic means poisonous, I guess you've already checked it.
What number 1 said is also (plus) that it does not respect your desires, opinions and views on life. He may not cheat on you or shout at you, but if he restricts you in some way and makes you live as only he is comfortable and profitable, then you are also in a toxic relationship.
Did you tick Witcher 3? Jennifer and Garreld have a toxic relationship, although in a rather light version. They both pretend not to love each other, quarrel over nonsense and at times, openly and purposefully ruin the other's life. In real life, they often do not love each other, but they need the attention of another person next to them, therefore, although they hate each other, they continue to hurt themselves and last. It's like eating something spoiled. You still have a stomach ache from it, you're sick, but you keep going, because for some reason, that's all you know ...
Toxic means poisonous, I guess you know it. A toxic relationship is one that poisons one or both partners, either with rudeness, mistrust and jealousy and the scandals and hatred they cause, or with coldness, lies and infidelity. The reasons may be different, but such a relationship does not bring you happiness, there is no prospect and the sooner you end it, the better. And it's best to be careful and approach with reason, not just feelings for boys. I hope you never happen to be in such a relationship, dear child.
Let me join number 3, for about a year 10 kg down. This man ruined me and did nothing to me, just our characters were terribly different. He didn't understand me, I didn't understand him. We were terribly far from each other, in terms of character, priorities, understandings, opinions and whatever else you can think of. I'm not entirely sure if there was love. For a year together we ruined each other. I had to go to sedatives and sleeping pills, and he bleed. I don't blame him, we just weren't for each other and there was no reason to be deceived. This is a toxic relationship that is literally ruining you, no matter how.
From the author: My question is actually because of a friend who told me that she was in a toxic relationship and when I asked her exactly how she told me that it was personal and she didn't want to tell me.
A toxic relationship is a relationship with a toxic relationship. He can be a toxic friend, toxic parents, at your age most often a toxic teacher ... Some kind of relationship with people that you want to change makes you feel fear, guilt, anger. It has a negative effect on your desire for life. When you get out of bed in the morning, your stomach is shrunken and you don't care about anything you have to do during the day ... etc. such poisonous sensations.
A toxic relationship is when the person next to you pulls you down - painful jealousy, scandals, God forbid, and beatings. I will give you examples. A friend has been with her boyfriend for years. Their relationship is from a distance. He is her first. In the first year, he called her every day and manipulated her with his jealousy, given that she was completely loyal to him and was like a puppy to him. She cried for hours in front of me every day. Every day. At one point this stopped, but she lost a lot of social contacts and realized it. He doesn't go out after a certain time, and he goes out when he wants to. When she returns, lately she pays almost no attention to her, she is still with her friends, and she returns to Bulgaria for 2 weeks in many months. She does not allow herself to be voiced, but she is engaged in art and her work will be connected with the public and everyone knows that appearance is important. This is a toxic connection. He holds her on a leash and manipulates her. We've talked to her many times, but she doesn't realize it. She failed her ball, returned to the room before 12 o'clock crying because he called her and apparently told her nonsense. Here is another example: I loved a boy very much. I wanted to know everything about him / not to annoy him, I wanted to get to know him as a person, to make him feel good, knowing what he loves and what he enjoys /, I was interested in him. Even when we were silent, I could feel how he felt, when he felt good and when he didn't. This year he fulfilled his dream, from a young age he dreamed of becoming a soldier, he only read such literature, he was interested in history, he collected various things from the Second World War and only watched such films. Everyone says the military is the dumbest people. But I don't sleep. I am glad that he was received in Veliko Tarnovo. I know that he would not go to fight in the army and such. He is not cruel, nothing that is very naive and can be deceived. But I rarely see a person who has a REALLY passion for something. How many people are like that? I am proud with him. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way. I know what it's like to have a passion for something, but if you can't practice it, I'm one of those people. I know what torture is. I don't want him or anyone to feel that way. When you love a person, you want him to go up, you help him. Yes, it is normal when you love someone to be jealous, but you can control your outbursts so as not to hurt your loved one. You just want him to be happy. But very few people like it that way.