Hello, everyone! I will try to be brief, because sometimes long stories are quite boring to read, but anyway. My "problem" so to speak, is that for about 2 years I can not find someone to spend more time with together, to fall in love and create something together. There was a period in which I said to myself that it is absolutely necessary to first feel good in my own company, to realize myself, to find myself, not to delve into the idea that I need someone to be happy. Yes, I succeeded, I was convinced of that and for this period of time (I talked to boys, I went out) everything was short-lived. At one point I started to consider myself a very strange person: D !! I have no expectations for an ideal person, because there are no ideal people. I have no expectations for anyone who will appear and make my life a fairy tale. I want reality .. I want someone with whom to share my dance, even if we have scandals: D, but just to have someone with whom we are on the same page .. It's just that it really hasn't happened to me for a long time and I don't understand where am i wrong. Everything else is going well for me, I have a great family, friends, work, I live really well. Yes, but ... they said that man is not born to be alone. I need someone like me or not exactly like me: D but just someone with whom to create something real :)) .. I will be happy to read your reviews and opinions on the matter. Thank you and :) Everything else is going well for me, I have a great family, friends, work, I live really well. Yes, but ... they said that man is not born to be alone. I need someone like me or not exactly like me: D but just someone with whom to create something real :)) .. I will be happy to read your reviews and opinions on the matter. Thank you and :) Everything else is going well for me, I have a great family, friends, work, I live really well. Yes, but ... they said that man is not born to be alone. I need someone like me or not exactly like me: D but just someone with whom to create something real :)) .. I will be happy to read your reviews and opinions on the matter. Thank you and :)
Answers 5
One of my superstitions is that when you write that you want it as a story in a diary or a website and then you forget it, exactly what you want happens to you in half a year or a year. So ... you're on your way. : D - Yoko
My mother is sometimes a big girl, she is a unique person and she has a huge heart, but she is difficult. I remember that during one of my relationships she told me that it is completely normal to have scandals and you just have to have someone to argue with. It doesn't sound like a sensible story at all, and it took me a long time to understand the meaning of her words, but she's right. People tend to pour out all their emotions in front of the one closest to them, because they feel calm with him. It's not right, but, alas, it happens. You're right, perfect relationships don't exist. The real is not perfect, that is why it is real. You will find someone and you do not need to look alike, it is enough to love each other and look in one direction. You need a person with whom you have the same values and idea of family. You will fight, you will get angry, you will even hurt yourself. Sometimes you won't come to an agreement easily, and other times you will want to sleep in separate beds. To some extent, the long-term relationships are due to the fact that no one has given up on the other, that everyone has chosen to stay. I promise you will find someone worth staying for. He, in turn, will be wonderfully imperfect, but he will choose you every day. As long as you want to, you will find a way to stay. It's not your fault you didn't meet him. Be calm, live fully. Keep going out with friends, socializing and working. Your man is out there and it's only a matter of time before you meet. You don't make a mistake in your views, you don't have very high expectations for the man next to you, you just haven't met yet. You are whole and if you feel that way, then soon someone will come who is also whole and wants you. that no one has given up on the other, that everyone has chosen to stay. I promise you will find someone worth staying for. He, in turn, will be wonderfully imperfect, but he will choose you every day. As long as you want to, you will find a way to stay. It's not your fault you didn't meet him. Be calm, live fully. Keep going out with friends, socializing and working. Your man is out there and it's only a matter of time before you meet. You don't make a mistake in your views, you don't have very high expectations for the man next to you, you just haven't met yet. You are whole and if you feel that way, then soon someone will come who is also whole and wants you. that no one has given up on the other, that everyone has chosen to stay. I promise you will find someone worth staying for. He, in turn, will be wonderfully imperfect, but he will choose you every day. As long as you want to, you will find a way to stay. It's not your fault you didn't meet him. Be calm, live fully. Keep going out with friends, socializing and working. Your man is out there and it's only a matter of time before you meet. You don't make a mistake in your views, you don't have very high expectations for the man next to you, you just haven't met yet. You are whole and if you feel that way, then soon someone will come who is also whole and wants you. As long as you want to, you will find a way to stay. It's not your fault you didn't meet him. Be calm, live fully. Keep going out with friends, socializing and working. Your man is out there and it's only a matter of time before you meet. You don't make a mistake in your views, you don't have very high expectations for the man next to you, you just haven't met yet. You are whole and if you feel that way, then soon someone will come who is also whole and wants you. As long as you want to, you will find a way to stay. It's not your fault you didn't meet him. Be calm, live fully. Keep going out with friends, socializing and working. Your man is out there and it's only a matter of time before you meet. You don't make a mistake in your views, you don't have very high expectations for the man next to you, you just haven't met yet. You are whole and if you feel that way, then soon someone will come who is also whole and wants you.
There is something to you. Don't touch me, I'll try to explain. Whether you will hear me affects 95% of young people. I am a man of about 40. I also lived a communist life. You know or have heard that at that time there were no cars, telephones, internet and carefree rich people who spin the chain on their finger all day. There were no contributors at that time. Usually abraded knees predominated. Cracked another ball. And shouts and screams of girls who we crushed, undressed and what not on the benches. Personally, I didn't even want to watch TV because there were 3 programs. From morning to night we walked the streets and did whatever we wanted. I had an awful lot of acquaintances and friends. I changed my boyfriends like handkerchiefs. And since 1990, acquaintances and friends have begun to disappear. Western cars began to appear more often. The Zhiguli and the spacecraft disappeared. They began to inflate with their new acquisitions. Our buttocks were opened to Europe and the majority fled to get rich. They push all year round to keep the two weeks of sunshine relevant. Selfishness, malice, high self-esteem. They sold their relatives houses, fields, properties so that they could measure their churks in the restaurants. And on top of all this, they invented a sorat-notebook so that they could show how much they have and how much they are turnover. The Chalgadzhi women, the gold diggers and the conscious girls flock there en masse and do something like a contest to choose the "victim". And if they have an expensive car, then some absurd photos are more interesting and desirable. And if you have these carefree days, no matter how they are insured, you wonder which "fintiflyushka" to go to bed with. And then comes the next one. A vicious circle in which everyone tries to enter and cannot realize how dependent he becomes on this modern world. So where did your question about a "stable" man get lost? A person next to you. The one with the chain or the butcher's car? Or maybe the other one who doesn't dare to get up from the laptop. There are those you are looking for. They are modest. Quiet. They dress normally and work. Most are already married, but there are those who push so they can pay their bills and food. You won't find them in fat shops or pubs. Decide for yourself what you want to be. Another person's napkin or half. I think he understood me. Good luck from me. Grandpa Tosho There are those you are looking for. They are modest. Quiet. They dress normally and work. Most are already married, but there are those who push so they can pay their bills and food. You won't find them in fat shops or pubs. Decide for yourself what you want to be. Another person's napkin or half. I think he understood me. Good luck from me. Grandpa Tosho There are those you are looking for. They are modest. Quiet. They dress normally and work. Most are already married, but there are those who push so they can pay their bills and food. You won't find them in fat shops or pubs. Decide for yourself what you want to be. Another person's napkin or half. I think he understood me. Good luck from me. Grandpa Tosho
You ask what's happening to you? Look at the young people in the subway and you will understand. Everyone is buried in their phone and beats some crazy heart. And next to him sits a beautiful girl he doesn't look at at all. The girl in question also has a heartbeat in something like hypnosis. Then each of them gets off at the station and takes a different direction. You just don't see each other! You don't talk, you don't hold hands, you don't have a live exchange of ideas, you don't have dreams, you don't have real, deep friendships. And you are lonely. Normal. Our daughter is 15 years old. The first time she told me she had a boyfriend, I was worried because she was still young - for nothing but pregnancy, illness, she was inexperienced, we didn't know the boy, etc. After two or three weeks, I told her, "Invite your friend to the cottage for the weekend, let him meet, boy, your parents." She replies, "Oh, It ends with some selfies, for which he expects likes, and social contacts - with pointless wandering in the streets. The boys, her peers, do exactly the same. I am sure that they will do it in 10 years. But there is no salvation, they like it that way. It ends with some selfies, for which he expects likes, and social contacts - with pointless wandering in the streets. The boys, her peers, do exactly the same. I am sure that they will do it in 10 years. But there is no salvation, they like it that way.
That's the way it is now. People are distant and at the same time expect a lot from others, do not appreciate small gestures and this leads to widespread indifference and lack of initiative and desire. If you want different results do things differently.