I am an unfortunate woman who fell in love with a complete unfortunate person. So I'm terribly in love with him and he's crazy about me. Yes, but he wants me only for himself, and at the same time he wants complete freedom. I'm the same. And that's not all. We both only know how to want and give nothing. I do not want his body, but his soul. I want it to be mine, but at the same time I don't offer anything in return. He wants my body like crazy and he wants me and he doesn't offer anything in return. Tell me what is this? We are so equal, we want each other terribly much. We are so big selfish, selfish, proud ... When we are among people we are admired. When we are together we are a uniquely strong combination, as an appearance we go incredibly well, young, nice people, with self-confidence. Well, we both have more self-confidence. A very strong passion between us that cannot be hidden. But nothing happens. I am ready to make many compromises with myself to make this connection. We are so the same and different at the same time. For example, if it's a stove, I'm ice. He is the light, I am the darkness. He is the golden mean, I am at the extremes. This love does not make me happy, it eats away at me. In addition, when we are together, something like an electric shock occurs.
There is an awful lot of tension between us. When I'm with him I have the feeling that he drinks my energy, he just exhausts me from everywhere. And he gets annoyed by almost every word I say, but he doesn't say anything. He makes a particularly nasty look, which in turn adds fuel to the fire ... Tell me what this thing is, is it love? He is the light, I am the darkness. He is the golden mean, I am at the extremes. This love does not make me happy, it eats away at me. In addition, when we are together, something like an electric shock occurs. There is an awful lot of tension between us. When I'm with him I have the feeling that he drinks my energy, he just exhausts me from everywhere. And he gets annoyed by almost every word I say, but he doesn't say anything. He makes a particularly nasty look, which in turn adds fuel to the fire ... Tell me what this thing is, is it love? He is the light, I am the darkness. He is the golden mean, I am at the extremes. This love does not make me happy, it eats away at me. In addition, when we are together, something like an electric shock occurs.
There is an awful lot of tension between us. When I'm with him I have the feeling that he drinks my energy, he just exhausts me from everywhere. And he gets annoyed by almost every word I say, but he doesn't say anything. He makes a particularly nasty look, which in turn adds fuel to the fire ... Tell me what this thing is, is it love? And he gets annoyed by almost every word I say, but he doesn't say anything. He makes a particularly nasty look, which in turn adds fuel to the fire ... Tell me what this thing is, is it love? And he gets annoyed by almost every word I say, but he doesn't say anything. He makes a particularly nasty look, which in turn adds fuel to the fire ... Tell me what this thing is, is it love?
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I'm not sure if it's love or just a strong attraction. These things are often confused. Why don't you just talk ... maybe this is the most sensible solution, otherwise you're wasting your time.
If it doesn't make you happy, then you don't need this "love". Love is to be happy with one person, not to feel tense and unhappy! Look elsewhere, obviously this person is not yours and does not respond to you in the way you need your feelings to be answered. Doriana
After 3 years of a burning relationship, eroded by pride, stubbornness, selfishness, lack of compromises and burning passion, we are now husbands. We gathered and parted many times, we took care of each other and everyone wanted, but no one gave, during this time we saw others. When he found out that someone else had proposed to me, he went crazy, he realized that he had to give in and show his feelings. He was already making compromises, me too. after a few months. proposed marriage to me. The next year we got married, we make compromises every day and we remember that out of stubbornness we almost get lost forever. We are happy to love each other, we are currently expecting our first child, which makes us even more patient with each other. S. my story I want to tell you that there are strong feelings between you, do not lose them. But darling, if you want it to be yours, don't take your guard down first, make him understand, that his life is quiet and he can't exist without you. Good luck. D 26
Well no, it's not love. This is love to some extent - you are used to this person, you hold on to him, you accept him as a friend, you want the best for him. But do you know why it won't happen - "When I'm with him I have the feeling that he drinks my energy, he just exhausts me everywhere." This is an energy vampire. I've been there, I know it. I care about him a lot, too, but he's just like that, and it took me about a year and a half to get the situation right - either one will kill the other or make him commit suicide. The passion is huge, you can't let go because you feel sorry for him, sympathize with him or feel like the only person who could help him. This is what he aims for - he is the victim who sucks all the positive emotions out of you because he is unable to create them himself. You can bond with him for as long as your psyche allows,
No, it is not love, THIS IS TRUE LOVE! :)
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From the author: Thanks to everyone for the advice, but we broke up with this drummer and I don't want to have anything to do with him!
Author: Strange, I do not remember writing the previous comment
Haha author, someone seems to be joking with you. So I will tell you one thing - run away from such connections. You do not need it. Although I know you won't listen to me because you're in love. These are destructive relationships. The two sides must complement each other, there must be harmony, not tension and sparks. In my opinion, this is a strong attraction between you, passion ... There is time for love ... And if it was like that, you would not ask here, but you would feel it yourself and know that it is like that.
Living with someone means being able to compromise! I don't see any love here, only jealousy, selfishness, pride ...!