Hello, I am a 15-year-old girl, everyone knows me cheerful, but no one knows my problems .. Where to start - MONEYLESS !!! I can't wait to think about ending my life for a few days, I don't want you to tell me to be strong and support my parents because I can't anymore! So I start to tell or more precisely to complain - I go to school for 1 week with 1 BGN so as not to spend money, and when they ask me why I don't buy anything, I lie that I am on a diet. I'm young, I need clothes, make-up - and I'm human, but I don't have money or I buy clothes from savings. My father went to work very hard, but he was laid off and now he goes to the fields for BGN 15, he goes early in the morning and comes late in the evening all rotten ... My heart aches when I look at him (we are from a village) ... My mother years ago she was very ill and that didn't allow her to work, now she is in pain again but she has no money and she is patient and my heart hurts for her. My father has been a half-orphan since he was a child, without a father and his mother threw him at his aunts and uncles ... My father does not communicate with his mother and she has not given me BGN 1 from my whole conscious life. My grandfather on my mother's side is poor and he can't help ... We have a loan, versions in the shops, and I give them the money I collect from holidays. From the class they go on an excursion, I never am and I can't stand it anymore ... I don't want to live, what is this life and the last one ruined me for May 1, they will go on a hike and collect BGN 5 each, BGN 5 ... I don't have any dirty BGN 5 and no one is at home, except to take half of my father's money, which he earned with sweat and work in the sun for one hike. Will they have an end to this will they have ?? They can't go abroad again because they don't have money .. I'm sorry to bother you, but I can't stand it, I'll burst! And to point out that I am of Roma origin or Turkish, pure Bulgarian and this is not a begging but just an outpouring of the soul!
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don't suffer for money. His manna on the hike, his manna on make-up and without make-up you are beautiful, you still have some clothes. Do not let greed and vanity defeat you. In the way you express yourself at the age of about 15-16, now you do not realize and think superficially, but over the years you will reproach yourself for how you could have been so superficial and selfish. My school years were just like yours, I suffered and cried for things bought with money, but over time I replaced the grumbling with a new blouse, lipstick, with the desire not to be a burden to my mother and father. By not bringing in income at home, I have learned to be content and happy with what I have, if there is money left for something new, I am happy and grateful. Otherwise, there are many good moments waiting for you, no matter how ridiculous it sounds to you at this stage, have faith. The first job is waiting for you, the first money you make ... this is a very good time to know. For starters, I suggest you take a summer vacation to go to the field with your father. They will take you as a picker, and it is not so difficult and tiring as long as you are not bored
It is difficult, yes, a great crisis. There are many families in your situation .. And I do not have much money for clothes, makeup absurd to buy. It is not right to end your life because of this, after another year you will be able to start earning your own living. People before us have had bigger crises, don't despair, try to be happy despite the lack of money .. / Gerrard
I am in a similar situation. NEVER think about ending your life. That's what a person who gives up would do. He surrenders and gives misfortune to ruin him. Do you want to be such a person? Do you want to cause this to your parents, who love you so much and suffer so much to work to feed you? Those people who only have you and you want to take that away from them? Don't be selfish ... think about them. And wait until you're old enough to find a job. LEARN. don't think about superficial things like make-up and clothes. I sometimes think about it, but life is not just about makeup and clothes. Be aware and don't do nonsense.
Be smart and good! A smart and good person is always rich, whether financially or spiritually.
Although I can't imagine what's wrong with you, I'll try to calm you down! As I read in the comments above - do not despair of life! Sooner or later things will get better and your life will be fine! As number 1 wrote: try to find a summer job! In a store, for example! "Life ??? What the hell is life? It's a fucking game of survival! The strong succeed, the weak obey" Know it from me! Don't give up and don't let the devil crush you! I know you might think "it's easy for you to say that if you're not in my place and you can't imagine what's wrong with me", but don't even think about ending your life! Success!
You obviously have a computer and the internet ... or are you writing from somewhere else? You probably have a phone, you have something to wear ... Now ... I want you to take a good look at your mother's old clothes, grab a needle and thread and make a blouse for millions. I'm 25, I have an income and I still sew my own clothes. Summer is comming! You don't need any skills, and you can always ask your mother for help. You cut a triangle, sew both ends of the back, the top goes to the neck .. there are countless videos on YouTube, where there are ideas on how the biggest rags become beautiful clothes .. and most importantly UNIQUE! Makeup? Let's see what we can come up with with the materials at hand ... I can't think of makeup at the moment, but you can make masks every day and this will make your skin more beautiful than the most expensive foundation. You always have some lipstick ... and there are some free samples (if you know distributors of Avon and Oriflame, they hand out samples) Hair - the ideal hairspray is made with water and sugar. Money ... money is made. At the age of 15 ... there are various scholarships, competitions, programs - look for a little more info about it, lie down to study! Why do you say you are on a diet? It's disturbing, that's how you lie to your friends, and you feel sick of lying. Poverty is not a vice. You can safely say: "No, I have no money ..." This will not turn you into a beggar. Look for a summer opportunity for some work. Mail delivery, field work, you can help an elderly woman in the household. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS only in our heads and EVERYTHING is in our hands! Success! Money ... money is made. At 15 ... there are various scholarships, competitions, programs - look for a little more info about it, lie down to study! Why do you say you are on a diet? It's disturbing, that's how you lie to your friends, and you feel sick of lying. Poverty is not a vice. You can safely say: "No, I have no money ..." This will not turn you into a beggar. Look for a summer opportunity for some work. Mail delivery, field work, you can help an elderly woman in the household. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS only in our heads and EVERYTHING is in our hands! Success! Money ... money is made. At 15 ... there are various scholarships, competitions, programs - look for a little more info about it, lie down to study! Why do you say you are on a diet? It's disturbing, that's how you lie to your friends, and you feel sick of lying. Poverty is not a vice. You can safely say: "No, I have no money ..." This will not turn you into a beggar. Look for a summer opportunity for some work. Mail delivery, field work, you can help an elderly woman in the household. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS only in our heads and EVERYTHING is in our hands! Success! Poverty is not a vice. You can safely say: "No, I have no money ..." This will not turn you into a beggar. Look for a summer opportunity for some work. Mail delivery, field work, you can help an elderly woman in the household. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS only in our heads and EVERYTHING is in our hands! Success! Poverty is not a vice. You can safely say: "No, I have no money ..." This will not turn you into a beggar. Look for a summer opportunity for some work. Mail delivery, field work, you can help an elderly woman in the household. EVERYTHING is ALWAYS only in our heads and EVERYTHING is in our hands! Success!
Chaaaaakay, chaaaaakay. To end your life for money? Only the most arrogant, greedy people will die without money. Those poor on the streets have no money but live? Don't you want to surpass them ...?
Well, that's it - no money. And if not - no!
7 will give me an example of such a video because I find it very interesting.
http://www.videoclip.bg/watch/13965 - some dress http://vbox7.com/play:m27f197559 here are ideas..you choose and then play the needle http://self-instructor.blogspot.com/2012 /01/blog-post.html an interesting blog for sewing and tailoring You just have to move your brain a bit. You remember those mom's skirts with an elastic band on top. You put an elastic band over your chest, narrow it at the waist, make a ribbon somewhere or a flower over your left breast. On the bottom edge you sew a strip of another fabric or lace from some other garment ... a different color and it becomes unique. Old jeans ... you cut to the middle of the thighs, fold up to become a "border" twice, from the cut part you make a belt and two small belts, which you will sew on the sides of the legs ... you take some bleach, tile, marker and you start to "stain" - it becomes sexy! Or..you decide and sew lace ... It is UNIQUE. An old men's t-shirt? It becomes an amazing tunic, tank top - everything. You take out a square piece of fabric, cut a hole in the middle for the collar, leave the edges - one to the navel, the other to the waist, and both to the wrists - sew, hem, decorate and have a beautiful blouse with wide sleeves. Skirt with elastic. You put it on your shoulders (keep your hands inside), cut for sleeves, narrow the other at the waist and have a dress with falling shoulders. Just imagination and don't get dirty ... if your fabric seems lean, you decorate, if you don't have money for beads, etc. you take off another garment or embroider or make a ribbon. of 7 you hem, decorate and have a beautiful blouse with wide sleeves. Skirt with elastic. You put it on your shoulders (keep your hands inside), cut for sleeves, narrow the other at the waist and have a dress with falling shoulders. Just imagination and don't get dirty ... if your fabric seems lean, you decorate, if you don't have money for beads, etc. you take off another garment or embroider or make a ribbon. of 7 you hem, decorate and have a beautiful blouse with wide sleeves. Skirt with elastic. You put it on your shoulders (keep your hands inside), cut for sleeves, narrow the other at the waist and have a dress with falling shoulders. Just imagination and don't get dirty ... if your fabric seems lean, you decorate, if you don't have money for beads, etc. you take off another garment or embroider or make a ribbon. of 7