Hello, dear readers! It happened to me that maybe this is the place where I will be able to get the best advice on my complex issue related to my current relationship ... 4 months and a while ago I started a relationship with a great guy. Interestingly, this is exactly what I was looking for. It turned out that it exists and I even like it. He is from my hometown, but has been living in another, bigger one for 6-7 years. When he returned to his grandmother, we saw each other, but nothing more. He is one year younger than me. I'm already a student, he's graduating now. I live in Sq. He is 100 km away from me, but we manage to see each other every day. I've dated other guys, but ... he's my first. I to him too, at the same time strange and very cool;) And we are the first not only in this ... for the first time we say "I love you". And you will judge for yourself that if something happens and we separate, it will be difficult to recover. The thing is that in the autumn he goes to the other side of Bulgaria, he wants to settle there ... and I don't seem to have a place with him. He didn't tell me directly, but I feel it and it hurts a lot, because believe me, I'm doing my best for this relationship, and I will continue to do so. He is still young and he just wants to try everything, to make a living, to be with many more girls ... I doubt he will stay only with me, and he said it himself. He tells me that it is not known until then what will happen and what we will think ... but he seems to be saying it just so that I don't suffocate, because I often do. Do I remember that after the summer everything ends - I start crying. I want to concentrate on the present good moment, and not think about the future, but I fail. I will be happy for you to help me ... Should I continue the relationship or end it now, to hurt a little Is it worth sacrificing, even if the end is nasty? ... Thank you in advance :)
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So far so good, you will have others :))) Next
Hmm ... life follows .. after it again! :) It will be naughty to leave you! ... What kind of love will he have if he forgets about you? ... It's good that you're first, but does the number matter? !! ... For someone, to have one / one is not enough for them and then they want more and more! ... Nowhere is it said that it is obligatory to have several :)) Personally, in my opinion, one / one would be enough, as long as the love is strong and you love each other, so that nothing is able to separate you; ) What is the distance, for some even time has not been able to erase love from their hearts. So ... if he is ready to leave you because he is going far, then this is his opinion about you and your love, then his love for you is so strong !!! So, he was a virgin, he saw, as they say, through you: D He grew up! ... And now to look insatiably for others? !! ... Unpleasant for him! ... When you don't see the treasure you have and don't appreciate it, you lose it and later regret it! But ... obviously the trick is to shake your head and then wonder what and why he / she had. In other words, your friend will be stupid if he leaves you so easily! ... Well ... from here you have two ways, either to get to the end of what you have, to the very exhaustion, at least you will be left with good memories, or to stop from now on! ... :) Look, .. there is some wisdom in his words! He rightly told you that it is not known what you will think and what will happen, but what love it will be if it is influenced by what it would be! If he loves you he will find a way to be with you! I guess he's uncomfortable too, that's why he doesn't raise the issue! ... But you are not just children to dodge, you have the right to know what will happen, what to expect! ... So don't be like that, but talk to him! . .. Is the only solution to go far! What? Only there will be a realization! Or something else, and you? Couldn't you follow him? mmm ... :) There are many solutions, but what are you and he able to do to keep your relationship? !! :) Think carefully! ... Ehh ... it's not easy to forget, to snatch your boiling love at all! :)) But it's easiest to break up with him, or he with you! ... Then it's even easier to go with others. In my opinion ... together you can think of a way to continue :) If not, if he does not agree, then there is nothing to bother about him! ... Is it worth crying for a man who will wave his hand at you and leave you! ... Not worth it! ... You know? If it turns out so, at least you will have every reason to end :) Life offers many opportunities, of all the work only he loses! Wherever you go he will hardly find you in another! ... (Who doesn't like something, just write it down why, and not as a coward to hide behind his voice :) PS Who wants to ask me a question or say something. He can do it completely ANONYMOUSLY on [BREACH OF THE RULES] :) No registration required. I guarantee there will be answers. ~ winterfire ~
I think you should give this relationship a chance to develop. You are in the beginning when not everything is clear. Well, there is something else, you are still young and it is normal for your relationship to end. But why not wait to see how things turn out? !! There are no guarantees for anything in life ... today we are happy, tomorrow our world may collapse in seconds. It's not worth giving up in the beginning because of some stupid fears. Whatever happens, no matter how things develop, it must happen. Be patient, be mysterious, be his seductress, from whom he wants more and more. Try it, and if you see that it doesn't make sense, then let it go from your life. There will always be such moments, we meet some people, we part with others. I started philosophizing a lot, for which I apologize, but I hope I made you think and make the right decision for yourself. :) Doriana
Give your relationship a chance ... you really don't know what you're going to think then ... why are you bothering for a moment that hasn't come yet and you're afraid that you're even inclined to end it now, so that it hurts less. How do you know if it will hurt later, if he won't invite you to go with him, if during these months you won't fall in love with someone else. Think only for today, for the here and now. Tomorrow is a mystery!