Hello, I've had a question for a long time and I think it's time to ask myself in plain text: I'm a boy, 23 and my room is full of ... toys. {* _ *} It's not cluttered ... but there are strollers, plush phantasmagorias and stuff on all the shelves. I haven't been in a lot of men's rooms, I don't know how it is, so I ask ... what would a girl really think if she went inside M.P.P. I repeat: not many, but many :)
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Look, for me, "a lot" is more than "a lot." It's obviously the other way around for you. Well, get rid of those toys, you are already 23 years old. I hope at least it doesn't turn out that you also play with them :))) If they have any memories, stuff them in a box and in the basement. But
I don't have a basement ... I stuffed what I can, but it filled up everywhere: D I don't play with them, but I like them (especially the strollers) and these plush ones are my memory from different trips ... I just like them: / M.
I would also tell you to lose them, but if you care so much about them ... :) You are a man after all and I will be direct with you. It's infantile. The fact that you're wondering means that girls didn't come into your room very often, right? And the reason is not that they know that you have plush toys and strollers, but in your very behavior / attitude / views. I don't know if you'll understand what I'm trying to tell you. Ralph
You like your things, don't you? Obviously yes, once you keep them there. Then why worry about who will like what or not? It's like clothes ... I go on a date and I think those clothes aren't good enough for the one I'm going to meet. Well, if he doesn't like them, who knows what he'll think of me. Oops ... that's not the case. If the person in question likes me, he will like the things about me. I will like the way I hold my spoon. And if he doesn't like me, he won't like that either ... It's like removing my books from the library, because someone might not like them ... a mistake. Don't try to please yourself artificially. As cliché as it sounds, try to like and accept yourself. Then and only then will others accept you.
I'm a girl, it's more normal for me, maybe. But mine got tired of catching dust on my beds, sofas and shelves, I put them in boxes and that's it. Now from time to time I take them out, stuff them a little and back on the boxes.
Ralph, I understand you very well, but my demeanor and mannerisms have nothing to do with the thing ... I collect them because I'm a collector and because I like and respect the work of the people in the trinkets (even though they come off a conveyor belt in China). there is a dose of nostalgia or romance in the past when we were little and our lives were in these little models of the 'big life' and our fantasies about it. now that these fantasies are hard everyday and daily struggle for supremacy over hardships, it's nice if you can even go back there for a while - in childhood and dreams :) eg, there is no girl I knew who did not enter my room one by one or other occasion. but they are friends and they won't say anything, that's why I posted the topic here - someone else's opinion ... well, anyway: /
Nobody says to remove absolutely everything, but most of it. Personally, if I enter your room, I will be intrigued by strollers, but plush toys have always reminded me of a girl's room, not that a boy can't have one, but not that the room is full of them. Almost every thing has a sentimental value, but that doesn't mean we have to dive into them. You can put them in boxes and send them to parents / grandparents - they will keep them and you will always be able to look at them and remember the good moments. On the other hand, you can give them to a children's home. They collect dust and space from you, but for some children who have nothing anyway, it will be a great gift. It's your decision, but I would do it the second way. GD
To the author: I do not want your topic to become a controversy between me and you. But I just wanted to tell you that I understand you too. I just don't understand why you have plush toys. I also keep some "valuable" strollers and airplanes from my childhood. :))) They bring back a lot of memories really. As for the Chinese trinkets, they have always been my weakness .... I constantly buy different boxes from the places where I have been (they are my weakness), I also like knives ... and what not. :) But it's weird that you have exactly plush toys, otherwise I know all sorts of weird things collecting things that you wouldn't even think of collecting. Ralph
Ralph, there are presents, and there are only 4 - a moose from Alaska, a badger from Wisconsin, um ... "spongebob" - he's a crazy ** pele ...: D knowing that I took these things from the other world and are among the few things that remind me, my heart does not allow me to just throw them. as if you forget yourself: / M.
I would be happy to see someone with toys in the room. Most are done at the big job, and I have in my one bun, which is 17 years old and the poor thing is almost falling apart, a huge pink bear and a few smaller bunnies, pigs, Yori and blah blah. You don't care what they think, you're cool:}} mosh
Why are you worried, these are your memories! Once you don't want to part with them, keep them. The girl who will be with you, if she really loves you, will accept it as completely normal! When I met my friend and went to visit him, I saw that he also has various toys-memories. We soon cleaned up and he offered to throw them away or give them to someone, but since I know they have a sentimental value for him, I flatly refused. And what's wrong with our children playing with them after a while? So keep them and don't care at all !!!