Hi, I'm 14 and the boy I love is 21! We know him and I know that he feels something for me too! He is a student and I soon found out that he is a boyfriend with a girl from my class! I was very sick! You would probably say that these are children's things, but I really love it! When I told my sister, she told me that he didn't want the other one for something serious and I had nothing to worry about, but whenever I saw her talking on the phone, I knew she was with him and I wanted to cry a lot. I despair, but everyone tells me to fight for it and that I will win it! Some people even tell me that when we meet I confess my feelings to him, I tell them that if I look at him I can't tell him, and they tell me to admit it to him on the chat, but I don't know whether to admit it to him or wait for him. to look for me alone what to do?
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Tell him how you feel - this is the only way to know if he is interested in you. However, if you find out that he is holding on to his girlfriend - back off, the "battle" is lost; you will meet someone who will hold on to you and love you. And - one more thing - if it happens that you win it, and he dumps the other one, don't be cruel to her, don't advertise with your victory, I'm sure you already know what pain is ....
You're 14 and he's 21. Can't you deal with some your age? And I am 100% sure that he wants only one of you ... and you can tell me that you know him and he is not like that ... but you are deceived and you are wrong! If you're going to let him go, because he only wants one of them to date a girl your age, so if you're going to let him go, go with him, admit your feelings! And whether you let him go is only your decision! And remember, if you plan to do it, do it only if you are ready !!! Don't do it just to get your attention. I deviated a bit from the topic, you want an opinion - I think you did it (admit your feelings to him when you see him). Success! And if something happens between you, tell and love each other a lot! ;]
I will advise you to admit your feelings for him! If he likes you too, you better admit your feelings. Something could happen. RISK!
There will probably be someone your age who will truly love you, and you will pass him by, why? And your man is a complete idiot! How can you go out with kids like you! You have not seen anything from life and there is so much in front of you, and it has long passed in your way! If he is now 14 years old, then he has not learned anything from the lesson of life! Just exposing yourself as a muffin maker! You are a child, he should be a man, which he obviously is not! Sorry, but it's true! Yours is a complete parody! One day you will understand it if you wait your time and deal with people who are not sheep! You are still a child! Don't think you've seen things! This has just begun! And there is a natural order they go through! It was obviously wrong and misunderstood for him! But you can go the right way!
Don't admit any feelings, no BGN 5 to him - he must be a pedophile!
No, he's not a pedophile :) I haven't confessed my feelings to him yet! Thank you very much for the advice! If something happens I will write to you!
MILICA, WHAT CAN I TELL YOU, EXCEPT, HE IS FIGHTING FOR HIM. ACKNOWLEDGE HIS FEELINGS BUT BE CAREFUL NOT TO BE HURTED I AM 17 AND I KNOW WHAT THE FEELING IS. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT BUT YOU HAVE TO ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, OTHERWISE YOU CAN LOSE HIM FOREVER ...... FIGHT, FIGHT FOR HIM !!!!!!! GOOD LUCK