Hello. My son is in the 2nd grade and has been studying with the same teacher since the first grade. At the first parent-teacher meeting, the lady recommended (I was not present, but my father was there) a private study room where the teaching was excellent. Then the problems started. Instead of starting with the first lessons of the sections, they go to the last ones, where the exercises are. Of course, in this case, the child can not answer the questions. Additionally gives such homework assignments. Once the child is confused enough to try to find the answers without knowing them, she starts teaching them the first lessons. I try to explain the lesson to him at home, but he is deeply immersed in all sorts of other approaches and is even more confused. In the next section, I decided to advance the lady a little to save the child from confusion. Yes, but no - the lady scolded another girl, to whom his mother probably acted like me and prepared him in advance. If I contact the district inspectorate to check the learning process (I could not be competent because I do not have a document certifying that I have completed primary education) there are 2 options. First - to establish that everything is fine. And second - to decide that there are violations in any method. But I think that a person advertising a private classroom in the beginning would not adjust his way of teaching in a favorable direction for students. Even more so if there is any benefit from this study room. I don't blame her, because it doesn't matter to me where else and how many private lessons she gives, but I want the child to receive a competent teaching attitude, which even if it doesn't give him a lot of knowledge, at least not to confuse him to the point in which it is difficult then to make the right decision. What would you do?
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Talk to the teacher first, and if she doesn't change her approach, to the school principal. Only then can you contact the inspectorate. Anyway, doesn't your child have an after-school classroom and it's completely free? Why is it necessary to give money for private lessons at such a fragile age. And you are an educator.
Move it to another school best. :)
Maybe it's better to look for another school by going in advance and checking how the teachers in the other schools are and sharing the problem with them.
In each class at the first parent meeting, primary school teachers are required to state the school's ability to study. If the school does not have a state study hall, the parents are offered a private one. The possibility of a teacher giving an exercise before passing the lesson seems impossible to me. Do you have no doubt that your child was not careful in class? Even if you send the inspector for an inspection, an inspector will go to the school, enter the class and the teacher will teach normally, as is the order. There will be no violations! As you will work if your boss is on your head, so will she work. In your place, I would first go to the teacher to ask what I can do to help my son get a better education. If it is done on being hit with a wet rag I will premtori term my child to another school.
It is better to contact RIE, it is more important for the child to learn the material, because then everything is based on it. The more silent you are, the worse. In Bulgaria we always think that if we leave things like this everything will be fine, we do not want to quarrel with anyone, in the case of the teacher, so as not to affect the child and the teacher to harass him ...
In theory, there are many possibilities, but in practice it is not. You just have to take care of your son a lot at home and help him as much as you can.
Talk to other parents, it's not good to be alone, because if no action is taken and this teacher is someone's "man", then think what kind of malice will be poured on your child's head. It's different to be a few, then you are a "force". And the warrior himself often loses battles. After several parents get together, go to the principal. Explain how things are, express your concern and hint at a complaint to RIE. It will be good if you know the name of the head of the RIE directorate in your city and mention it, for example "please take measures so that we do not get a complaint to (the name of the boss)". All the directors in the city know him, yet he is the one "above them." If the teacher in question is a human being, the principal may have no effect, but then carry out the threat and file a collective complaint. Request a parent-teacher meeting with the principal. This is my advice, I hope I helped. Again, do not take action on your own, as this may affect your child.
Isn't there a free class at the school? If there is, it is better for the child to visit her. If not, talk to a teacher about the problems, if it turns out that it is her fault and she does not want to realize it, it is best to write the child off from the private school.
And don't leave it at that, ma'am. She may have the appropriate education, but from any of her ideas, she has no right to mislead children, to change the system of the educational process and even to pretend to be an inventor. The program was so busy that the dear children were left without a childhood. Add to that the fact that they hang around the clock at school, when there will be time for contact with a parent-child or no time for games at all. It's hellishly stressful, and they get pretty tired. Everything has its limits, and she was obviously not born to be a teacher. Unite all the parents and sing it in the inspectorate, and it will not be bad if you show a group opinion on the issue, if you will and with a signature from the principal.
I don't see what the problem is ... Are you the teacher in the case or not? If you can replace it / which I deeply doubt / -success. If she teaches at this school and she has not been fired - then the woman is doing a good job and there is no need for someone to shine in her classes. Your son and his peers are still young and it is normal for them to grasp the material more slowly and their minds to be elsewhere than in lessons and homework. We've all been like this ... Don't rule over the poor child like that ...
First talk to the teacher and find out exactly what the teaching style is and if your child continues to have problems then you can move him to another class or even to another school. There is no point in contacting the inspectorate, they are as quick as they are to make an inspection ... and the school year will be over! And separately, that the same teacher will teach your child next year as well, so if she finds out that you have requested the examination and are challenging the teaching methods, your child may also have problems. So think of another solution to the problem.
And why doesn't anyone ask themselves what will happen to the child after his parents come into conflict, not to mention conflict, with the teacher? In today's schools, everyone is tied up like a gut, and I don't think there's any point in unraveling things higher. Neither the director nor the inspector will delve into the profits of the private study halls. They are also in this manger!
Well, talk to the lady. Go even a few parents and explain the situation. She may think that this will make the children think for themselves about the solution of the tasks or will provoke some more creative approach in them in this way. Maybe that's why he does. But really, it's quite confusing for elementary school kids who don't have established habits. It is much clearer for them to get the explanation for solving first and then to solve examples related to the corresponding already explained theory. After all, she also has an interest in the children being calm and the parents happy with her work. Moreover, the study room is also private. If the children are stressed and nervous, no parent would want to send their child there and she loses. Usually in private forms of education the voice of the parents is strong and decisive. So,
Don't write nonsense! The schools are municipal. Private classrooms are opened by the municipality in the schools and your money goes to the municipality to rent a room, etc. Do you think that the municipality will bribe a primary school teacher to recruit more children for a classroom? The only trick of the teacher from the private classroom is that the teacher in the classroom will not be unemployed. Eventually, if they are friends, her friend will have a job. But all this can not affect the learning process.