Hello! I'll start by saying that there is a boy I like very much. He is kind, funny, sweet and extremely smart. He loves to read and we generally have a lot in common. He compliments me, looks at me, smiles at me and invites me to go out with him or sometimes we get together in common company. He writes to me, calls me ... it sounds like he likes me too, but I don't think so. He is a few years older than me. We do have a difference, but for me it's not as big a problem as it is for him. I think that largely stops him and even though we go out, he prefers not to get serious with someone smaller. He is quite open to new acquaintances and talks to people. We met him in a store, we talked and it turned out that my close friends were also his close friends, so we started going out. I have noticed, that when we are in a group and there are other friends of ours, he only looks at me, but when we go out for a walk in a more public place, he is always ready to look at or meet a new chick. I don't understand how he "encloses" me, but with the other eye he is with another girl. I'm worried it's not the boys who are players and just know how to control a girl's head. I don't want to be another delusion, but apart from that, there seems to be something more in his attitude towards me. He is the boy I had the most in common with, and I like him very much and I can't stop thinking about him. I don't want to give it up, but I definitely don't want to suffer. He inspires me a lot and I am happy to see him, which is almost every day. My question is :
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You can also have 10 things in common with someone who is actually a fraud and abuser. For example ... Get rid of the fact that common things between two people (boy and girl) mean love. This is a complete lie. And that you have to bond with someone because you have something in common. What in common? Do you listen to the same music? This is not love. And just because you're smart and read books doesn't mean you can love. Love is not learned from books and is not some kind of higher education. There are many thieves and serial killers who are very intelligent. Stop thinking that being intelligent means that you can love. This is a complete lie. If you want to know if he will be by your side and really love you, you have to commit ... Not to hug and say "I love you", but just to start moving together, to be with one word, to create a relationship to find out if he will become love ... not if he will become, but to see if he really loves you, or just play theater for sex after 2-3 months. Having this stimulus ... everyone can and with pleasure incarnates in the great lover ... so the things you do are complicated. Relationships, likes, outings, etc. It is full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For the purpose of sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated. likes, outings, etc. That's why it's full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated. likes, outings, etc. That's why it's full of failed relationships. Because 90% of the commitments are pure theater. For the purpose of sex in the end. That's what the boys are hoping for. It's complicated.
"I'm worried it's not the boys who are players and just know how to own a girl's head." - There is no man who does not want to have many women. It's the same with women, everyone wants to try something foreign, so live in the momentary happiness, and what will happen tomorrow, then you will think.
Try ... I'm in a similar situation as you .. I like a girl too, but I'm in the role of the boy she described. Only where I'm a real "player", and I don't even try to hide it. But a few days ago I confessed everything to the girl I have feelings for ... Try it too .. See just be yourself, pour yourself everything, if it doesn't work, then at least you will know that you tried, and if it works you will be happy . And don't listen to what they tell you, to play different games ... Honestly, honestly, if he has feelings for you, then he will tell / show you .... Boy of 21 ..! :-))
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To number 3: Would you take down other women if you were in a relationship?
It was raining today. Anyone can play theater for a month or two. To pretend to be very kind, good, honest and responsible. The theater can last until the 3-4th month, at most the fifth. After more than half a year, a year, the real face of man is already visible. That is what it really is. When the initial phase of falling in love passes, 2-3 months, the glasses fall off. If you notice something you don't like, don't expect it to change. If he is a womanizer, he will stay that way and swear to you a hundred times. If he drinks, it will be difficult to give up. If there are wide fingers, it will not become tight. These stories of change are only in movies and books. Someone will be like that for so many years, and don't expect that when he meets you, he will magically change and become exemplary and faithful. If he speaks badly about his ex, and he is still unappreciated, do not believe it. Yes, there are naughty women, but he is common. At least one of them couldn't be human, could she? If you look at others, the chance to stop is small. It's just that people rarely change.