Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl. My best friend and I have known each other for 5 years and we are from the same class. Since then we have been inseparable, we spend time together, I share everything and I appreciate each other a lot. Last week, when I was in them, she told me that she was bisexual. I don't mind that ... on the contrary, I support people with different sexual orientations with both hands. I also said that there is nothing wrong with that and that if she is happy I am too and that for me it doesn't matter, but ... there is always a "but". She told me that she had recently fallen in love with a girl and I smiled and waited for her to tell me, then it was the moment when she told me that she loved me more than a friend. I didn't know how to react or what to do. Just to note that I am interested in the opposite sex and have a boyfriend. We haven't seen each other since, but we'll go out tomorrow. If you can advise me how to behave, whether to talk about it or not wait for the topic at all. I don't want to lose her as a friend ... I appreciate, respect and love her a lot, but not in the same way. Please help me. Thanks in advance! WITHOUT EVIL COMMENTS PLEASE!
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I think talk to her and just explain to her what you feel, namely that you do not have such feelings for her as she hopes .. But also explain that you do not want to lose her as a friend .. And after the conversation you I advise you to go out somewhere and just pretend that nothing happened, do something fun, so she and you will not feel weird .. :) And good luck! Girl at 14 :)
Dear girl, after you hold on to your friendship, and you have a boyfriend, you should be aware of that, so tell her that this will be your relationship as before. If that's what you want. Don't let yourself lose your boyfriend or girlfriend. After all, you are old enough and I think you acted very wisely and maturely, telling her in your eyes that you do not mind. Don't get cold to her and doubt, she won't do anything at this stage, especially if you meet somewhere in a public place. I think so because people like her who like people of the same sex are even more careful in what they say and do. if it goes too far, then put it in place, but I don't think there will be a need. In time, you may remember what she confessed to you and laugh, but now it is a strong feeling for her. If it doesn't just carry you.
Well, say quite calmly and friendly that you are not interested in women and would like you to be friends and share, but nothing more. I strongly advise you to consider the option to diversify a little with your friend and her. I guarantee that he wants and will be grateful to you for years for this experience, and so does she. It's hard to tell if something is good if you haven't tried it, especially for you women, where "trying" is so gentle and soft, unlike homosexual men. Try it - you might like it! USA
Author: Thank you all for the advice! Until №3. If you offer a threesome, I'm afraid I'll disappoint you, I only like boys, I've talked to my friend about threesomes before and he likes them, and she hates my boyfriend, so I highly doubt she'll agree: e. But otherwise thanks for the advice and the suggestion!