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What Should We Be In Bed For A Woman!

By lilahnight September 27, 2020 12 answers Last updated September 27, 2020

My question is to the girls / women, but it would be good to hear a male opinion on the matter. My question is: “What should men be in bed for a woman?” Every girl / woman has a fantasy that no one will ever share it with (even her boyfriend), here is where you can share your fantasies and with them the answers to my question. How would you like the love game to start, in what setting and everything (every little detail) .. The man should be nice to you, touch you and kiss you everywhere or .. start you at the door. What do you women want .. how should 1 man approach to give you complete pleasure.

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tanner.tolbert answered · September 27, 2020

   Every woman is different and has her own different preferences. The most important thing is to listen to the woman's signals and take care of her pleasure. Otherwise one loves this, another that. Many men make the mistake of thinking that their ex-girlfriend's erogenous zones will work with the current one. You just have to start with each woman from the beginning and not get angry if there are different preferences from your ex, for example.

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lux.toys answered · September 27, 2020

   For me, the ideal act of love looks like this: It starts with time spent together in a pleasant way - cinema, restaurant, walk. This relaxes me and sets me up for greater intimacy. Then, kisses, then, already in bed, the man begins to skillfully and persistently lick my clit until he drives me crazy. Then I reciprocate. In the end, we make stormy love in various poses, but not very exotic. And to your question what should be the man in bed - attentive, but also persistent, resilient, but also enterprising, gentle but also passionate.

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babaosamie answered · September 27, 2020

   My only condition to the man to give me even complete pleasure is - to be in love with him! Then just a touch and a kiss is able to shake me! If we talk about a longer relationship and technique in sex, I am not one of those who keep their fantasies silent, on the contrary. I share them with my friend, with whom we have been together for 8 years and we are getting even better. We watch porn together, discuss these things and have fun. Like most women, I love French love, giving and receiving too. I think a person grows up both in life and in sex. When we accumulate years, when we have at least a few partners and relationships, the time comes when we meet our man. When there is love, sex can be great, but we also need to fit in, not be shy, have the same thinking and understanding about sex, then things happen. If a woman is open to her partner and is not ashamed to share her desires and what she likes, he will hardly remember. Or, as №1 says, he will try things tested on another, but there is no guarantee of success on the next. First of all, two people should have a relationship, not jump in bed just for sex, the pleasure will not be complete in my opinion.

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motherbimbo answered · September 27, 2020

   I do not agree at all that every woman had a fantasy and would not share it. If I don't share it with my boyfriend, what's the point for me? I share these things. Others do not. Everybody is different. The question is childish, sorry, author. It's like asking what chefs need to be to like their dishes? One person-one taste, another person-another taste, etc. There must be something unifying, but still, the question is too general and somehow childish. I agree with №1. w, 29

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wojespn answered · September 27, 2020

   In principle, every woman is different! All my friends so far have liked to be gentle with them, kisses, caresses and everything. I myself hate to be rude and brutal with a girl, for me this is taboo and not normal, it is not OK to behave like that with a girl !!! I always follow the same sequence ... well, almost always, I diversify a little bit in different situations and girls. Here's what I'm doing and I think the next steps will benefit many people who are looking for an answer on how to satisfy their girlfriends: * For me, sex without oral love is not full-fledged and real sex: 1. I start with a movie or dinner. 2. When we return to us, I flirt, court and take proper care of the girl in question, ie I predispose her. 3. Then, when we start and help with undressing. 4. I don't leave the girl completely undressed, and only in a bra and panties. 5. I start kissing her gently and passionately on the lips. 6. Then I move to her ear and start whispering tender words that every self-respecting woman wants to hear (for example: how beautiful you are or you are the only one) and finally I bite the soft part of the ear lightly and gently. 7. I go down her neck, I kiss her there, the women just go crazy;) 8. I go down to her breasts, but I don't start with her nipples right away. At first I irritate her a little by covering her whole breasts and only finally I go to the nipples. 9. The girl will only show you when to go down (she will goosebumps). 10. When I'm done with her breasts, I run my tongue over her belly. 11. I deliberately pass the vagina to irritate her a little and go to her feet. Women go crazy if you run your tongue along the inside of their thighs;). 12. Finally I reach the vagina: first you lick it well all over and then focus on the clitoris. 13. Next, I think everyone knows;) PS I'm a 16-year-old boy and have been having sex since I was 14 years old. Please without hatred, I hope I helped at least a little :))).

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osamaalshammari1978 answered · September 27, 2020

   Ha, if he wasn't so small, I'll just jump on you, only in which movie he's watching it. Don't get me wrong - at times your tactics are right, but I don't think you're writing from personal experience. Otherwise on the topic - it depends on the mood. What he described number 5 is definitely great for a first date, every time, right? I love diversity. Today slowly and gently, tomorrow from the door for the feet, another day rougher. As much as you like one thing, repeated 100 times is no longer the same.

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akimary answered · September 28, 2020

   As a girl, I will tell you what I love ... To drive a man crazy, I always want him to be gentle. Let's start with nice, real kisses, and get to my vagina by starting to gently lick it all over, then a little faster and so on .. in a few words I want them to be gentle with me, I do not like fast and rough sex

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underarmourid answered · September 28, 2020

   Women love tenderness, not fucking like wild animals. True, slow sex gets boring, from time to time and faster pace is pleasant, but in general as much tenderness. And we love oral love.

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shyncguy answered · September 29, 2020

   Last care for the woman is what you will be in bed. It is much more important for them before and after bed. Here / in this topic / they pretend to be interesting, but in the other topics it is clear that the bed is their last concern, except for a generation / of course / and the interest from the first attempts. The rest of the time, sex is a bargaining chip and a means of acting out and dominating the man. The fact that they have "nymphomaniac" impulses from time to time only confirms what I have described above. The fact is that a woman can months without sex. Leave her for months without perfume, mirror, comb, makeup ... And in the moments when they want, everything is individual - some want slow, others fast, some gently, others harder, etc. Some change their preferences during of sex itself. If he doesn't tell you (or show you) how he wants to, you ask. If the connection is permanent, it's rarely a question - you get to know each other over time and things fit together. But their greater pleasure is before and after bed ... There are few problems in bed ...

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daddylovestinypussy answered · September 29, 2020

   If it's my favorite, who I'm terribly in love with and we already have a sexual relationship, I have no problem starting from the door. Even this brought adventure and spontaneity into the relationship. But as for someone new - you need a great game. However, you have to show that you don't have it for a one-time fuck. The predispositions are clear, but alcohol, roses, dancing, hugs and other caresses are not always enough. A man should smell like a man, no matter what we talk about. Some go too far and get carried away - they raise suspicions of over-emotionality. As for sex itself - ALWAYS try to satisfy your partner as well. It is very humiliating for both of them, if there is a situation in which the girl is fucked, he falls asleep and she spins a hand. For a girl, the best sex is the one after which she blushes at the thought.

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saipallavi.senthamarai answered · September 29, 2020

   11, when you're terribly in love is clear. A woman's normal sex experience is interesting - not when you hate terribly or love terribly.

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kinetic9 answered · September 30, 2020

   I've been with my wife for 10 years and I still can't always figure out what she wants me to be in bed NOW with her :) Every time different moods ... Most of the time we meet, but sometimes we just don't get along. P.S. We have an extremely regular sex life - at least once a day