Hello! I would like to share. There was a girl who was my best friend. About a year passed and we quarreled. We broke up. However, I love her very much and after our quarrel I had stopped eating and sleeping. I started cutting and harming my health. I don't want to do things like that, but I couldn't live like that. I am constantly sad and depressed. I often cry and I don't stop thinking about her. But now things have changed. After we quarreled, she forgot about me. No he cares and recently caused a scandal and I think he already hates me. I don't want to experience all these feelings that I felt while we were separated. I don't want to feel anything for her and I behave the same way she treats me, but it hurts a hell of a lot because I still love her. I want everything to stop, but what can I do? I keep telling myself that I don't love her, that I don't want her, but it's not like that! Too many people tell me that everything I do is not worth it. Is that correct? Would I always? it even helped her hate me. In the coming days we are not even 'hello' because he hates me anymore. What to do, please help me!
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I can't understand by "girlfriends" boyfriends or just girlfriends? If it's one, then talk, sorry, say how much you love her :). If it's the other way around, talk to each other again and tell yourself "let's not fight over nonsense", apologize and try to fix things. :)
Who is to blame for you arguing? Don't hurt yourself for a person who doesn't give a damn about you. Talk to her and if she really doesn't care about you, just leave her. Otherwise you look weak. Life is too short to hurt ourselves, thinking we'll have time to get better - because we don't.
In my opinion, if you have been very good friends for a long time, you should talk to her and get along. It's not worth fighting. It's hard to find real friends.
Up to 1. well only girlfriends and up to 2. well actually not on her anymore? cares about me. Meaning in this listen I'm weak obviously.
So am I, (I had an argument with my best friend, after her and with her company! Not that I had an argument with the company and but they just hated me after we had an argument with her, now I found a new one, and they also did; (I don't know what to do, I just cry all day, I don't know who to tell, I live only with my father, who works all day to support me, my mother is 450 km away from me, in Sofia Well, I'm from Varna; (I can't even share it with my mother ... my heart stings, I don't see the meaning of my life anymore and I'm only 12 years old, instead of playing and having fun, experiencing my childhood , I am closed in on myself, I have a dog, I only play with it and nothing else; (
If she avoids you so much, just stop begging her. Maybe he really doesn't want you to be friends anymore. And about cutting. You better stop, I'm causing it too, but I'm thinking of stopping. // G-StarRAW //
I'm the same! I'm just arguing with my girlfriend! She insults me, makes me dirty, but I still love her !!! She does a lot of bad things to me, but I can't leave her because we are friends from 1- your class and I feel bad when she's not with me. She doesn't write her homework and copy from me, she makes me help her with absolutely everything and I do it because I love her. I do everything for her and she just watches how to quarrel with me! When we quarrel she writes me "I hate you", "I'm tired of you", "Never write to me again", etc.! If my girlfriend continues to play with me I will dump her! If she doesn't want to be your friend, she obviously doesn't need you anymore!